as a transmasc nonbinary lesbian, I feel you because my family also fails to use they/them for me but whenever I'd say I was going on a date suddenly it was "who are they?" hmmmm
2025-08-08 19:52:59
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trashcanprincessart :
I am very lucky to have one parent who doesn't understand but he gets it's important.. and man it's been adorable to watch this guy learn and actually try. And also getting texts from him about learning terms because my 20 year old sister is roasting him😆
2025-08-09 03:15:24
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💜 Megan 💜 :
Who are these people? 🤔
2025-08-10 04:30:35
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Morgan :
Hi please go on a date with me 🥰
2025-08-08 22:14:02
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Still Nicole :
I’m sorry, sweet girl. Change is hard. My family has started to default to they/them for everyone, even ourselves, not just my trans child. Also, FYI, I’ve got my first HRT patch on thanks to your inspiration!
2025-08-09 04:25:35
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user4876380890613 :
😂😂😂
2026-01-28 02:56:49
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Jess :
i always say im tragically heterosexual. BC who would willingly CHOOSE to like men, honestly?!?
2025-08-08 20:07:28
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auspicious stone :
I am not 100% sure that them thinking you're switching to men isn't kind of progressive. 😆
2025-08-09 23:20:11
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What_the_duck? :
Ok, I have to ask if your voice will ever get higher?
Most Trans women are very easy to spot. Most Trans women, still give their biological, male energy.
It is what it is.
BUT I have to say that I genuinely thought you were a woman when you came accross my FYP before I heard you speak.
Will female hormones raise the pitch of your voice?
2025-12-04 04:55:08
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Katra | 📖🐛 :
"why would a man be there"
2025-08-08 20:13:15
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britneyjeanxo :
I think it’s weird that people would assume you would automatically change who you are attracted to
2025-08-08 20:01:05
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no. 🐻❄️ :
my ex couldn't figure out they them pronouns unless he was talking about a someone who was "a friend you don't know" 🙃
2025-08-09 01:34:57
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Emily (Taylor’s Version) :
Tell them HER name is Emily!
2025-08-08 21:05:46
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RachelJade70 :
Wait, so they accept that you’re trans but not that you’re a lesbian? That’s wild lmao
2025-08-08 20:13:00
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Lemon🍋Planter :
Thats super frustrating but also can you mess up your hair a bit more? I'm asking for me, and for lesbian reasons.
2025-08-08 19:56:50
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ineedsleep :
Those head tosses are killing me 🤣 sending love your way 💜
2025-08-08 21:29:22
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Randa :
But have they met women? Why would someone choose to switch?? As a bi girl who prefers women a little bit more - Gavin knows he’s the lucky one who snuck in. It happens to the best of us. But he also knows - I will never date a man again 😂 if I ever have to unfortunately be in the dating pool again, it’s women. Who is choosing men!?
2025-08-08 22:50:31
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Lexiiiiiiiiii :
Have they met men? I mean, as a mostly straight, they really are a disappointing group of humans.
2025-08-08 19:59:08
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smedlrg :
I've been trying to normalize they/them with my kids. if we are out to eat or something and my kids wants to put in their order I'll say "okay, tell them what you want"
it's small, but maybe it'll help
2025-09-16 14:46:23
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Goth Mom 🩷💜💙 :
"you can be trans but I draw the line at gay" is a surprisingly common stance
2025-08-09 00:57:21
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lacerose28 :
It's honestly funny to me at this point. My wife's family after she came out was concerned I'm going to leave her for a man and my family is concerned she is going to leave me for the same. I once asked my mom what she would think if we just had that hypothetical man join us and that ended the conversation pretty quickly.
2025-08-09 00:51:53
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αlεε εїз :
So you're saying I have a chance? 😏🤭
2025-08-08 21:22:59
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Tall Mara :
So many people don't understand that transitioning doesn't mean you'll switch to liking the opposite gender. "Why transition if you're still into women"...because gender and sexuality are different
2025-08-08 22:11:59
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Rebecca Shepard :
“ don’t give them credit “ the energy you said that I felt in my bones 😂 IYKYK with family and friends that end up sounding more progressive than they are because they are so far the other way…. 😂😂😂
2025-08-08 22:39:51
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Logan :
lmao I think a lot of people let you have one or the other. either you are trans/nonbinary or you're gay. they can't fathom that you could be both.
2025-08-08 21:00:32
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Bento Heidenreich :
lbr if I had the option I think I would limit the number of men I expressed interest in 😅
2025-08-08 20:06:11
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kimmy jo-il :
comphet was so intense that the fact that i liked girls totally blinded me to the idea i was trans.
2025-08-09 00:52:22
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TThurman :
wait, Wait WAIT! im a man who just found your content. and im fucking heartbroken. they broken my heart 💔
2025-09-14 17:01:41
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💀💀💀 :
I fear its bc they think you're a gay man who is "confused" :(
2025-08-09 16:52:02
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GluppShitto :
what's her name and can I make a suggestion (her name is-[loud train honking])
2025-08-08 21:39:09
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💜 Megan 💜 :
Also - what's her name? 😘
2025-08-10 04:31:42
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Ale :
The aggressive head shaking, I felt that
2025-08-11 02:21:55
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Claire Bee :
Similar energy to people who can’t use they/them for a non-binary person but will immediately and hatefully use they/them for a trans woman whose pronouns are she/her
2025-08-12 17:47:48
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Ruthless :
my ex's parents introduced me as "her friend" because clearly after coming out as trans, it would be gouche to assume she would continue to date women and be a lesbian!
2025-08-09 14:32:09
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lizard :
this is a 100% valid crash out
2025-08-09 09:49:42
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cornbett :
SCREW EM. I’m your family now. Welcome.
2025-08-08 19:54:09
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notmyname :
Like, I fw women before and I fw women now. It's not rocket science. I'm not asking anyone to adopt any new information there. Yet some part of that still breaks their cishet brains god bless em
2025-08-09 01:22:35
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𝓛𝓾𝓴𝓸🥀 :
i’m nonbinary but i can’t stand being called they/them in spanish, in english i love it
2025-08-08 20:39:19
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Tammy - progress and perfume :
Wait, are you cheating on all of your TikTok girlfriends with someone in real life? J/k… probably. In conversations with my mom about my oldest child (she tries really hard so this is done with love), it is just an automatic echo. She says “he” and I say, “she” then she says “deadname” and I correct with my daughter’s chosen name. We repeat that through the whole conversation every time she slips up. She gets it right about 50% of the time. As a conservative Catholic 77 year old, she is doing better than we expected.
2025-08-08 23:36:31
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mystery.goblin :
just spent 2 weeks at a camping event using porta-potties. the urinal always had a mess of drips on the floor below it. I would exclaim aloud every time "why are men?!?!"
2025-08-09 02:40:53
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Always Anxious :
I always try to use they/them if i know somebody’s preference, but sometimes my primitive brain speaks first and a he/she will slip out. I always correct myself when it happens, the mistake isn’t on purpose, but I’m afraid some people think it is. Some of us are genuinely trying.
2025-09-18 08:15:24
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Meems :
In the best way, you are so they/them - I love it
2025-09-17 19:15:00
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Siren aka Kara :
Idk you yet, you came across my FYP today, this is so shallow to say but dayum you are attractive. 💕
2025-09-17 13:39:42
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Michael Mikey Mike :
Im older and im learning. I follow many people to understand and grow as an individual. They/them directed to a person felt odd, until I got used to using them like that. In a 2nd or 3rd person it’s natural speech. It is a singular and plural pronoun, they just need to put it in their lexicon.
2025-09-17 10:05:24
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Valerie Jay :
to be fair, it is incredibly common for sexuality to shift after transition. I used to be exclusively attracted to women, then I encountered non-binary people, and then saw how the gender lines were really kind of blurred. now I'm only attracted to men who get mistaken for women + every woman and non binary person...
2025-08-08 20:29:32
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gracielouheuer :
Feel this so much. I can’t even come out as non binary to my family because I just don’t have the energy to keep correcting THEM…
2025-09-15 13:31:30
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MEby1967 :
😂 loved this!!
2025-09-15 02:45:22
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Lazer_Bear :
have you considered moving to California and becoming a prospector so people start using the right pronouns? whenever your family talks about you, they'll say "there's gold in them/their hills!"
I'm sorry, I'll see myself out.
2025-08-14 14:36:37
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Not your mom :
Why are they trying to curse you like that?! My biggest flaw is that I like men.
2025-08-13 15:51:25
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UmbrellaCockatoo :
So who’s the giiiiiiiiiirl ☕️tell us about her
2025-08-08 23:37:29
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