Chris Hatfield - Attachment 🧠
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Tuesday 12 August 2025 17:02:07 GMT
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Sarah Krieger943 :
while this is true, it also speaks volumes of your place in your partner's life when they don't think you're worth a few seconds to acknowledge you. it's inconsiderate.
2025-08-13 01:00:31
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This play ab me?
2025-08-13 15:52:21
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Charlotte :
How do I fix myself
2025-08-13 17:20:53
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✨ Nikki J. ✨ :
Being busy- i understand.. It's the fact of "Active Now/active __ min ago" but being left on delivered/opened for 2+hrs... Like why are other people getting your attention but your gf/"future wife" can't?.. 💔
2025-08-16 08:03:16
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hannaaaahh :
This sounds like anxious attachment dating a avoidant. Never works
2025-08-13 02:47:14
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payytonraee :
What about in a long distance relationship and not texting til the end of the day and calling once a week ?
2025-08-15 04:15:11
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Landon :
If they are leaving you on read or delivered for more than 4-5 hours and haven’t notified you at all of anything then that’s just disrespect or not caring and at that point there is no point to be in that relationship
2025-08-12 17:28:33
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Meaganjainxi :
I have anxious attatchment but I find it rude to not simply tell me your busy, it’s not about anything else, if you care enough about someone you’ll take 30 seconds to send a quick message explaining your busy, but that’s just me
2025-08-17 18:37:26
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yamixhikari :
Ok, but let's just normalize saying something like "gotta work, text you later" and actually doing it instead of just leaving you on seen for 3 days. Idk where the middle ground is. 😅
2025-08-13 10:38:43
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musicsfts :
thank you for calling me out 😭🙏
2025-08-20 21:14:47
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Brittany ✨ :
while it’s not the other persons job, if the person cares about you they will truly work with you on finding a middle ground. can’t text every day that you’re gonna be busy that day? send your schedule. “hey monday - thursday this week imma be at work just in case you wonder.” or even say the day before “hey im going to the zoo tomorrow with my friends, so i wont be around for a good chunk of the day” cause while both people deserve to live their life, communication is important. if you can’t think about the person to at least tell them you’re going to be busy when you’re in constant communication with them in the norm, then that’s something that needs to be addressed
2025-08-15 08:15:51
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Eliezer Ramirez :
But how
2025-08-14 04:49:42
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alex :
it takes literally 5 seconds
2025-08-13 20:00:32
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DADDY :
I dont really spiral, i just get sad if i dont get a text at all in one day.. or when it goes a few days without no reply. It makes me feel like my time and effort is worth nothing. Like we all have breaks in the day and free time at night. We all have the time to text back something small, even if we have lots of things going on
2025-08-13 12:37:07
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Chloe Price :
The timing is crazy ._.
2025-08-12 22:36:35
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jennifernemeti :
okay, but what if i know he has the time (he has a 10 mins of break) every 45 mins and i get a text back after approximately 5 hours. What do you think about this?
2025-08-13 19:17:15
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nuclear_blonde_nl 🇳🇱 :
No! If someone is texting u for months with these everyday texts. And then pulls back, getting anxious is a normal reaction to their change in behaviour. Ur attached to someone and u got used to a that way of communicating. I see ur point. But its not that black and white always. Certainly not with a dismissive avoidant. And also not with how people are texting nowadays. Getting ghosted is around the corner. And almost everyone is experiencing this. Just a simple text , “chat u later” will not hurt anyone. But hey, thats just my opinion… ❤️
2025-08-12 18:53:15
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UnwaryArtist12 :
Anxious attachment is completely and utterly countered when faced by good communication
2025-08-14 13:34:05
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Alexis :
did yall watch the whole video?? the spiraling turns to codependency which turns to toxic problems. when you spiral, so does everything else and putting that pressure of keeping you sane on to someone else is when the issue begins
2025-08-15 06:21:32
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Christie Wood :
How do I heal my anxious attachment?
2025-08-13 03:38:19
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Jax 🤍 :
Why is anxious attachment always the problem though?
2025-08-17 22:08:57
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anamaria :
i agree, but how do you regulate yourself? what exactly do you do? u tell yourself... what exactly?
2025-08-15 08:38:07
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🔥Alchemist🔥 :
true but there’s a difference between healthy texting and someone bread-crumbing.
2025-08-13 10:14:46
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sonotnessax :
Okay how do
2025-08-15 02:16:01
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