That pattern recognition turned me into a whole detective. Good and bad
2025-08-13 19:53:14
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Justine Galston :
As the one with ADHD in a relationship, I get easily annoyed by my partner and easily turned off. I go weeks where I do not like them, want to be left alone, and hyper focus on every negative and annoying thing they do. I basically unintentionally convince myself I do not like them. Then I go back to adoring them for a few weeks, then back to wanting them gone. It’s a vicious cycle. I get along better with my partner when I don’t see them that often and that’s really inconvenient when I live with them. Lol
2025-08-24 20:43:11
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S :
Patterns , hyper fixation, rumination, focusing on one person at a time
2025-08-14 15:38:12
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Whoa Kadee :
Never knew my loyalty might be my ADHD
2025-08-14 11:47:03
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justcallmedree :
Omg this makes so much sense. People call me strict when I tell them that I can’t operate in gray areas. We’re either together or we’re not.
2025-08-14 20:46:57
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Jessica Cruz :
This and being a Virgo 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2025-08-13 17:53:01
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bloopty816 :
but the flipside is ADHD can also mean hypersexuality and impulsiveness which can cause struggles with monogamy.
2025-08-17 01:02:01
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Hello hello :
I can recognise when someone’s being disloyal and not genuine.
2025-08-16 17:12:23
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T :
my bf always be like wow you literally remember everything 🤣 yes, yes I do.
2025-08-13 00:11:50
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Tati Marie :
Same! My pattern recognition is 10/10 and I’m an all or nothing kind of person 😩
2025-08-13 13:52:30
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JC :
As a person with ADHD… speed it up😫
2025-09-22 03:20:11
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sam :
I notice everything , detach easily , feel people’s thoughts and feelings , read people , have feelings for everyone that I’ve ever dated that I can’t get rid of , I can’t forgive or forget I will focus on that trauma till I die ! I’m adhd and autistic along with bipolar and it’s hell
2025-08-19 14:49:36
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Marcus Aurelius’ Baby Mama :
I’m AuDHD and pattern recognition and this is why I ended my last relationship because he “couldn’t remember” what he was telling me and I clocked the manipulation. I also can only be with one person at a time as well
2025-08-13 11:15:20
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Mollie Feldman :
All of this! I didn't realize a lot of it was related to my ADHD.
2025-08-14 21:06:28
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kenkneeh :
Twinnnn, where have you been?! Lol
2025-08-19 14:46:15
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Jordan :
My adhd “all or nothing!” applicable; for EVERYTHING
2025-10-04 18:41:56
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A🥀 :
pattern recognition!!
2025-08-14 17:37:11
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Meg Suzanne ❌ :
ADHD … same. SAME. We weren’t built for this culture of dating or relationships. It’s soul crushing.
2025-08-14 02:13:14
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Brooke :
As someone with adhd this is very normal for adhd people
2025-10-03 12:33:21
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rejuvenate_with_reegs :
Pattern recognition is spot on. Also I feel you on forgiving but not forgetting because of the way you felt, you will always feel that. This is a new one to me that I’ve actually recognized recently and I TOTALLY relate.
2025-08-16 03:10:21
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SPRSOUL :
I don’t have ADHD or any medicallly proven symptoms but I do almost everything you mentioned. In my opinion that’s being self aware
2025-08-14 04:01:35
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St.Claire :
That being fiery loyal to one person because you’re hyper fixated on them is so real 😓, and people telling me to diversify my portfolio when dating feel impossible because a new romantic interest consumes my entire brain. Even trying to “take things slow” feels like torture, because I’ve ruminated over this person and all the varying futures we could have to the point my brain is waiting for it to all play out exactly how I’ve imagined and it never does…. I hate it here 🥲!!!!
2025-08-15 06:04:24
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Charlotte :
I strongly remember a feeling for someone (like not trusting them, or a need to keep my guard up), but rarely exactly why. 🤦🏼♀️
2025-08-16 14:35:54
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985fitbarbie :
You are me in another body.
2025-08-13 00:07:31
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tatianaeden :
Girl, I can relate, but I don’t date my brain won’t let me
2025-08-15 06:12:17
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