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cutewormgirl0203 :

“Mental health matters!” Until it’s avoidant attachment.

Nrnagua :

Genuinely how do I stop this

🍓ن :

you can't fix this, so just accept that love /relationships aren't for u and move on( I'm an avoidant myself)

Sve[I]n :

thought this was a safe space… why's everyone so hateful here

Abcdefg :

Anxious attachment when your heyyy is missing one y: 😡🤯

niksyyy_1 :

all the anxcious attachment ppl hating in the chat as if they aint the most manipulative ppl on the planes 🙄🙄

savi :

we are called avoidants bc you should AVOID us 😭

yoozu47 :

all of this because I fell in love ONCE

jessss :

why do people hate so much on people with avoidant attachment? like it's a trauma response, not a choice.

M[I]zi【51%】 :

"lack of maturity" are these comments fr..💔

angelic 🐾 :

Yall need to know we don’t want to be this way, but it’s a trauma response and it’s due to not having an unresponsive mom/dad and learning to cope.

davina :

ik that it’s so bad, but i‘m trying to work on it

Japa!! | 💿🫧 | 🌏♾️ :

i HATE the demonization of people with avoidant attachment and the infantilization of anxious attachment when they're both equally bad

velvet.bllush :

I feel so bad for avoidant attachment ppl cuz like damn .. you have to live like this?

adobong atay with cheese :

avoidants are so villainized as if anxious and disorganized aren't as problematic as avoidants.

🦄💨 :

Ooo y’all are finna make me crash avoidant attachment has nothing to do with maturity!

halo :

broooo i genuinely feel bad for them. They be in constant circle of self sabotage. They deserve happiness as well. They have to break free from that.✊🏻😭

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𝓡𝓾𝓽𝓱 :

bro I cant tell if I'm avoidant, aromantic, or just a bad person

..Douchebag!!😼 :

Henri ⚣ :

People need to start realising the world doesn’t revolve around them. Avoidant people suffer just as much as the people they get involved with.

ashley :

“Lack of maturity” are you for real? No I don’t have a lack of maturity at all. I am the way I am because I was raised with parents who did not know how to regulate their emotions and regulate their child’s emotions, so I was left on my own to deal with my own emotions and I was shown that showing emotions is weak and not normal. Before you guys start making assumptions, try to put yourselves in the shoes of someone with a avoidment attachment! It ain’t fun at all 😭✌

shila ❦ :

“we need to talk” js leave me alone ok💔

𝐋 𝐄 𝐘 𝐋 𝐀 🦢 :

My heart breaks for people with avoidant attachment issues. I have bpd and I know how it feels like to rage from toes to hair roots and once you come down you realize what you’ve done and said. And it’s awful. All my love goes out to people with avoidant attachment issues.

✰lly :

Woah savannah slow down