@stefaniecosti: The better you are at your job, the more of a target you are. 🚨 #fyp #law #lawyers #lawyer #work #career #careeradvice #anxiety #MentalHealth #wellbeing #workplace

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bobbyrichards1990
Bobby Richards 1990 :
This is EXACTLY what happened to me in March.
2025-10-01 19:34:18
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be123456789102
I am. 🇪🇺 :
This post will help me keep going today. And tomorrow. Thank you. 🙏🏻
2025-09-30 05:08:08
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jasonjamez79
Jason James :
Bullies don’t hate you because you’re weak. They hate you because you’re strong in ways they’ll never be. You show them what they're not. Your work ethic, consistency, and results put a spotlight on their incompetence, laziness, or lack of value.
2025-08-06 17:41:23
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homedaycarediaries
Taylor | Daycare Diaries :
This is why I left to work for myself 💯
2025-09-22 00:06:42
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smittyirl
Therese :
Applying to other jobs as I’m reading his
2025-09-30 20:39:39
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drea.victoria.reyes
dreavictoriareyes :
Experiencing this now…🙃
2025-09-26 13:29:10
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energy36923
Energy369 :
I’m dealing with this now and I am a stellar employee
2025-09-07 02:28:36
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thecaffeinatedagteacher
Cassie & Birdie :
I have had this happen to me every time I’m on a “teaching team”. They claim I’m not collaborative or team player. I am but i set boundaries and get my job done. It hurts though.
2025-09-28 18:18:09
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global_unicorn501
global_unicorn501 :
Our biggest bully was the top performer. SHE terrorized employees.
2025-09-06 20:05:55
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breeziesmith86
Bri :
Ohhhh the way I identify and have constantly been in high alert at work bc I feel if I get too close to people they will use it against me.
2025-09-21 17:27:14
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kssrox
Kai :
Thank you, I needed to hear this today. 💗
2025-08-28 21:07:45
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joolzme
Jules :
I have lived it. Bullied like a school kid.
2025-08-06 15:53:32
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rewritingme
✧♡✧ :
Can’t agree more. Bullies rarely go after the weak. They go after what unsettles them. Excellence exposes their insecurity.
2025-08-07 04:24:04
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creativesmonastery
creativesmonasterybranch :
actually true
2025-09-15 16:02:22
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humandialogue
Humandialogue :
Guess what? All three managers are ignoring me. When they go low, I go legal. They think I was playing when I said I got an attorney until the EEOC- contacted their legal team. See, those coworkers don’t have legal money- I do. They’re quiet and bothered while I’m collecting evidence… they messed with the wrong one. For so long, others have been crying in silence— I’m the catalyst to their behavior and I’m not backing down.
2025-08-07 00:38:21
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bluestockingt
bluestockingt :
Yep. It’s the whole reason I left my last job after 12 years. The bullies were people who will be there their whole careers and cannot go anywhere else. 🤷🏻‍♀️
2025-08-07 13:10:02
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.i.am.your.queen
🦋🧜‍♀️IT’S_Me_QUEEN🧜‍♀️🦋 :
experienced it before
2025-08-16 13:40:17
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lovethegreenlands
LENE&BREZZY 🇿🇦 :
got retrenched today
2025-08-12 20:11:39
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mykell.sreym
Mykell Sreym :
I’m just reverting to the expression climbing down the ladder,, I’ve been doing warehousing for the last 20 years, it’s either favoritism, or nepotism, I don’t fit their mold, so therefore I’m a threat to them, maybe that’s why I’ve had 10 staffing agency jobs in five years, and a majority of claim, just a temporary layoff(code for getting rid of me)!
2025-08-19 05:49:19
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queen_maorigirl
QUEEN_👑👑🇳🇿🇫🇯 :
Oh that is so my experience in my workplace 🙄
2025-08-30 15:14:28
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sergeantlemonhead
sergeantlemonhead :
When I was in the worst of being bullied by my teammates and boss, my patients and their families were sending in daily kudos about how much they appreciated working with me. It was so funny to hear my boss read those kudos in morning meetings in the most sarcastic snarky voice she could muster up.
2025-08-07 14:27:22
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sometallguy79
lolos757 :
Those that don't work hate the ones that actially do the work. 💯
2025-08-07 18:07:58
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abc25189
ABC :
100 percent true in my case …
2025-08-08 20:21:43
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patrioticvet54b
Patriotic Veteran :
The under proformers tell the toxic personnel (there not leaders) what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear. That’s why they are not held accountable. It’s an ego trip and why top personnel leave!
2025-08-10 21:39:55
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cmb821
Can :
Been my life for the last six years. Documenting does not do much when the top folks are friends with the boss and assistant/bosses bestie. Gets exhausting but seeing a light at the end of the tunnel hopefully. Boss is leaving but the assistant is staying. Let’s see what’s going to happen now.
2025-08-10 14:00:49
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