@jennifer.lauren.rose: Toxic people thrive on getting a rise out of you, because the moment you explode, cry, or defend yourself, they can twist it into “proof” that you’re the problem. It’s the oldest manipulation tactic in the book: -Push your buttons -Get a reaction -Flip the script The way you get your power back? Stop playing the game. When you learn emotional regulation and detachment, their power over you dissolves. Stop feeding the drama. Hold your boundaries and disengage. See the manipulation for what it is. Your peace is your power. Stop allowing yourself to be baited. The only way to change these dynamics is to finally learn to choose yourself.
They deflect and blame shift in order to avoid accountability. They may even discard and stonewall you.
2025-08-09 02:18:00
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Sara Shanahan337 :
Yep! And when you cut those ties, they do it even harder. The baiting becomes more constant and even more subtle.
2025-08-10 16:28:24
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L O V E :
Radical acceptance of yourself, not needing their approval to just be 🙏🏽💕
2025-08-08 05:22:53
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Jenny’s :
Well said
2025-08-10 09:51:39
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dancingkarmicqueen :
Why do I keep attracting these types of men??!?
2025-08-30 16:47:32
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wileycrocodile :
If someone you care about has toxic traits, it doesn’t show care for them to cut them off and walk away. Doesn’t everyone have behavior that could be called toxic at times?
2025-08-09 14:56:03
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Jesa :
What is it called when you know that this is true with you also still question yourself and if it was really that bad? I’ve been stuck here for too long.
2025-08-10 02:14:36
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TamatoTT21 :
They feed off your shame.
2025-09-03 21:44:50
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ipracticepause :
I appreciate the “lighting the match” concept!
2025-09-04 18:11:08
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Stan :
“Your peace becomes your power” ❤️
2025-09-02 04:11:45
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danni :
Needed this reminder, thank you.
2025-08-10 02:16:50
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Brit :
I once heard someone say you’re not allowed to cut your fist on my chin and then ask me for the Band-Aid 😳
2025-08-09 19:43:12
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Beto💎andRubi💖 :
Don’t explain yourself to them. Try the “grey rock” method to minimize engagement with them.
2025-09-10 05:26:45
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Robin Ann :
100% they are energy takers
2025-09-08 06:34:55
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misseyunplugged :
And that’s why I don’t have anyone around anymore, huh? ✨
2025-10-01 06:38:52
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Kelly :
This is the most emotional intelligent thing I’ve seen I thank you🥰💯❤️💜
2025-08-08 03:36:46
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SEEKHIM✝️ :
Becoming unbothered bothers them❤️
2025-08-10 03:36:57
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T :
No, we need more ways in society to hold them to account cause reactive abuse is extremely harmful but morality can’t be mandated.
2025-08-09 05:40:29
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Abbey :
Omg yes this is amazing ✨
2025-08-08 17:32:53
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Gegoben :
Let go a dismissive aviodant friend this year. My wife’s best friend. It peaked after she constantly steam rolled me in conversations, and tried hug me, and I automatcially recoiled. After 20+ years of abuse, it was the best goodbye, I ever had❤️
2025-08-08 22:21:06
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DrBanner :
Truth
2025-08-10 03:02:19
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josh :
why do people want me to hurt?
2025-08-10 16:07:07
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JULEDOSTAL/SARASOTA HAIR❤️🔥 :
Say it louder for everyone in the back to hear!! 🔥
2025-08-08 03:14:46
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Stacy Mallis🇨🇦 :
Standing on business 🤟
2025-08-13 21:37:16
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