@tinkerkellita: Replying to @laramaskara #narctok #scapegoat #narcissisticfamily #narcissisticabuse #nocontact #narcissisticabuserecovery #cptsdawareness #postseparationabuse #cptsdrecovery #4upage #fyp

Kelly CPTSD & Trauma Ed 🇨🇦
Kelly CPTSD & Trauma Ed 🇨🇦
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Thursday 07 August 2025 16:41:17 GMT
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rachaeljoy1111
Rachael :
This is why I am so glad I didn’t know what the smear campaign was about. I knew it was coming and why I stayed for so long. I completely blocked them all. I know nothing about them anymore. I don’t want to know. I blocked even extended family. I had to protect myself. If I knew what the smear campaign was I might try and defend myself. I blocked them and then deleted their number. I have had weak moments in the past and wanted to set myself up for success.
2025-08-07 20:17:48
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khgenerationjones
KH :
Until the day they die. The abusers get old. You feel guilty. Go back. They get smug. Even right before dying. Scapegoat here. ✌🏼 went through it with the parents
2025-08-07 21:28:01
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rabbitheart08
Lisa 🌻 Marie :
Im done with my mom
2025-08-10 15:19:19
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miarose7330
MiaRose :
Also, they are extreme control freaks so now they going to work even harder to keep control this time so you won't escape again.
2025-08-07 17:01:34
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aprilbergman
April B 💜 CNA :
I’m on team keep moving forward! There is no looking back cause they are not sorry or else it would not have lasted all these years. That’s not love.
2025-08-08 09:13:03
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lei_lei_90
Lei 🦉 :
they are using cops to abuse authority into getting info on me
2025-08-07 23:49:20
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pure.monotheism
Divorce is Halal :
💯💯💯 I cannot believe how you are describing/ explaining it so precisely. Bravo 👏👏👏
2025-08-07 16:52:14
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katiemae800
Katiemae80 :
My daughter wanted to connect and I couldn’t let her go at it alone because they are brutal. But it only lasted like 1 year and 9 months. Going back was such an eye opener though. The abuse was so in my face it was crazy.
2025-09-11 22:22:13
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liisalee3
Liisa Lee :
It gets so much worse- and the siblings pile on.
2025-08-29 15:15:08
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womenofsteam
womenofsteam :
Yah, I at least think my brain is set on staying away forever. Their lose! Alone is better than with them!
2025-08-08 12:46:01
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jsclarkpgh
roadkillsuperman :
The Stepmonster narc was out of picture. I hadn't realized that he was also a Narc. He didn't work on reconciliation but continued to protect the narrative. we remained at low contact. I wish I had remained low contact.
2025-08-07 21:47:17
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consumer_to_creator
Em Free :
Never going back
2025-08-07 17:15:46
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olena.vlasova1
Olena vlasova :
I stopped communicating with my dad 3 years ago but the “news” what he is keeping saying about me reaches me sometimes and it makes me fell I was absolutely right to keep the distance. My relationship with my daughter improved so much during this time - I am not that easily offended now, I don’t suspect people to be false when they say they are sorry, I learned to say no- I don’t use sarcasm and passive aggression all the time I want to set my boundaries- it’s so valuable for me that I won’t let him push me back - he made his choice- I made mine
2025-08-07 18:10:07
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amberjbreland
AmberJBreland :
this happened to me. don't go back 💜🥺 stay strong.
2025-08-07 21:37:46
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mama_thot
Mama Thot :
My parents blamed me so much for the boundaries I made and also the times I was no contact with them. They never missed an opportunity to basically say I was wrong for doing it because “here you are” when really I had hit complete rock bottom and had nowhere and no one to turn to. They still raged at me, and screamed, slammed doors, wrote nasty notes and left them all over the house, throw my things in the yard. Literally nothing about them had changed over the years except that they couldn’t physically hit me. They were the exact same angry violent miserable people they had always been, and living there through Covid until I got a new job (took almost 3 years to find one that paid enough to live on my own again). It really made me realize that it wasn’t me. My mother was obsessed with mirroring me- stealing my clothes, copying my tattoos, the way I wore my hair, picking up my slang- etc. it made me feel crazy but she was trying to be me while also despising me. Her jealousy was palpable. When she would sidle up next to me I immediately became tense and would freeze because I knew she wanted something of mine to be given to her. I was constantly having to sneak my clothing and shoes back from her closet where she would stuff them away in the back. She used the times I was no contact as a blanket excuse for her bad behavior
2025-08-07 17:24:07
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magicbysamantha
Samantha Ellis :
i can attest to this. i had a whole collective mistreat me, then something happened. i tried to come home, and the ampted up the exile
2025-08-07 17:43:08
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alexaleshay1
Alexa Leshay :
💯
2025-08-07 19:05:17
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cameron_mccool_
Cameron McCool :
truth. mine yanked me back from no contact with an attempted schmuicude. as soon as they had enough strength back, the toxic behaviours started up again. i regret breaking no contact and will never do so again.
2025-08-08 03:33:40
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nuitblanch3
🐬D :
I went through this twice, with 2 abroad visits (not me falling back in. but accepting visits)...and it is unlike anything I've ever read about narcs before. I feel like it should be documented in a book. it was WILD. thank you for your videos!
2025-10-03 10:44:28
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amenda_wilson
Amanda Wilson :
Narcissists twist things and make you question your reality. I had doubts about my partner, and @Jaxon Techie helped me find the truth the right way. If your gut is telling you something’s off, don’t ignore it.
2025-08-09 10:05:37
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lovelove42143
Lovelove :
Is true and good warning ⚠
2025-09-15 17:39:56
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cjfree707
CJFree :
My son died and he said he changed
2025-08-13 05:45:52
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rrss366
Iasjt :
What if (as the spouse) of the scape goat has had enough and goes no contact, and while also not having bothered to have a conversation about the toxic emeshment, triangulation, boundaries, gossip, family trauma from the past and current
2025-08-14 17:57:13
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laramaskara
🌶️‼️LaraMaskara :
Yup! That’s EXACTLY what is happening with my husband. That’s exactly what she’s doing to him. He’s trying to remain Low Contact and trying to mostly grey rock her, but now she’s WORSE 🤷🏼‍♀️🙄‼️
2025-08-07 16:50:44
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