@nextlevelbydoctorc: Dr. C shares why avoidants struggle with touch in relationships. #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #disorganizedattachment #relationships #emotionalhealing #creatorsearchinsights
Omg. On a TwinFlame path is that the reason I cannot feel/see myself touching him??? I couldn't understand why I cannot visualize it while I wish to do it so bad. It is like invisible barrier to do it. Interesting. Will be the moment I finally can do it mean his heart is truly opening?
2025-09-06 08:26:00
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tippytambo :
I'm sorry but does ANYTHING work for avoidants?? 🙄🙄🙄
2025-08-12 21:48:25
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highlanddolly55 :
My avoidant ex was very affectionate over affectionate when present but would be distant and ghost me after
2025-09-07 17:27:50
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fortheboizbro :
Can they change how they feel about touch?
2025-08-22 13:17:48
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ahtdtd :
My DA always tells me he doesn’t like being touched except for me. He says he loves when I touch him and says he’s only comfortable with me touching him. Sometimes I wonder if it’s true but this reassured me.
2025-08-13 02:44:45
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BRB :
I dont understand how they can’t experience touch but a lot of them can when they are being intimate . Honestly it makes no sense and it’s annoying .
2025-08-13 02:05:33
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Heather McKenzie475 :
He wanted me to touch him- back rubs, leg scratches, head scratches- but would never reciprocate unless I begged and then he would roll his eyes and sigh.
2025-08-13 10:16:28
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\(333^{e}\) :
The one I know likes to cuddle
2025-08-22 21:14:22
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K8T✍🏽📚 :
I'm awkward and hate being touched. Only my kids, no one else 🥶
2025-08-12 19:43:28
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Maxamed Daahir Ismacil :
are fearful avoidant same
2025-08-12 15:21:02
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Arie Gabriel :
I love learning about avoidants’ relationship to touch, it started with my mom and went on throughout life with partners where they just can’t stand touch and touch is all I’ve ever wanted and needed.
2025-08-13 06:13:51
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that_lumberjack :
What if they can’t stop touching you even if it’s just a pinky on your leg when you’re driving?🤣🤣
2025-09-04 20:55:16
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ExSuperSoldier :
lol bruh it works for a while b4 they start deactivating... then they hate it
2025-08-13 17:33:00
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Notabot23 :
Well my disorganized avoidant dude loves touch, he always seeks it out, tries to hug me, rubs my back etc. I am also disorganized avoidant and I hate physical touch with everyone except for him
2025-08-13 00:15:03
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Lauren j w :
My ex would say I touched him too softly and brush me off, he would hug for a little bit then need space.. he wasn’t like this at the beginning though!
2025-08-13 08:39:46
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mori :
They feel that at the beginning.
2025-08-13 08:28:04
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gemslittlebookshelf :
we loved being touched by our person, its on our terms. I'm a FA.
2025-08-14 18:48:29
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teresaobrien25 :
that's really interesting
2025-08-27 15:48:15
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Rara :
mine want to touch .so she fearful
2025-08-12 23:51:20
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qwerty :
Mine said he didn’t like people touching him and he’s been single for 25 years. Over time, he loved me hugging him and stroking his hair and used to tell me i made him feel “warm” we didn’t sleep together after 1 year of dating as he said he’s too ashamed of his body. I am very patient but I got bored of waiting too.
2025-08-13 10:16:15
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DaveyBoi :
Whelp. guess im broken.
2025-08-14 16:31:16
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Moira Jo | Fearful Avoidant💋 :
Yes
2025-08-13 14:38:32
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Pixel Mango :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-08-24 23:11:32
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Yep Nop773 :
😑
2025-08-15 09:45:29
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A Salty Scotsman :
I think one of the most painful things for me, with a DA spouse, was the fact that she would say "you know, affectionate/intimate touch doesn't have be JUST sex" and then reject and avoid all non-sexual touch (save the occasional hug).
2025-08-12 15:33:07
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