As a hyperindependent woman every time i lowered my guard… i got reminded why i should have never let my guard down.
2025-08-10 13:41:55
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geezy :
Hyper-independence is a Trauma response!
2025-08-10 14:29:09
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empressbre93_ :
I am a hyper independent woman because I am 32 years old and I have never had a dependable man in my life ever!!! So hopefully one day he will come along cause I’m tired!!
2025-08-10 13:59:13
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Rios 🌻🌻🌻 :
as a hyper independent woman I've tried to work on letting some of that control go and I'm met with transactional love where men feel I owe them something cuz I allowed them to help me.
2025-08-10 00:48:14
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Ilyana07 :
A man that creates safety, security, and stability 🙌🏽
2025-08-10 01:11:59
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curvytrucker :
As a hyper, independent woman, I own my own house my own car, my own semi truck. I call it getting shit done if a man’s gonna wanna be on me he’s gonna have to be on my level I won’t go down to his.
2025-08-11 11:39:21
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Dee Rivera :
as a not wanting to be but must be hyperindependent woman…..
2025-08-10 02:52:05
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🇯🇲♐️MelChin876🇨🇦🇱🇷 :
I have zero room left in me for disappointments..
2025-08-10 16:27:06
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MitzintheBurbs :
I don’t need my bills paid, I can hire someone to move my furniture and I take out my own trash. So, I’m the problem? All I need is someone to make care of my heart…
2025-08-11 18:45:33
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Tanya Knight :
As an adult I've had to rely on God and myself so call it what you like
2025-08-10 05:27:19
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CMC :
This was a whole Ted talk
2025-08-10 10:56:19
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MB - TPAE :
Exactly so if that man wants to be NEEDED like mandem say and be a PROVIDER! then PROVIDE SAFETY RELIABILITY AND CONSISTENCY‼️but this is why EVERYONE THERAPY ! Cus I absolutely can understand the exhaustion of cleaning up a mess that wasn’t mine but if you CLAIM YOU WANT TO BE NEEDED !! Be reliable safe and consistent so she can trust you and cope different
2025-08-10 04:52:28
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Elizabeth Ewing Alle :
Was hyper independent. Major childhood trauma that rolled into adulthood. Found a man that has given me the safety and security I needed. Thank you God for blessing me!
2025-08-10 01:12:33
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Jayy Babyy :
I am definitely an hyper independent women 🤦🏻♀️it’s exhausting
2025-08-10 03:40:06
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Delvin Staples :
Im definitely hyper-independent but not on purpose I have had to rely on myself since 16 and NOBODY has entered my life where I can lean on i pray daily for that man that can pull me out of this independence 🙏🏾
2025-08-10 08:13:19
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ai_ayy_official :
I hate being hyper independent but I’m so use to being let down from ppl I asked for help
2025-08-10 17:45:14
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IrishDumplin :
Finally tiktok brought me to your individual page!!! I am obsessed with you! Keepin it real always!
2025-08-10 22:47:41
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Christina Mckell :
Correct. I don’t wanna be hyper independent, but I have no choice. Thank you sis for the words 🥰 I’ve started asking for help and seeing the responses I get.
2025-08-10 11:07:02
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Lucyyy33 :
Personally, I’m not going to gamble that a man won’t drop the ball and then be left with nothing. Also would never want to hear again “you wouldn’t have that if it weren’t for me”
2025-08-12 01:18:29
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Jess Wall :
I can't wait to marry the man who created safety for me this October!!!
2025-08-10 12:11:05
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Joe Blake :
being a grown up
2025-08-10 12:00:21
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Cavity🦆 :
I am HYPERINDEPENDENT I have a problem trusting folks cause I'm quickly reminded it only me.
I agree. call it what u want. yes a round applause yo the men that follow threw and care and handle and stand on business!
2025-08-10 20:03:28
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Jessica :
I absolutely agree with you on this subject! I’m that women who had to turn on replying on self, tired of disappointment. Do I want to be that way noooo!
2025-08-10 00:05:55
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NOTyouraveragelight♥️🧠💡🙏🏾 :
Absolutely, correct. From from beginning to end.❤️🧠🙌🏾🙌🏾🦾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
2025-08-10 01:33:53
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J A E :
As a Hyper Independent woman. You hit all marks with your statement. Oh yes, some of them was so pissyyy😭😅😅
2025-08-10 00:59:54
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