@farhatgulandam: This msg gives a powerful and accurate insight into the deep connection between identity and behavior. The core idea is that it's not always a motivation issue with most people failing to take the right action-- often it's an identity issue. If who u believe u are doesn't align with what u want to do, ur subconscious will sabotage the effort, not out of malice but out of loyalty to what it knows as "safe." Why this happens? Because the subconscious mind prioritizes safety through familiarity. So, even if a goal is positive (like becoming healthy, wealthy, successful) if ur core identity says "I'm not that person" ur brain sees the goal as a threat. This shows up as procrastination, fear, laziness, or inconsistency -- but it's actually identity protection in disguise. So, what to do instead? Work on becoming the version of u who naturally does the things u want to do. Instead of wondering how to stay motivated, get clear on who u want and need to become. In simpler words, identity shift first, goal second. So, if ur goal is to write a book but ur identity is still "I'm not really a writer", you will never be consistent -- not because u lack discipline but because ur nervous system is rejecting that version of u. Ur final takeaway? Ur life will always match the strongest story u tell urself about who u are. So, upgrade the story for upgraded results. Because if ur story or identity doesn't match ur goals, u will always face resistance, not because u are weak but because u are misaligned.

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Wednesday 06 August 2025 16:28:40 GMT