@agirlnamedari: Her first cry should’ve been the loudest sound of my life. Instead, it felt like I was underwater… watching, hearing, existing — but not feeling. I wish I could tell you what I was thinking, but all I remember is the feeling of being outside my body. This is what birth looked like through the lens of disassociation. I pulled through though. #olebrandselect #fyp

ellamaay_xox :

The dissociation after birth needs to be spoke about more

Naomi Michelle :

After birth dissociation is real.

Bri’Amore :

This was me 😭 omg

Rosalean Batool :

no one realises we literally nearly DIE

Busy B | 40+ Creator :

I’m confused. I’ve had 4 and this never happened. What is it, shock from the pain?

Mercy :

Me right after birth so yeah girl I get it

ClosureK :

when i had my son. everyone followed him to the bassinet... but my mom stayed by my side and spoke words of life into me.

nads_m_p :

This is so real 😔

savannahbanana3030 :

She’s disassociating. It’s a trauma response. She just had a baby. Her spirit will come back

RJ :

I disassociated a little too hard during childbirth and died 💀💀💀. We good now 😂😂😂

r._xlynne :

I had felt so many emotions in this moment, I was excited to meet my baby. But I was just terrified of being a mommy. And bringing him into this world😣

Allie :

Girl I thought you were no longer with us 😭

itsreallyher :

when i had my son placed in my arms for the first time i felt nothing. absolutely nothing. i just remember saying “it’s okay it’s okay”. everyone thought i was saying that to my son. i was saying that to myself..

Madison Wilson :

Me too girl 😭

it’s da wu 🫦 :

ok so this is normal

Alexandria 💟 :

Me after having twins, I didn’t even wanna hold them right away or look at them 🥹

user5721532956355 :

I remember the dirty look the nurse gave me when she put my baby on my tummy after they pulled him out and I was dissociated she rolled her eyes and took him him to the side bed to clean him up. I still feel bad for dissociating to this day

___amba_🇹🇹 :

This makes me NOT want to have kids even more

DarkWinterSoldier :

Child birth wasn’t meant to be painful. Painful childbirth came as a result of Eve’s disobedience. Read the Book of Genesis when God Judged Adam and Eve.

mey :

Baby fever gone.

manar :

It’s ok sweetie you did amazing

purepassion23 :

An unforgettable experience

Zainy 🎀 :

This is so scary 🥺

رزان :