@diaryofahappyblackwoman: I appreciate everyone listening to the ENTIRE video. ‼️ I am not discouraging marriage nor trying to convince anyone not to get married. ‼️ I’m simply adding my perspective to what I thought I wanted compared to what I’m actually living. As I grow, there’s this void that I’m not being my authentic self and to withhold that truth from someone else is selfish! I am not sharing anything that he does not already know or that we are continuing to work through, but I want other people (especially women) to know that it’s OK to have these feelings, it’s OK to feel like you want to end something that you thought was going to last forever, because nothing is worse, nothing is more evil than pretending to be something that you’re not. Marriage has taught me so much and the most important lesson is… if you truly love someone you will let them go. Never lose yourself 🙏🏿 #m#marriage

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nurs3ros3 :

I want to get married one day but I like my spaceeeeeeee lol

2026-08-03 14:27:31

Minister Aleigh moorehouse :

Even a "good man" is draining.

2025-08-10 19:36:49

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Lydiah :

Marriage is not a flex anymore ❗️am happily single

2025-08-10 08:59:25

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Laditee305 :

I am so glad women are FINALLY speaking out about this and no longer pretending.

2025-08-10 04:02:40

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Fahad :

“I jus wanted wedding cake, not marriage and commitment”

2025-08-14 06:39:58

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gniKFred :

Damn, feel sorry for the husband. I can understand if he’s a terrible spouse…but being a good spouse still pushes your wife away? Tough smh

2025-08-11 12:35:45

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Mari :

You just need a vacation/break

2025-08-10 03:36:10

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Megan Leigh :

Every single day I get on this app and I’m reminded that being single is the best and safest scenario for us women.

2025-08-10 19:33:19

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Sĩ🌺 :

Just because he’s a good man doesn’t mean he’s the right one 🤷🏽‍♀️

2025-09-10 02:07:28

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TheGirlWhoDiedWolf :

Marriage is hard, relationships are hard, being single is hard. But being single is the easiest of the hard ❤️✨

2025-08-10 15:29:07

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Tina :

Take a solo trip, even if it’s just a local hotel. You need space 🖤

2025-08-10 12:22:01

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Let’s Talk About Jessica 🤍 :

You DO NOT have to tell me twice 😳 at this point I like the relationship I have with myself 😭

2025-08-10 02:50:03

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Ĥ £îñ :

I hope ppl see my comment. Book Healing Isn't Pretty by Mira Hartson was like a therapy thah chaged my life, i see everything different now

2025-08-13 02:05:01

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Kelly C :

Your honesty and transparency are appreciated 🖤

2025-08-10 14:23:30

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llovey777 :

I’m single but I really think you should see a marriage counselor….

2025-08-12 15:02:51

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Aramis | Faith-walkin it :

Maybe you didn’t take time to discover yourself and truly find out who you are .

2025-08-11 12:22:02

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Kuir Kulture :

Say Hey If You Are Scared To Get Married

2025-08-21 19:42:37

loso :

This is nuts we are so doomed 😭😭😭

2025-08-12 16:12:51

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nathi :

let me hold your hand when i say this…you not forced to be married my love😭

2025-09-10 16:35:00

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Sereti.kt :

Unpopular opinion, marriage should be a thing for 40+ people 😭😭😭 39 & below should genuinely be living their best life 😭😭

2025-09-11 20:53:17

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Kwanna Bell :

May this never find me

2025-08-11 04:00:41

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NoFilterSis :

poor guy... let him go!

2025-08-11 04:12:29

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