@boyfailure99: Freshmen year 😭💔 #relatable #relationships #funny #fyp

MyLittleMaha :

if you're a good partner it stays like this btw

alyssa :

it stays like this if you stay consistent yourself

swaggycache :

“It sTayS liKe tHaT iF uR cOnSiStent/a gOod pArtNer" Not true. If someone has undiagnosed BPD, there’s a high chance they haven’t started the work to regulate or understand their patterns. That will lead to instability, no matter how “consistent” or “good” their partner is. Stop blaming other people’s trauma responses on the person who ends up getting hurt by them. Honestly, I’d bet good money the ones saying this are the same people who cause damage and then turn around and play the victim

Knees Dutz :

Notice that every person in the comments saying “stays like this if…” is diagnosed with bpd AND blames the other person ⚠️

sxg5000 :

100 women vs accountability

🤍 :

Fk I hate me

⟡⟡⟡ :

it was like this then he got avoidant 🙂

brandon250756 :

"stays like this if yr consistent"= I have undiagnosed rampant bpd

justin :

5 years in with a girl with DIAGNOSED bpd and I love her so much

Giselle :

Unfortunately this kind of relationship attracts narcissists

Jam💓 :

As someone with diagnosed BPD. The comments are horrific, but in some cases not wrong. Some men DO step on your triggers on purpose, but controlling your emotions is your job. Your reactions can easily become your man’s triggers. Then yall are cooked

Techno Cat535 :

“If YoUrE a GoOd PaRtNeR iT sTaYs LiKe ThIs” brother I did everything, EVERYTHING RIGHT and I still got cheated on and backstabbed

mason :

y'all in the comments cannot be serious

🚰 :

My boyfriend has bpd and it’s been like this for two years! 😁

꧁ ℌ𝔢𝔞𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔯 𝔉𝔞𝔢𝔯𝔦𝔢 ꧂ :

Probably guilty of this but I’m getting help.

sextilesensations :

BPD is caused by trauma and we are constantly mirroring our partner that’s why the people with bpd in this comment section are so quick to ask you to look in the mirror!

Anomalocaris :

"it sTaYs lIke tHi-" no it doesn't, they resent you and get bored

ozziabl :

people be saying “it stays like this if your consistent” girl YOU also have to be consistent which 90% (exaggerating for the people who will complain) who have BPD will not do

ᴠɪᴄᴋʏ💯 ᵉᵍᵒ :

I hate me

dopamina :

ShaneLHumphrey :

It stays like this if you never make a mistake and perfectly conform to their idealized view of you. Is that so much to ask?

Spencer :

yall instead of making it sound like every person with bpd is bad, maybe try to understand what triggers them, and then if you feel like they aren’t putting in the effort to be a good partner, THEN you can judge them

Emy :

We r magical

ptrifiied :

the fact that the girls with bpd in the comments are blaming YOU is insane