@selfexperimenting: Going from Self Hate to Self Love (but make it realistic) #selfhatred #selflove #idontlikemyself #depressed #burnout #depressionisreal #adhd #innerchild
But like, what if my self hatred isnt a coping mechanism, but fully logical? I would hate anyone who did the things to me that my own body did, so logically why shouldnt i hate it?
2025-08-17 21:44:20
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Eva :
I doubt I'll ever get out of self hatred. The most I've ever gotten to is self dislike and it just takes one mistake to send myself into self hated
2025-08-12 20:22:23
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The ADHD Elder Millennial :
I’m working toward self neutrality, which I think you’ve talked about before
2025-08-12 15:59:47
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MrBookBoy :
How do you start this process when you over-intellectualize every thought? It feels like I’m too smart to ever allow myself to not hate myself
2025-08-13 05:52:37
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LuisKingKing 🇵🇷🇩🇴 :
I can’t imagine being able to love myself
2025-08-12 16:35:42
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RcknPP7 :
What if you like yourself at your core but you hate how your brain works
2025-08-12 22:09:27
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Yearning :
The idea of loving myself makes me feel angry because I hate myself so much. Telling me to love myself is like telling me to love my enemy
2025-09-26 23:02:35
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Danni :
Ooop👀 Didn't expect to be called out so directly, thanks bestie 🙏🏻
2025-08-12 15:44:10
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Cody Matthew :
I'm just stopping by to say I'm very proud of what you've built. I've been following you since you were under 1K and look at you now! You have helped me many times over the last couple years. Thank you!
2025-08-12 16:10:50
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_h_a_l_i_e_n_ :
Pls stop yelling at me 😭
2025-08-12 17:11:47
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lovesalliekate :
I don’t think anyone should love me… why should I 😂
2025-12-22 01:15:54
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aCandleWaxFan :
i have the same shirt 🦝
2025-08-12 16:09:33
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Rapple2824 :
I can’t tell where I am on this spectrum.
2025-08-12 17:45:34
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Kelly Bellis :
I started my journey towards self-love with self-compassion. Just going a little easier on myself about my mistakes helped tremendously.
2025-08-12 18:48:02
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🅃ammy Graham. :
oh I'm happy I'm early.
2025-08-12 15:37:55
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ineedmorecowbellnow :
I love this idea. just work towards self-dislike. 😊
2025-08-13 01:44:06
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V :
The problem is that loving myself feels cringe and unrealistic, like delusion, I can't stick to something I don't believe but the whole problem is that I don't believe
2025-10-04 05:59:07
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LadyCaileigh :
The self-child work was most impactful for me.. I was actively reparenting myself in relation to my emotional regulation.. would I get mad at a child?
2025-10-18 23:07:34
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kendraschenk :
HEY! Thank you.
2025-08-12 17:31:21
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Raiya Writes (Calligraphy) :
just gotta stop comparing myself. but it's hard when you're living in other people's shadows.
2025-08-13 04:50:04
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ZoeBaloo :
Omg twinsies I’m wearing the same shirt
2025-08-12 15:38:58
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Rage-Against-The-Dishwasher :
I have been trying to love myself based on childhood compliments from forever ago but then also realized how much I was banking on "adults" liking me while kids didn't actively seek me out, and now I'm in my 30s...
2025-08-12 17:44:38
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𝐄=𝐦𝐜² 𝐈𝐍𝐓𝐏🌙 ──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝── :
to learn to love yourself, you have to become more selfish.
2025-08-12 23:50:48
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Orakel The Forg Wizard :
Definitely because of your videos getting on my fyp WHEN I NEED THEM. This made me realize even if it doesnt seem like it im constantly working on myself. In in the middle of self neautral and self love right now. Even to the point where when i sprial (which i know i will its inevitable) i reassure myself in my head those terrible thinks im thinking about myself arnt who i truly am. And the phrase i repeat in my head is “you would not say this to your friends” thank you for all your post and thank you for being so real! Love ya and keep up the amazing work
2025-08-12 18:00:51
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vitalitynaturopath :
GREAT POST!!!!!🥰🥰🥰
2025-08-12 20:11:45
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