@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights avoidant attachment style individuals often become the center of our lives because we are trying to predict their next move. As a result, we often prioritize what the avoidant is doing or not doing, and our healing gets stuck as we end up, waiting for them to become the person that we wish that they were. This is an anti-rumination video designed to challenge common thought patterns that keep you stuck in order to push you forward on your healing journey. #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidantex #avoidantattachment #antirumination #emotionalabusesurvivor #breakup #relationshipadviceforwomen #fypシ #fyp #viral

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n8tive_cutie
n8tive_cutie :
Even if they did. It's never the same anyway
2025-08-11 16:41:17
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sweettooth.25
Seth.337 :
Finally something I actually needed to hear
2025-08-11 19:31:42
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victoriawithdogs
Victoria Rose :
Plan your own breakthrough.. instead of counting on theirs 👑
2025-08-11 18:41:45
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andy3972
Andy3972 :
From everything I witnessed there were no plans on anything. Nothing was thought out let alone strategic. It was all reactive, even at work. Plans lead to expectations lead to pressure leads to vulnerability of being seen as bad as they see themselves.
2025-08-11 15:59:00
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pinkteath
pinkteath :
Thank you-much needed
2025-08-12 11:09:48
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polishlastname
PolishLastName :
This helps so much. I’m a tough love girlie. Thanks bestie.
2025-08-12 01:41:44
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minicrawl
minicrawl 🇨🇦 :
Finally moving on. I didn't even want this, but it's almost over
2025-08-11 20:32:32
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usernotfound32328
Esp ;) :
I’ve been waiting since March and I feel like I’ll be waiting forever..
2025-08-12 08:57:17
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fifty_1_fifty86
El Güero :
I'm fine with that.
2025-08-12 02:36:05
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audrey.grim
Audrey.Grim :
as much as it hurts, I followed you and like so many of your videos so they show up on my fyp.
2025-08-11 21:22:13
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pannewilliams205
Batmans _Counselor🤘 :
we both said goodbye, he ain't coming back
2025-08-11 18:52:30
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chlolizabee
🐝 :
Why can’t I save this ma’am
2025-10-09 18:31:44
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s.t.e.v.e.n_b
Steven Barker :
I needed that
2025-08-12 01:29:13
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larkcervantes1
Alondra Cervantes :
He said he don’t care abt ppl or death and he’s ok alone, don’t need anyone, it’s an avoidant or just an odd person? 💀
2025-08-12 21:09:48
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ittibittikitticommitti
ittibittikitticommitti :
thank you, thank you, thank you
2025-08-11 22:59:43
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wtrlvr18
Lisa :
Well, tomorrow isss Tuesday 😂🤷‍♀️🥰
2025-08-11 23:59:54
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bbraun14
Brooke :
Needed this today❤️thx
2025-08-11 16:30:47
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candescent_jen
STL Jen :
Ty
2025-08-11 17:15:24
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bri_booth
Bri_Booth :
thank you I needed to hear this
2025-08-12 02:56:54
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sophers89
Sophie :
Thank you 💛💛
2025-08-11 16:51:56
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babaghannouch
babaghannouch :
Ty i just had a crashout at a wedding and sent her a 6 minutes voice note that I know she won’t respond to
2025-09-07 00:19:37
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annerose780
Anne :
💯💯💯 ! he instead decided to leave me after that paragraph he left me a vm telling me IM DONE his DONE BECAUSE i am asking for things he promised me
2025-08-11 19:35:46
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djlittlefever
Djlittlefever 🇨🇦 :
I believe it. She just got back from her 3 week trip in Mexico. She hasn’t said a word to me.
2025-08-11 17:37:43
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gretchenthelifecoach
Gretchen The Life Coach :
Omg THIS yes thank you
2025-09-04 09:32:24
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