@safi_aziz: Hosting is flirting. Flirting is actually just asking good questions and we should ask everyone good questions. Quality conversation is a lost art. Here’s a few ways I have quality conversations every day. #hosting #party #conversation #conversationstarters

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ryanrudebock
Ryan Rudebock :
I always tell people "small talk leads to big talk" when they say they hate small talk! You're warming up the conversation and finding threads to riff off of.
2025-08-13 15:22:43
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heyitsmagzzz
magz :
Yes yes yes!! More curiosity and whimsy
2025-08-12 20:09:37
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sendmemes19
user2728943009705 :
I like asking what band they’d like to see
2025-09-12 15:19:04
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coltighe
colleen✨⚔️ :
i used to be freaked out by everyone thinking i’m flirting w them but it’s just cuz im nosy and love to yap 🙂‍↔️now i just love being a lil flirt.
2025-08-13 10:10:15
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fuzzycockface
Carolyne :
So that’s why all these dudes think I’m flirting with them. I’m just really curious. I’ll ask away. The they always find a way to drop their wife/gf etc…I’m always like…cool?
2025-08-12 23:15:52
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frenchtoastgirl
Oui oui :
I love asking have you ever met any ghosts
2025-08-13 04:13:23
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kulvanichsana
aroundmylittletable :
please write a book 😍😍
2025-09-02 21:54:45
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dwylapearson
Dwyla Pearson :
this is actually my toxic trait
2025-08-12 21:04:47
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filiredcan
fili~red :
Why do you believe what you believe?
2025-09-09 15:57:14
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h.k79711
Hkeky :
See my issue is, I get scared of my crushes…. I already do this with friends.
2025-08-13 04:36:47
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annaforeal
Anna :
This is excellent advice
2025-08-12 18:44:47
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shamishenans
shami! :
My favorite is “are there any traditions do you want to continue/keep/remove with your future family?” Normally the convo is lighthearted before so I hear a really funny story 😂
2025-08-13 22:13:24
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snackpackie123
Jack :
What’s your magic?
2025-08-19 02:28:05
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suzeclues1
Suzeclues :
What is something in your life that makes you feel the most like yourself?
2025-08-16 00:18:13
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lefty_lexi
Lefty_lexi :
What’s a conspiracy theory you think is real 😳 a little spicy but very big conversation starter
2025-08-18 18:51:55
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gmahupp
Jeanna Hupp :
❤️love this! Is it normal to feel awkward at first?
2025-08-16 18:57:35
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qcuttlefish
Raine :
I feel like my autopilot used to be really good at it, but it's just a piercing silence around others. Probs from anxiety. When I do happen to ask, it's hard to keep that bird in the air.
2025-08-17 12:03:50
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theurvimehta
Urvi :
Class is in session 📝
2025-08-15 16:34:22
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meeshkapeeshka
meeshkapeeshka :
im horrible at asking questions 😫
2025-08-12 21:50:26
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reneeneenicole
Renée :
I'm soooo rusty after being a remote worker for so long and we moved somewhere new. i feel bad for how clunky my interactions are but i know i need practice!
2025-08-18 14:00:41
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monarch_115
monarch5 :
Totally agree!! I love to start with the basics and then ask a liiiiittle bit too intrusive questions just to crack someone open and that’s how I know someone is my speed if they’re willing to dive in w me.
2025-08-12 21:31:43
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amandi_sc
amandi_sc :
What was the first concert you ever attended?
2025-08-13 13:09:57
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localbirtdag
Lauren :
A boring one that doesn’t always get boring answers is “what do you do for fun?” That way you can see if they prefer art/sports/indoor/outdoor things and then continue asking “what do you like about that?” “What got you into that?” Etc. I love watching people light up talking about their projects/favorite things 🤭✨
2025-08-17 16:44:47
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hendershmanison
Hendershmanison :
“What’s been keeping you busy lately” is a soft exit from “what do you do from work” and it lets people choose work or personal, and makes it easy to navigate setting where not everyone has the same type of employment. Follow that up with “what do you wish more people knew [about that thing you just told me]?”
2025-08-17 20:28:32
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kotkitiktokotki
kotkitiktok :
I like to ask “if you had to live in a house where everything inside and out was one color, what color would that be”! Interested in your 25 top questions :) love your videos!
2025-08-14 07:57:40
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