I used to think my problem was trusting the wrong people. But after reading Ego Destruction by Drenn Solace, I realized the real problem was betraying myself just to keep others comfortable. I gave away pieces of my identity to be accepted by people who would’ve never accepted me fully anyway. This book didn’t make me feel like a victim. It made me feel responsible — and from that, powerful.
2025-08-07 19:39:50
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nkosazaneyemvula :
Imagine that madness
2025-08-24 15:45:08
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oluwalopelumi :
No one is talking about how secretive they’re with their phones.
2025-08-09 06:17:40
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SandraRoma70 :
Mine would say. I come home every night. Don't I. I don't go to bars right? He was cheating the whole marriage
2025-08-07 11:54:42
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2025n4ever :
This was the justification for my Narc Husband
2025-08-08 04:43:49
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AnaBanana :
truth! he is now living with his co-worker gf and had children with her and still says he wants his "wife" to come home 😳
2025-08-07 09:16:10
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MelBel Bundridge🦆 :
Accurate . He blamed me for him cheating every dang time too.
2025-08-07 05:42:23
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Tariq :
goodness how did you know
2025-08-23 15:09:53
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esmeldababy1 :
You really know this people,this is what my husband always say
2025-08-07 09:18:16
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TimmyG :
Your spot on. Your observations and knowledge on this topic are second to none, one can only hope it doesn't come from experience. Thank you
2025-08-07 17:16:00
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Sandie :
Yep he would say "I came home to the family" while he was living a double life the whole marriage.
2025-08-07 23:18:07
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AHA :
My husband used to believe and say this
2025-08-07 16:21:38
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nettle beag :
I was told this too.
2025-08-07 06:22:32
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Yogeswary :
exactly what he told me
2025-08-07 09:58:16
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🤡 :
How can I go out!!! 😭😭
2025-08-07 15:30:24
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munchkin042 :
Yep - he still walks into the joint home after being on holiday with his very young girlfriend. Won’t leave.
2025-08-07 08:34:15
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herpride7 :
Sooo true
2025-08-07 09:23:40
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missy m :
he used to tell me as long as there's no woman asking me to create space for her on our bed, I shouldn't complain about a thing. Glad he chased us out of his home.
2025-08-07 16:12:55
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tiamaria :
yup
2025-08-07 06:03:49
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kosy :
Very true
2025-08-07 06:55:16
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Angeli@ :
my ex used to say these things all the time 🙄
2025-08-07 06:42:51
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Royalty_Lioness :
That's what he would say
2025-08-07 19:18:00
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NurseAna12 :
hahaha! literally
2025-08-07 14:55:15
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nyambu :
True
2025-08-07 21:09:25
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