@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights avoidant attachment style individuals often become the center of our lives because we are trying to predict their next move. As a result, we often prioritize what the avoidant is doing or not doing, and our healing gets stuck as we end up, waiting for them to become the person that we wish that they were. This is an anti-rumination video designed to challenge common thought patterns that keep you stuck in order to push you forward on your healing journey. #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidantex #avoidantattachment #antirumination #emotionalabusesurvivor #breakup #relationshipadviceforwomen #fypシ #fyp #viral
Plan your own breakthrough.. instead of counting on theirs 👑
2025-08-11 18:41:45
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Andy3972 :
From everything I witnessed there were no plans on anything. Nothing was thought out let alone strategic. It was all reactive, even at work. Plans lead to expectations lead to pressure leads to vulnerability of being seen as bad as they see themselves.
2025-08-11 15:59:00
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pinkteath :
Thank you-much needed
2025-08-12 11:09:48
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PolishLastName :
This helps so much. I’m a tough love girlie. Thanks bestie.
2025-08-12 01:41:44
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minicrawl 🇨🇦 :
Finally moving on. I didn't even want this, but it's almost over
2025-08-11 20:32:32
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Esp ;) :
I’ve been waiting since March and I feel like I’ll be waiting forever..
2025-08-12 08:57:17
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El Güero :
I'm fine with that.
2025-08-12 02:36:05
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Audrey.Grim :
as much as it hurts, I followed you and like so many of your videos so they show up on my fyp.
2025-08-11 21:22:13
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Batmans _Counselor🤘 :
we both said goodbye, he ain't coming back
2025-08-11 18:52:30
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🐝 :
Why can’t I save this ma’am
2025-10-09 18:31:44
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Steven Barker :
I needed that
2025-08-12 01:29:13
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Alondra Cervantes :
He said he don’t care abt ppl or death and he’s ok alone, don’t need anyone, it’s an avoidant or just an odd person? 💀
2025-08-12 21:09:48
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ittibittikitticommitti :
thank you, thank you, thank you
2025-08-11 22:59:43
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Lisa :
Well, tomorrow isss Tuesday 😂🤷♀️🥰
2025-08-11 23:59:54
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Brooke :
Needed this today❤️thx
2025-08-11 16:30:47
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STL Jen :
Ty
2025-08-11 17:15:24
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Bri_Booth :
thank you I needed to hear this
2025-08-12 02:56:54
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Sophie :
Thank you 💛💛
2025-08-11 16:51:56
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babaghannouch :
Ty i just had a crashout at a wedding and sent her a 6 minutes voice note that I know she won’t respond to
2025-09-07 00:19:37
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Anne :
💯💯💯 ! he instead decided to leave me after that paragraph he left me a vm telling me IM DONE his DONE BECAUSE i am asking for things he promised me
2025-08-11 19:35:46
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Djlittlefever 🇨🇦 :
I believe it. She just got back from her 3 week trip in Mexico. She hasn’t said a word to me.
2025-08-11 17:37:43
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Gretchen The Life Coach :
Omg THIS yes thank you
2025-09-04 09:32:24
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