Needed to hear this, I’m the eldest daughter so it’s so hard for me to watch ANYONE suffer 😭
2025-08-06 21:19:32
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ndumisondebele686 :
This goes for girlfriends too!
2025-08-07 13:37:50
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MissB :
Helping loved ones every time they're stranded, creates dependency and by the time you say no, they become resentful.
2025-08-11 00:40:05
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Stamper TrustGod :
I've mastered this long time ago. 🤣😂 They even say ngine nhliziyo embi.
2025-08-06 18:44:01
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Lebogang Malatse :
so basically, u are saying we must be ANC
2025-08-07 14:55:28
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Dims_M🙏🏽❤️ :
Rescue syndrome will lead you to missery and self inflicted traumas.. Takers/dependents are not familiar with boundaries...
2025-09-15 04:15:26
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Leage Legae :
“I didn’t ask for your help.” Is the hate his talking about
2025-08-08 06:26:56
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Mama Adea :
My ex was mad at me because he needed petrol cash to go to work and I didn't help because he drank for 4 days a sna taba how I felt
2025-09-14 02:23:02
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kholiz :
Tough love . Agreed we are not Jesus we can’t save everyone including our loved ones
2025-08-07 06:01:17
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Nelisa Simons Qalinge :
This is how strict I am,and I want no one to help either if I’m being careless and irresponsible!
2025-08-06 12:20:51
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Nandi. :
This thing is even spiritual. At times I have come to learn you may be interrupting someone’s karmic journey.
2025-09-10 20:14:52
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MoG 🇿🇦 :
Saying "NO" should be Normalised... 💯
2025-09-15 13:45:36
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tesler-user :
I use to empty my bank account to 0 just to help. I will leave my own needs and push it forward just to help. one Day we got into an argument. this same person told me I have never done anything for them, if I have anything am doing 4 them I shld stop. and whatever else u think u've done no1 forced you to do it.
it's been 3 months since I stopped talking to that person am my bank account is thankful for it. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
2025-09-15 21:39:56
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Leticia Meleki :
Someone on here said we shouldn’t pay for other people’s indiscipline and bad decisions.
2025-09-16 07:14:29
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CodeConPanda :
I've learnt to let people suffer because when it was my turn, they let me suffer💀
2025-09-03 14:39:37
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Kibojera Jessy :
'Don't set your self on fire to keep other people warm' that's the quote I am never gona forget from.
2025-09-11 16:27:46
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Charlie :
People have fun with their money and want to be responsible with your money 😭
2025-08-08 16:13:51
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ofentsethato❤️ :
I wanted to offer to buy a man 2kg chicken when I saw him holding two thighs tray at shoprite.. Tell me why did I see the same man going to ShopRite liquor after buying two as 1, 2 chicken thighs and buying alcohol.? Imagine if I took my last money to help him.. childhood trauma will make us suffer
2025-08-07 11:57:25
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Lebogang :
My life became so peaceful as soon as i stopped getting into people's businesses.😂
2025-08-07 05:35:00
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🦋 :
It’s called character building 😅
2025-08-07 17:59:26
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NaomiKgadiwaAi🐊🐒🇿🇦 :
“People need to suffer at the altar of their choices”
2025-08-15 09:59:36
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Thabang 🇿🇦 :
this thing is simple. people need to learn to be responsible.
2025-08-13 10:26:52
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Izithelo Wellness :
Took me a while, I just watch from a distance now.
2025-08-15 11:38:21
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Jabari :
you not just block their opportunities for learning you actually block AND absorb their karma
2025-09-13 13:40:51
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