If you’re at least still productive & have balance who even cares fr life is hard these days
2025-09-16 20:06:14
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maya lilian :
for me it’s wanting to be in a different headspace . is there anything else that gives you that shift? placebo could be good
2025-08-10 12:22:09
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nia :
you shouldn’t stop, look at the state of the world. what you’re doing is fine
2025-09-16 22:39:33
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gab :
i relate to this so hard but im so productive and happy and i eat healthy and gym and have hobbies so like is it fine???
2025-09-18 18:48:24
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clmb :
No different than people taking their lexapro or Prozac everyday. You do you boo just utilize it healthily and don’t use it to numb out
2025-09-19 15:38:02
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elsiekate🪽 :
As long as you don’t let it hold power over you you can do anything you like. Holding shame to actions that you enjoy is just holding shame over joy. As long as YOU know it’s not in a negative way then do what you’d like my love ❤️🩹
2025-08-10 10:58:48
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riako :
okay but in which ways is gardening a problem in your life/why don't you want to garden (everyday)? cuz tbh if u don't have any issues from it, why not garden everyday imo, so maybe if u accept it the way it is, you'll feel better (and maybe even start to garden not everyday because you're not making a big deal out of it anymore and it's just another little thing in life) idk just random thoughts 😅
2025-08-10 05:34:51
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KHATANIA :
Focus on only doing with intention first. Not just doing it because you can or because you’re bored. Like what is your intention behind gardening right now.
2025-09-27 02:03:08
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Lousantander :
Build a reward system
2025-09-13 17:14:56
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dinininininininini0 :
I think the problem is not the gardening but the internal pain u feel . If you can focus on it and feel thru it day by day even w all the gardening then u will learn to appreciate both the sober and gardening moments. Much love!!! You got it! I also really struggle
2025-09-10 23:46:04
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Beck 🫧 :
hey i'm on my 4th week since quitting and can say one day it will literally just be the last day u smoke randomly, my heart startin gettin palpitations and i was like hell no and havent even missed it once, but u gotta find a loooooot of distractions cos ull find u feel boredom so much more intensely! hope ur doin good angel 🌸
2025-09-15 08:03:17
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Colours are brighter :
Well is gardening a problem for you?
2025-08-11 13:28:39
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Tikvah :
I found out I’m pregnant yesterday and I’m dying here lol. It’s only been like 24 hours and I miss it 🥲
2025-09-24 20:17:29
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Bomb 💣 Ass 🍑 Nails 💅 :
you think you can quit but you just 'dont want to' but really you couldn't ... you say it yourself, you don't want to do you don't know how it feels to want it. I assure u it's not enough
2025-08-12 20:07:38
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britgirlinspain :
Darl I gardened every day for over a decade and quit 2 months ago and garden once every couple of weeks now and it is way better! Can you go away for a few days to a different setting (that you like or that is new) that u cant garden? Breaking the habit for like 3-5 days leads to drying out and re discovering clear days xxxx
2025-08-10 14:26:35
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Veronica King :
Girl same 😭
2025-08-10 12:07:47
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Luna :
Sometimes you really need something big happening in your life in order to understand how nothing doesn’t really matter( including gardening) except living life travel and having big and emotional experiences.
2025-08-10 10:56:32
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🐦🐦🐦AliCEinPIGEONland🐦🐦🐦 :
Best day worst day … any day 😬
2025-08-10 16:07:32
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Luna :
Babe me too
2025-08-10 10:53:20
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DRVENI STUDIO BIH AND CZ :
it will pass
2025-08-10 13:47:25
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DaisyJane :
I think I was just born this way.
2025-09-20 19:23:47
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Erda Nesimi :
What helped me is bullying myself and telling myself I’m too old for it
2025-09-21 03:11:31
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🫠🌅🪻💛 :
Idk wait for when it becomes uncomfortable. It happened to me so i quit. A sprinkle of depersonalization and guilty paranoid looping thoughts maybe?
2025-09-15 11:04:42
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Kani_meche :
You’re doing the internal work and then want to reward yourself with some relaxation
2025-09-21 03:32:57
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