@iamjovanglasgow: They don’t actually want your help… and here’s why. You can’t help someone who is committed to a story that fuels their dysfunction. A victim mindset will never lead to victory—because you’ll always sabotage what you don’t believe you deserve. You can’t save someone who is addicted to their own pain. Choosing not to get better is choosing to stay bitter. Protect your peace, and distance yourself before you lose yourself. #MindsetShift #ToughTruths #SelfGrowth #BoundariesMatter #PersonalGrowth #MindsetMatters #LifeLessons #EmotionalHealth #SelfRespect #HealingJourney
🎯 These type of people never take responsibility for their own actions and constantly blame others for their choices. No matter what happens to us, we always have choice and autonomy over our own will. The victim mentality is deadly because you cannot change what you cannot even acknowledge.
2025-08-12 22:57:52
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My Midlife Chapters :
This is great advice but when it's your young child, it's very hard to apply that theory.
2025-08-12 20:01:11
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Eli :
Wow that’s brutally accurate
2025-08-12 21:48:39
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Shine Rey :
They seem to be addicted to the pain in some scenarios
2025-08-12 18:43:10
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David Dixon :
DEEEEEEP most won’t GET THIS unfortunately
2025-08-14 04:06:49
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Rooted Mrs. Queen 🌻 :
"choosing to not be better, is intentionally choosing to be bitter!!!! oof that hit
2025-08-13 14:14:13
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Tish Tansil :
It starts with forgiving yourself. You also need to distance yourself from those people who keep bringing up your past mistakes.
2025-08-12 08:32:04
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TRobbins :
Facts, some people are comfortable living in dysfunction
2025-08-18 15:24:07
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Aiesha4444 :
I just had to tell myself this. Get over yourself and just live. Everyone and everything isn't my problem...I'm my problem!!
2025-08-13 03:22:46
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user3517624572031 :
Speak on ittttttttttt.. if they're hurting themselves; you should know they don't mind passing the hurt onto you
2025-08-12 19:44:01
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rejoneltreasures :
WHOA!! I appreciate this message. Confirming the importance of me distancing myself from this type of person! I Thank God for giving me the strength to walk away!🙌🏽
2025-08-22 03:51:01
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Mefirstwholeness :
My God‼️‼️‼️‼️
2025-08-11 01:53:21
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Boss lady :
Powerful 🥰
2025-08-12 05:58:11
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Krysti 🌸Vo, MD Psychiatrist :
Protecting your peace is not selfish it’s survival. You can’t heal in someone else’s storm.
2025-08-19 13:03:45
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traceyjones40 :
That’s so deep😢😢😢
2025-08-13 13:43:54
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Valerie La Garde :
This is very true !!
2025-08-13 16:59:32
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LadyL1972❌️ :
Hmm so profound...
2025-08-14 02:06:30
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carolyngreggs :
The old saying, "you can't want more for a person then they want for themselves ".
2025-09-08 07:27:55
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donna69 :
facts
2025-08-19 13:02:11
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ayana g :
deeep
2025-08-14 20:28:35
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Crystal_Klear :
Wow look at God. I knew you would go far because in college you had a different spirit!!
2025-08-23 20:08:28
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Yvette Peters :
that's great stuff there
2026-07-23 18:42:52
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Jaye :
Been there done that, never again! I choose Me!
2025-08-12 16:59:33
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Tiffany Leger :
So very true!
2025-09-20 11:56:15
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