Chris Hatfield - Attachment 🧠
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Tuesday 12 August 2025 17:02:07 GMT
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𝒦𝓇𝒾𝓈𝓉𝒾𝓃🦋⃤ :
I only get anxious attachment when I'm in love with avoidants. People with normal communication don't make me spiral.
2025-08-17 08:28:46
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UnwaryArtist12 :
Anxious attachment is completely and utterly countered when faced by good communication
2025-08-14 13:34:05
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Chloe Price :
The timing is crazy ._.
2025-08-12 22:36:35
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abi 🪼 :
I have BPD. They literally DO control my day 😭
2025-08-12 21:31:31
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alyssa :
On the phone that I pay for?
2025-08-18 19:47:01
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nuclear_blonde_nl 🇳🇱 :
No! If someone is texting u for months with these everyday texts. And then pulls back, getting anxious is a normal reaction to their change in behaviour. Ur attached to someone and u got used to a that way of communicating. I see ur point. But its not that black and white always. Certainly not with a dismissive avoidant. And also not with how people are texting nowadays. Getting ghosted is around the corner. And almost everyone is experiencing this. Just a simple text , “chat u later” will not hurt anyone. But hey, thats just my opinion… ❤️
2025-08-12 18:53:15
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Chiibin :
how do you self regulate then?
2025-08-13 20:31:37
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Meaganjainxi :
I have anxious attatchment but I find it rude to not simply tell me your busy, it’s not about anything else, if you care enough about someone you’ll take 30 seconds to send a quick message explaining your busy, but that’s just me
2025-08-17 18:37:26
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Kiora :
"it's not someone else's responsibility to regulate your anxious attachment" PREACH OMG.
2025-08-14 16:30:34
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✨ Nikki J. ✨ :
Being busy- i understand.. It's the fact of "Active Now/active __ min ago" but being left on delivered/opened for 2+hrs... Like why are other people getting your attention but your gf/"future wife" can't?.. 💔
2025-08-16 08:03:16
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Aurora :
“and then he called me out and said that’s dependency…”
2025-08-13 17:30:18
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Lori :
I hate this about me and I hate seeing how true this is. But it also helps to know I am not alone.
2025-08-12 17:54:57
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Alice Brescia Morra🎤🩺 :
true, but while you work on yourself you need to be with someone who cares about how they make you feel, it’s a compromise
2025-08-14 12:30:54
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oopdivaaa_ :
Read to filth within 1 minute
2025-09-29 09:54:53
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FayeEden :
This makes me feel sad and that just shows me how much I still have to work on myself. Truth hurts sometimes.
2025-08-13 14:10:40
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RelentlesslyGayWarlock :
Just because we have immediate access to each other doesn't mean we are owed each other's immediate attention. We're busy adults who can't always text back right away, even if it is to say they're busy
2025-08-15 05:04:37
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🦊MrsPandaBear_89🦊 :
omg this really opens my eyes, I easily spiral when this happens and as soon as I calm down it makes sense that they could be busy and shouldnt be relying on them to sooth me or calm me down only learned about my anxious attachment x
2026-08-15 00:26:22
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Steph P - R :
The timing of this is insane
2025-09-23 04:08:07
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maria 🦋 :
no because you’re right. two things are true and while they should communicate, I shouldn’t depend my emotions on a text back
2025-08-13 18:46:33
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Daizy :
it's really just my intense need for patterns and as soon as they're broken I'll overanalyze to the point I'll go crazy cuz I'm 100% convinced there's a deeper reason for change
2025-08-13 09:00:14
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Jr02 :
but what if they go from perfect communication to almost nothing for a while then back to meh communication
2025-08-13 05:33:19
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Jax 🤍 :
Why is anxious attachment always the problem though?
2025-08-17 22:08:57
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i_iiiooi :
I only start feeling anxious when he is consistent all the time and then he changes. Like why change? Means something’s up. What’s up? He needs to share. Don’t want to share means he shares with someone else 😭
2025-09-02 15:56:25
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Gabby Lee :
omg wow timing is insane on this one…
2025-10-07 02:36:32
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Freya :
I understand not being dependent on them, but can't they just take 20 seconds to message I don't understand? it's not that I depend on that information to function, it's just nice to be communicative.
2025-08-25 07:10:10
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