@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights when we are hurt, we will make 1 million excuses for the other person… This is an anti-rumination video to help you through a break up and to challenge the thoughts that you are having in your mind that may be keeping you stuck. If you are dealing with an avoidant attachment style individual this anti-rumination video will help you refocus your healing back onto yourself. #avoidant #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #breakup #Relationship #datingadvice #datingadviceforwomen #fyp #foryoupage❤️❤️ #viral

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bbigyam09
BbigYam09 :
this is literally the opposite of the tarot readers 😂
2025-08-10 07:05:23
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jnnfrsbdy
jnnfrsbdy :
ty girl bc the tarot reader before you nearly got me there x
2025-08-10 18:07:54
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theo.g.godspear
theO.G.Godspear :
Thanks for keeping it real. The truth is a bitter pill but it’s better than delusion.
2025-08-10 18:06:14
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kittybiscuits1956
Kittybiscuits :
They will do the same thing to the next partner you weren’t the problem
2025-08-10 02:26:11
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lumpiangsiopao2
lumpiangsiopao :
they are hiding behind their moooom and theyre NOT SORRY AT ALL HAHA
2025-08-11 17:03:48
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marcy030887
Marcy :
The biggest mistake a person can make is to stay hoping that person changes one day. You can’t force anyone to grow when they don’t want to.
2025-08-10 23:43:51
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notavalorelai
ava lorelai :
did u at least kiss the brick before u threw it at me
2025-09-02 18:26:21
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bonehead404
jhmblt :
I am so glad I am far beyond this stage!!
2025-08-09 17:09:31
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icetrack
nyzul :
the way i logically know all of this but my doomed loyalty screams otherwise
2025-08-10 12:22:33
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crystal97231
crystal97231 :
I love and need these!
2025-08-09 15:22:37
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bloom_792
🖤 :
Phew do you do daily ones lol I’m saving this!
2025-08-24 06:25:25
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natbatcathatsat
Nat :
They are sitting home on AI
2025-09-26 23:41:00
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itwasawholething
ItWasAWholeThing :
You are doing the lord’s work
2025-08-13 12:53:41
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boo.boo.bear66
Boo Boo Bear :
🤔🤔🤔, she took no accountability, and probably never will. She only hinted she might. In a roundabout way. Probably with another person 🤔. And not with me.
2025-08-09 15:05:01
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fairy_dragfather
Fairy Dragfather :
I KNOW all of this, it's the part of me that still hopes he would try that needs to let go, but that kid has an abandonment wound and redirecting that hope towards healing is hard
2025-08-09 16:06:41
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hatcherstill
Hatcherstill :
The tarot card crew hate to her comin ahahah
2025-08-12 01:33:34
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blondie5275
Blondie :
Not a heathy partner for anyone
2025-08-11 11:23:55
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mandymilli0ns
𓆩ꨄ︎𓆪 :
I already know this lol
2025-08-11 02:36:40
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liviluu23
liviluu :
thank you i genuinely needed to hear this
2025-08-25 21:25:19
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nikkig859
nikkig859 :
Love these videos!! Your Anti rumination speeches really speak to me.
2025-08-10 01:19:00
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compassionaterage
CompassionateRage :
Wait wait I am an ex and I absolutely am doing all of these things! I messed up the best thing that ever happened to me, he is my one that got away and I am to blame. I am so unbelievably sorry for the way I hurt him with my actions!
2025-08-10 19:29:35
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rinarutoo
Mia :
💯 He sent me a closure email and he just changed everything to make it seem like it was my fault. He said he didn’t find peace with me even though we’ve never fought or argued, he just decided on his own that he needed distance but never communicated that.
2025-08-09 18:11:13
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dbz_jamak47
dbz_jamak47 :
This is what I need to hear thank you
2025-08-10 18:30:28
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