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Baddiej9 :
Kindness performed to manipulate.
2025-08-08 21:18:08
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samuulaa :
They wear a mask all day. It kills them that you don’t care to be liked
2025-08-09 11:24:07
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HerUnfiltered :
Mind you, those performative people are usually deeply exhausted. They see what we naturally possess with minimal effort and it infuriates them. They would be a lot happier if they just owned their shadow side.
2025-08-11 00:41:42
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Shemar Moore Braids :
People pleasers HATE people who aren’t people pleasers and others still like them 😂
2025-08-08 23:21:46
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lovemeforme :
These types of performative people prey on people who are naturally kind, but who have been through it and may be in a current vulnerable state of mind.
2025-08-10 13:57:02
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brooklyn_paige_1 :
They want your light!
2025-08-08 15:50:19
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Amara Purr :
And when I encounter someone who is performing kindness, that doesn’t sit right with my spirit. I can tell that is not their true nature and it’s very unsettling to watch them be fake. Get away from me with that!
2025-08-09 16:14:43
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lola_easy :
yes, they’r not really kind, its transactional they’r doing nice things to get something in return or get ppl to like them… authentically kind ppl do nice things without even thinking about it
2025-08-23 02:10:57
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Ah duh :
And they usually look for a the stand ovation for being performative vs authentic ppl don’t look for the extra attention
2025-08-08 20:19:42
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creep puff 🥐✧˖°. :
This is also why people hate on autistic women so much- because lots of neurodivergent people, even if masked/slightly unmasked are still in tune w/ themselves and people hate it bc they think it’s fake 💔💔💔
2025-08-10 01:38:17
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momx2 :
My husband is like that. Performative and disingenuous. It’s so upsetting cos I don’t trust or believe anything he says anymore. It’s a miserable life 😢
2025-08-11 18:11:19
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Guadalupe :
And they try so hard to humble you and discredit you
2025-08-22 20:01:12
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Hi Viiiiccckkiiieeeeeeee :
That is so so true. It was the hardest thing for me to realize.
2025-08-08 15:09:58
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longhornprincess :
they try to dig up everything about you and still not satisfied with themselves
2025-08-22 22:35:55
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Niiilaaay :
“Do you really act like that?” “Do you really talk like that?” Yes some people aren’t performing lol
2025-08-08 18:17:50
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ॐ :
And they’re always so pushy about it, constantly asking if you need help or just helping you when you didn’t even ask. It’s annoying
2025-08-09 07:30:27
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Ivana🐰 :
dealt with this at my job
2025-08-08 23:49:05
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DamnFlo :
I'm seeing this more and more in our people it's sad
2025-09-26 05:41:52
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gossamerguidance :
the accuracy. my bd is hella performative & lately when he lashes out , that’s all I hear in my head. “so performative 🙄” 😂 the words “be real with yourself” is triggering for him 😭
2025-08-08 16:06:48
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Rosie Redwood :
It's also interesting when they peep this in you and that person adjusts accordingly. I knew someone who was so sweet to me but alot of people had hostile experiences w/ them. I couldn't believe their the stories they had.
2025-08-08 15:49:43
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MahoganyDime :
Yep!!! And they know that YOU know they aren’t authentic and hate it
2025-08-10 13:28:53
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SolidMade Kat :
They are looking to use people while we just live our life. The lowest vibration I’ve ever encountered
2025-08-24 19:12:14
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