natalie louise
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Swerve🥇 :
Anxious attachment is literally a passive aggressive control freak
2025-08-08 22:30:05
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johanson732 :
“I’m tired of fighting, I just want peace.” Says every avoidant all the while being the chaos
2025-08-07 02:03:52
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jaywalksin :
Natalie … you described how it played out word for word
2025-08-06 20:32:20
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Ronneth :
Avoidant people should just date each other so they save everyone else from heartbreak and time wasted
2025-08-07 04:40:01
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liv ✧˖°.☪︎.𖥔 ݁ ˖ :
From my experience the anxious partner often does all the reading between the lines to try understand their avoidant partner, but doesn’t receive the same curiosity from the avoidant. So it builds resentment.
2025-08-08 08:48:49
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ennae🇵🇷 :
most avoidants are narcissist so they don't even care about your feelings
2025-08-08 23:52:42
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Sunehra :
An avoidant using more logic instead of tapping into emotion will always lead to the last crashout 😭
2025-08-07 10:30:47
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onethreefive :
i crashed out over him running away from a conflict he created
2025-08-06 19:49:14
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🫥 :
Also, DO NOT be in a relationship if a "where are you?" Text triggers you to the point of break up. Anxious are not the problem, sorry.
2025-08-06 20:27:08
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BB 💛 :
Often the avoidant refuses to communicate…just tell me 💀
2025-08-07 11:09:05
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Tracey Maddox :
This is spot on. I asked for re-assurance because I felt the shift. He definitely took it differently than I intended. Blew it all up.
2025-08-07 00:43:29
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dopestoopstset :
Holding them accountable for what they created by not communicating their emotions and upset at us for communicating ours.
2025-08-07 01:35:31
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Leah 🤍 :
The accuracy of this is insane 🥲
2025-08-08 04:55:16
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Leneciaꨄ :
question, why is it always the anxious ones that are seen as overbearing & have to change themselves and become secure? why can’t the avoidants take accountability for being withdrawn and also try to become secure?
2025-09-14 19:29:47
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YellowDaffodils :
I'm an anxious married to an avoidant for 13 years and it is hard but we're both working on it. We both do love eachother very much and we have done and are doing what it takes to work. I realize we're not the norm, but I do want to say it can work with the right person. It just takes an incredible amount of effort.
2025-08-24 15:36:59
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nina kahn 🔮 :
we NEED to stop calling unloving and uncaring and frankly cruel partners “avoidant” like it’s normal
2025-08-08 10:45:34
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aetsyvariik :
As an anxious, I wasn’t like that always. I gave so much freedom and trusted him blindly. The control from my part began when I discovered he had been cheating. He violated that trust. So how to set boundaries in that setting?
2025-08-07 07:38:31
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Giovanni :
I think I’m an avoidant, and I see a lot of hate in these comments. In my opinion, it’s exhausting having to be the keeper of someone else’s anxious emotions, plus your own. Yes we love our partners, but I expect some emotional self regulation from them as their own person.
2025-08-27 17:42:12
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🌿🌲 :
Never met an avoidant that can communciate clearly on what they want or need. But i get gaslight and villainized for trying to communicate about the behavior.
2025-10-02 02:16:07
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user7861088634915 :
All the anxious people don’t realize how suffocating they are
2025-08-09 02:12:22
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EVee :
“I don’t want to fight” literally same, my feelings aren’t my fists bro like just listen & hold space for me.
2025-08-07 12:45:23
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Kristen Faubion Wahl :
I kept saying it was like speaking two different languages. This is so validating
2025-08-07 02:22:13
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Kdmgabs 🍉 :
I’ve seen so many ppl who were anxious be with the right partner and in that healthy relationship dynamic heal their anxiousness but avoidants ruin and run away from all of their relationships no matter how good it gets. It’s so rare for an avoidant to actually do the work.
2025-08-07 17:06:36
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queenbeelair :
This is so exhausting please don’t go back ladies
2025-09-19 11:53:50
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mingming4444 :
if they want this level of autonomy they shouldn't waste the time of another person's if they want nothing to do with emotionally investing in said person. avoidants are the worst.
2025-08-08 16:33:22
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