@safi_aziz: Hosting is flirting. Flirting is actually just asking good questions and we should ask everyone good questions. Quality conversation is a lost art. Here’s a few ways I have quality conversations every day. #hosting #party #conversation #conversationstarters
I always tell people "small talk leads to big talk" when they say they hate small talk! You're warming up the conversation and finding threads to riff off of.
2025-08-13 15:22:43
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magz :
Yes yes yes!! More curiosity and whimsy
2025-08-12 20:09:37
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user2728943009705 :
I like asking what band they’d like to see
2025-09-12 15:19:04
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colleen✨⚔️ :
i used to be freaked out by everyone thinking i’m flirting w them but it’s just cuz im nosy and love to yap 🙂↔️now i just love being a lil flirt.
2025-08-13 10:10:15
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Carolyne :
So that’s why all these dudes think I’m flirting with them. I’m just really curious. I’ll ask away. The they always find a way to drop their wife/gf etc…I’m always like…cool?
2025-08-12 23:15:52
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Oui oui :
I love asking have you ever met any ghosts
2025-08-13 04:13:23
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aroundmylittletable :
please write a book 😍😍
2025-09-02 21:54:45
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Dwyla Pearson :
this is actually my toxic trait
2025-08-12 21:04:47
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fili~red :
Why do you believe what you believe?
2025-09-09 15:57:14
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Hkeky :
See my issue is, I get scared of my crushes…. I already do this with friends.
2025-08-13 04:36:47
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Anna :
This is excellent advice
2025-08-12 18:44:47
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shami! :
My favorite is “are there any traditions do you want to continue/keep/remove with your future family?” Normally the convo is lighthearted before so I hear a really funny story 😂
2025-08-13 22:13:24
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Jack :
What’s your magic?
2025-08-19 02:28:05
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Suzeclues :
What is something in your life that makes you feel the most like yourself?
2025-08-16 00:18:13
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Lefty_lexi :
What’s a conspiracy theory you think is real 😳 a little spicy but very big conversation starter
2025-08-18 18:51:55
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Jeanna Hupp :
❤️love this! Is it normal to feel awkward at first?
2025-08-16 18:57:35
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Raine :
I feel like my autopilot used to be really good at it, but it's just a piercing silence around others. Probs from anxiety. When I do happen to ask, it's hard to keep that bird in the air.
2025-08-17 12:03:50
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Urvi :
Class is in session 📝
2025-08-15 16:34:22
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meeshkapeeshka :
im horrible at asking questions 😫
2025-08-12 21:50:26
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Renée :
I'm soooo rusty after being a remote worker for so long and we moved somewhere new. i feel bad for how clunky my interactions are but i know i need practice!
2025-08-18 14:00:41
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monarch5 :
Totally agree!! I love to start with the basics and then ask a liiiiittle bit too intrusive questions just to crack someone open and that’s how I know someone is my speed if they’re willing to dive in w me.
2025-08-12 21:31:43
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amandi_sc :
What was the first concert you ever attended?
2025-08-13 13:09:57
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Lauren :
A boring one that doesn’t always get boring answers is “what do you do for fun?” That way you can see if they prefer art/sports/indoor/outdoor things and then continue asking “what do you like about that?” “What got you into that?” Etc. I love watching people light up talking about their projects/favorite things 🤭✨
2025-08-17 16:44:47
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Hendershmanison :
“What’s been keeping you busy lately” is a soft exit from “what do you do from work” and it lets people choose work or personal, and makes it easy to navigate setting where not everyone has the same type of employment. Follow that up with “what do you wish more people knew [about that thing you just told me]?”
2025-08-17 20:28:32
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kotkitiktok :
I like to ask “if you had to live in a house where everything inside and out was one color, what color would that be”! Interested in your 25 top questions :) love your videos!
2025-08-14 07:57:40
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