@abbyrodmanpsychotherapy: “It feels like (the narcissist) hates me.” As a psychotherapist of decades, I’ve heard that from victims more times than I can count. And it certainly can feel that way. The dismissive way they treat you, look at you, and talk to you all sure feels a lot like hate. But hate requires real connection and we know the narcissist isn’t capable of that. What they feel for you is actually much darker and even more hurtful than hate. The narcissist isn’t connected enough to you to hate you. But their envy, resentment, and contempt makes it feel like they do. #fyp #narctok #narcissist #therapy #HealingJourney
In ANY interaction with a Narcissist; you lose with them, because any way you turn with them, is the wrong way! Best not to EVER deal with them if at all possible!
2025-08-14 00:58:33
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Linda :
wow, how profound. All true
2025-08-12 22:25:03
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Janab E Aali :
Why do they occasionally tell you that they love and miss you?
2025-08-14 14:36:42
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Mark924 :
Hit it right on all three points. She definitely turned my empathic nature dark.
2025-08-12 23:03:15
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Jonathon :
I just blocked the narcissist, putting this 6 year cycle to rest for good and for all. I'm stopping giving him the power he wants
2025-08-12 23:38:42
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coco :
If you cry over them you’re crying for yourself for having been played. They will never be worth anyone’s tears because why would anyone cry over a con artist.
2025-08-13 12:30:23
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DLT2015 :
I have recognized contempt in a narcissist before I knew she was a narcissist. It was so puzzling at the time.
2025-08-12 22:46:21
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Lacika 🅴 :
I must disagree with this one, they’re nothing but OBSESSED with you, very very deeply obsessed.
2025-08-13 12:30:55
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❌️ TomCat ❌️ :
She hated being held accountable. She hated when I expected her to live up to her word. She hated that I questioned her authority.
2025-08-14 20:22:36
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brenbren :
This is so true never thought of this thanks for sharing ❤️
2025-08-15 02:03:43
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Big dawg Charlie :
Being with a narc is the most dehumanising experience ever to exist. The abuse is one thing. But just how their mind works and then the consequences of that for us, are so sad. The whole thing is pain
2025-08-13 19:02:33
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Scorpio 🦂 :
"They didn't sign up to serve your needs. They signed you up to have you serve theirs". Very powerful qoute!
2025-08-15 19:58:00
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JaCqUeLiNe.6O9 :
He hates me for my stable, well paying job which has given me 3 promotions in 5 years, even though that job supports us. The resentment, contempt and envy is mind blowing
2025-08-16 23:31:39
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Lapu The Golden 🧡🐾 :
They are intimidated by us!
2025-08-13 13:52:18
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X :
Agree .. this is all true
2025-08-12 22:42:32
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Isabel McArthur :
Yep. This is why boundaries are their kryptonite
2025-08-13 00:07:41
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John Hanifin525 :
100% Narcissists are complete degenerate failures! Move on without them!!!!!!!
2025-08-14 12:29:02
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Rock :
They hate life because they have no sense of self outside of us.
2025-08-14 07:40:39
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megan.being.megan :
Watching my Dad talk about my Mom my entire childhood, I know exactly how a narcissist feels and what they go through for the one who got away. They never get over it and the pendulum swings and leaves them in hell yet they were never the problem. Maybe next life.
2025-08-13 04:27:53
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lumpy Addams :
Yes
2025-08-14 00:44:33
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Strongerthan7 :
💯💯💯💯💯 Yess I live with one. 😈😈
2025-08-13 16:10:49
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Trump4YOU :
You explained it perfectly. 😥
2025-08-14 18:04:03
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user8597202944778 :
Your backdrop is beautiful... love the foliage
2025-08-13 10:46:12
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MuffieKeckMB :
That is a wonderful explanation
2025-08-13 12:14:31
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