i relate to this so hard but im so productive and happy and i eat healthy and gym and have hobbies so like is it fine???
2025-09-18 18:48:24
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maya lilian :
for me it’s wanting to be in a different headspace . is there anything else that gives you that shift? placebo could be good
2025-08-10 12:22:09
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* ੈ✩‧₊˚⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪ :
If you’re at least still productive & have balance who even cares fr life is hard these days
2025-09-16 20:06:14
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Tikvah :
I found out I’m pregnant yesterday and I’m dying here lol. It’s only been like 24 hours and I miss it 🥲
2025-09-24 20:17:29
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britgirlinspain :
Darl I gardened every day for over a decade and quit 2 months ago and garden once every couple of weeks now and it is way better! Can you go away for a few days to a different setting (that you like or that is new) that u cant garden? Breaking the habit for like 3-5 days leads to drying out and re discovering clear days xxxx
2025-08-10 14:26:35
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nia :
you shouldn’t stop, look at the state of the world. what you’re doing is fine
2025-09-16 22:39:33
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Beck 🫧 :
hey i'm on my 4th week since quitting and can say one day it will literally just be the last day u smoke randomly, my heart startin gettin palpitations and i was like hell no and havent even missed it once, but u gotta find a loooooot of distractions cos ull find u feel boredom so much more intensely! hope ur doin good angel 🌸
2025-09-15 08:03:17
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foulontheplayy :
Build a reward system
2025-09-13 17:14:56
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riako :
okay but in which ways is gardening a problem in your life/why don't you want to garden (everyday)? cuz tbh if u don't have any issues from it, why not garden everyday imo, so maybe if u accept it the way it is, you'll feel better (and maybe even start to garden not everyday because you're not making a big deal out of it anymore and it's just another little thing in life) idk just random thoughts 😅
2025-08-10 05:34:51
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elsiekate🪽 :
As long as you don’t let it hold power over you you can do anything you like. Holding shame to actions that you enjoy is just holding shame over joy. As long as YOU know it’s not in a negative way then do what you’d like my love ❤️🩹
2025-08-10 10:58:48
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dinininininininini0 :
I think the problem is not the gardening but the internal pain u feel . If you can focus on it and feel thru it day by day even w all the gardening then u will learn to appreciate both the sober and gardening moments. Much love!!! You got it! I also really struggle
2025-09-10 23:46:04
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Colours are brighter :
Well is gardening a problem for you?
2025-08-11 13:28:39
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KHATANIA :
Focus on only doing with intention first. Not just doing it because you can or because you’re bored. Like what is your intention behind gardening right now.
2025-09-27 02:03:08
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DRVENI STUDIO BIH AND CZ :
it will pass
2025-08-10 13:47:25
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Erda Nesimi :
What helped me is bullying myself and telling myself I’m too old for it
2025-09-21 03:11:31
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DaisyJane :
I think I was just born this way.
2025-09-20 19:23:47
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Kani_meche :
You’re doing the internal work and then want to reward yourself with some relaxation
2025-09-21 03:32:57
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✨ :
I think it begs the question why don't you want to? what does it allow you to feel?
2025-09-16 23:41:27
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kaza blanka :
R E AL
2025-08-10 14:50:07
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Melissa🥷🏽 :
Feel u girl.
2025-09-12 04:01:31
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Chanel :
Real
2025-08-10 13:45:16
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xkingkyia :
Feeling this rn 😭
2025-09-18 22:49:30
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HotMessMama_Chi 🇨🇴🏃🏽♀️🏠 :
It’s my cup of coffee!! We all need a little something something that we like. As long as it’s not taking over your life or finances , it’s ok
2025-09-19 12:51:59
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Roxy Rodriguez :
Omg yes!! Same girl
2025-09-23 15:53:48
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