@madeclere: Even one single family member asking “what’s her name” would heal me

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treefoxx
TreeFoxx :
I'm sorry I had to lol
2025-08-09 00:33:47
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missfrankie419
frankie :
it's Frankie btw 😏
2025-08-08 19:56:44
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arsoncarsan97
Carsan they/them :
as a transmasc nonbinary lesbian, I feel you because my family also fails to use they/them for me but whenever I'd say I was going on a date suddenly it was "who are they?" hmmmm
2025-08-08 19:52:59
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trashcanprincessart
trashcanprincessart :
I am very lucky to have one parent who doesn't understand but he gets it's important.. and man it's been adorable to watch this guy learn and actually try. And also getting texts from him about learning terms because my 20 year old sister is roasting him😆
2025-08-09 03:15:24
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_mama_meg
💜 Megan 💜 :
Who are these people? 🤔
2025-08-10 04:30:35
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morganh886
Morgan :
Hi please go on a date with me 🥰
2025-08-08 22:14:02
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blue09876543210
Still Nicole :
I’m sorry, sweet girl. Change is hard. My family has started to default to they/them for everyone, even ourselves, not just my trans child. Also, FYI, I’ve got my first HRT patch on thanks to your inspiration!
2025-08-09 04:25:35
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barrhavenmom
user4876380890613 :
😂😂😂
2026-01-28 02:56:49
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jess.ick.ugh
Jess :
i always say im tragically heterosexual. BC who would willingly CHOOSE to like men, honestly?!?
2025-08-08 20:07:28
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auspicious_stone312
auspicious stone :
I am not 100% sure that them thinking you're switching to men isn't kind of progressive. 😆
2025-08-09 23:20:11
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what_the_duckies
What_the_duck? :
Ok, I have to ask if your voice will ever get higher? Most Trans women are very easy to spot. Most Trans women, still give their biological, male energy. It is what it is. BUT I have to say that I genuinely thought you were a woman when you came accross my FYP before I heard you speak. Will female hormones raise the pitch of your voice?
2025-12-04 04:55:08
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_the_endless_tbr
Katra | 📖🐛 :
"why would a man be there"
2025-08-08 20:13:15
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britneyjeanxo
britneyjeanxo :
I think it’s weird that people would assume you would automatically change who you are attracted to
2025-08-08 20:01:05
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applemayonnaise
no. 🐻‍❄️ :
my ex couldn't figure out they them pronouns unless he was talking about a someone who was "a friend you don't know" 🙃
2025-08-09 01:34:57
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disneydepression
Emily (Taylor’s Version) :
Tell them HER name is Emily!
2025-08-08 21:05:46
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racheljade70
RachelJade70 :
Wait, so they accept that you’re trans but not that you’re a lesbian? That’s wild lmao
2025-08-08 20:13:00
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lemonplanter
Lemon🍋Planter :
Thats super frustrating but also can you mess up your hair a bit more? I'm asking for me, and for lesbian reasons.
2025-08-08 19:56:50
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yesineedsleep
ineedsleep :
Those head tosses are killing me 🤣 sending love your way 💜
2025-08-08 21:29:22
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vxracer
Randa :
But have they met women? Why would someone choose to switch?? As a bi girl who prefers women a little bit more - Gavin knows he’s the lucky one who snuck in. It happens to the best of us. But he also knows - I will never date a man again 😂 if I ever have to unfortunately be in the dating pool again, it’s women. Who is choosing men!?
2025-08-08 22:50:31
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leeeeeexxxxiiii
Lexiiiiiiiiii :
Have they met men? I mean, as a mostly straight, they really are a disappointing group of humans.
2025-08-08 19:59:08
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smedlrg
smedlrg :
I've been trying to normalize they/them with my kids. if we are out to eat or something and my kids wants to put in their order I'll say "okay, tell them what you want" it's small, but maybe it'll help
2025-09-16 14:46:23
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mjspooks
Goth Mom 🩷💜💙 :
"you can be trans but I draw the line at gay" is a surprisingly common stance
2025-08-09 00:57:21
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lacerose28
lacerose28 :
It's honestly funny to me at this point. My wife's family after she came out was concerned I'm going to leave her for a man and my family is concerned she is going to leave me for the same. I once asked my mom what she would think if we just had that hypothetical man join us and that ended the conversation pretty quickly.
2025-08-09 00:51:53
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canadianismx
αlεε εїз :
So you're saying I have a chance? 😏🤭
2025-08-08 21:22:59
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maraistall
Tall Mara :
So many people don't understand that transitioning doesn't mean you'll switch to liking the opposite gender. "Why transition if you're still into women"...because gender and sexuality are different
2025-08-08 22:11:59
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rebeccashepardstudios
Rebecca Shepard :
“ don’t give them credit “ the energy you said that I felt in my bones 😂 IYKYK with family and friends that end up sounding more progressive than they are because they are so far the other way…. 😂😂😂
2025-08-08 22:39:51
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acmechanic1
Logan :
lmao I think a lot of people let you have one or the other. either you are trans/nonbinary or you're gay. they can't fathom that you could be both.
2025-08-08 21:00:32
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murakel
Bento Heidenreich :
lbr if I had the option I think I would limit the number of men I expressed interest in 😅
2025-08-08 20:06:11
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juchethot
kimmy jo-il :
comphet was so intense that the fact that i liked girls totally blinded me to the idea i was trans.
2025-08-09 00:52:22
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tgt1978
TThurman :
wait, Wait WAIT! im a man who just found your content. and im fucking heartbroken. they broken my heart 💔
2025-09-14 17:01:41
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wanderingracoon
💀💀💀 :
I fear its bc they think you're a gay man who is "confused" :(
2025-08-09 16:52:02
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glupshitto5
GluppShitto :
what's her name and can I make a suggestion (her name is-[loud train honking])
2025-08-08 21:39:09
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_mama_meg
💜 Megan 💜 :
Also - what's her name? 😘
2025-08-10 04:31:42
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maybelatrr
Ale :
The aggressive head shaking, I felt that
2025-08-11 02:21:55
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clairebee3
Claire Bee :
Similar energy to people who can’t use they/them for a non-binary person but will immediately and hatefully use they/them for a trans woman whose pronouns are she/her
2025-08-12 17:47:48
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causearuthus
Ruthless :
my ex's parents introduced me as "her friend" because clearly after coming out as trans, it would be gouche to assume she would continue to date women and be a lesbian!
2025-08-09 14:32:09
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lizardjoy7
lizard :
this is a 100% valid crash out
2025-08-09 09:49:42
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gayiguaanas
cornbett :
SCREW EM. I’m your family now. Welcome.
2025-08-08 19:54:09
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name4now
notmyname :
Like, I fw women before and I fw women now. It's not rocket science. I'm not asking anyone to adopt any new information there. Yet some part of that still breaks their cishet brains god bless em
2025-08-09 01:22:35
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humaniyugi
𝓛𝓾𝓴𝓸🥀 :
i’m nonbinary but i can’t stand being called they/them in spanish, in english i love it
2025-08-08 20:39:19
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thatgirlwithascalpel
Tammy - progress and perfume :
Wait, are you cheating on all of your TikTok girlfriends with someone in real life? J/k… probably. In conversations with my mom about my oldest child (she tries really hard so this is done with love), it is just an automatic echo. She says “he” and I say, “she” then she says “deadname” and I correct with my daughter’s chosen name. We repeat that through the whole conversation every time she slips up. She gets it right about 50% of the time. As a conservative Catholic 77 year old, she is doing better than we expected.
2025-08-08 23:36:31
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mystery.goblin2
mystery.goblin :
just spent 2 weeks at a camping event using porta-potties. the urinal always had a mess of drips on the floor below it. I would exclaim aloud every time "why are men?!?!"
2025-08-09 02:40:53
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kristins_ok
Always Anxious :
I always try to use they/them if i know somebody’s preference, but sometimes my primitive brain speaks first and a he/she will slip out. I always correct myself when it happens, the mistake isn’t on purpose, but I’m afraid some people think it is. Some of us are genuinely trying.
2025-09-18 08:15:24
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meemslh
Meems :
In the best way, you are so they/them - I love it
2025-09-17 19:15:00
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geminikarebear
Siren aka Kara :
Idk you yet, you came across my FYP today, this is so shallow to say but dayum you are attractive. 💕
2025-09-17 13:39:42
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mikelandry66
Michael Mikey Mike :
Im older and im learning. I follow many people to understand and grow as an individual. They/them directed to a person felt odd, until I got used to using them like that. In a 2nd or 3rd person it’s natural speech. It is a singular and plural pronoun, they just need to put it in their lexicon.
2025-09-17 10:05:24
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valeriej4y
Valerie Jay :
to be fair, it is incredibly common for sexuality to shift after transition. I used to be exclusively attracted to women, then I encountered non-binary people, and then saw how the gender lines were really kind of blurred. now I'm only attracted to men who get mistaken for women + every woman and non binary person...
2025-08-08 20:29:32
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gracielouheuer
gracielouheuer :
Feel this so much. I can’t even come out as non binary to my family because I just don’t have the energy to keep correcting THEM…
2025-09-15 13:31:30
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meby1967
MEby1967 :
😂 loved this!!
2025-09-15 02:45:22
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lazer_bear
Lazer_Bear :
have you considered moving to California and becoming a prospector so people start using the right pronouns? whenever your family talks about you, they'll say "there's gold in them/their hills!" I'm sorry, I'll see myself out.
2025-08-14 14:36:37
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campchaoscounselor
Not your mom :
Why are they trying to curse you like that?! My biggest flaw is that I like men.
2025-08-13 15:51:25
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squawksquawk_mfer
UmbrellaCockatoo :
So who’s the giiiiiiiiiirl ☕️tell us about her
2025-08-08 23:37:29
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