@abbyrodmanpsychotherapy: “It feels like (the narcissist) hates me.” As a psychotherapist of decades, I’ve heard that from victims more times than I can count. And it certainly can feel that way. The dismissive way they treat you, look at you, and talk to you all sure feels a lot like hate. But hate requires real connection and we know the narcissist isn’t capable of that. What they feel for you is actually much darker and even more hurtful than hate. The narcissist isn’t connected enough to you to hate you. But their envy, resentment, and contempt makes it feel like they do. #fyp #narctok #narcissist #therapy #HealingJourney

Abby Rodman | Psychotherapist
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karenward66
Karen Ward🇨🇦 :
he hates me for telling the truth 😂
2025-08-12 23:01:59
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weaverofsmiles
weaverofsmiles :
In ANY interaction with a Narcissist; you lose with them, because any way you turn with them, is the wrong way! Best not to EVER deal with them if at all possible!
2025-08-14 00:58:33
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lindamarie553
Linda :
wow, how profound. All true
2025-08-12 22:25:03
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janaabeaali
Janab E Aali :
Why do they occasionally tell you that they love and miss you?
2025-08-14 14:36:42
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ballwin63021
Mark924 :
Hit it right on all three points. She definitely turned my empathic nature dark.
2025-08-12 23:03:15
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iamjonxjon
Jonathon :
I just blocked the narcissist, putting this 6 year cycle to rest for good and for all. I'm stopping giving him the power he wants
2025-08-12 23:38:42
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cococabana44
coco :
If you cry over them you’re crying for yourself for having been played. They will never be worth anyone’s tears because why would anyone cry over a con artist.
2025-08-13 12:30:23
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dlt20151
DLT2015 :
I have recognized contempt in a narcissist before I knew she was a narcissist. It was so puzzling at the time.
2025-08-12 22:46:21
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lacika
Lacika 🅴 :
I must disagree with this one, they’re nothing but OBSESSED with you, very very deeply obsessed.
2025-08-13 12:30:55
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sickofitallagagain
❌️ TomCat ❌️ :
She hated being held accountable. She hated when I expected her to live up to her word. She hated that I questioned her authority.
2025-08-14 20:22:36
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user6910909263874
brenbren :
This is so true never thought of this thanks for sharing ❤️
2025-08-15 02:03:43
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charlie.cars.and.gym
Big dawg Charlie :
Being with a narc is the most dehumanising experience ever to exist. The abuse is one thing. But just how their mind works and then the consequences of that for us, are so sad. The whole thing is pain
2025-08-13 19:02:33
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ermyniramos
Scorpio 🦂 :
"They didn't sign up to serve your needs. They signed you up to have you serve theirs". Very powerful qoute!
2025-08-15 19:58:00
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jacqueline.6o9
JaCqUeLiNe.6O9 :
He hates me for my stable, well paying job which has given me 3 promotions in 5 years, even though that job supports us. The resentment, contempt and envy is mind blowing
2025-08-16 23:31:39
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lapu_the_golden_
Lapu The Golden 🧡🐾 :
They are intimidated by us!
2025-08-13 13:52:18
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kat664415
X :
Agree .. this is all true
2025-08-12 22:42:32
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isabelmcarthur123
Isabel McArthur :
Yep. This is why boundaries are their kryptonite
2025-08-13 00:07:41
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johnhanifin525
John Hanifin525 :
100% Narcissists are complete degenerate failures! Move on without them!!!!!!!
2025-08-14 12:29:02
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rock2663
Rock :
They hate life because they have no sense of self outside of us.
2025-08-14 07:40:39
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megan.being.megan
megan.being.megan :
Watching my Dad talk about my Mom my entire childhood, I know exactly how a narcissist feels and what they go through for the one who got away. They never get over it and the pendulum swings and leaves them in hell yet they were never the problem. Maybe next life.
2025-08-13 04:27:53
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lumpy.addams
lumpy Addams :
Yes
2025-08-14 00:44:33
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strongerthan08
Strongerthan7 :
💯💯💯💯💯 Yess I live with one. 😈😈
2025-08-13 16:10:49
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dinahoff4
Trump4YOU :
You explained it perfectly. 😥
2025-08-14 18:04:03
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auntlaura22
user8597202944778 :
Your backdrop is beautiful... love the foliage
2025-08-13 10:46:12
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muffie17keck
MuffieKeckMB :
That is a wonderful explanation
2025-08-13 12:14:31
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