@rizzlersizzler1:

sara :

i HATE myself for it like why am i sabotaging such a good thing 😭

R.K;) :

when I think I'm catching feeling but then I start to hate them for no reason

mm_ww :

avoidant and anxious attachment

av :

I genuinely hate feeling like this he’s being so kind & we r in a good place but my mind is so set on the idea that I need my freedom and I need to distance myself from him & that I need to find a valid reason to breakup w him im so cooked

Kacey :

And ppl are always like “but if you want to keep them then why don’t you??” LIKE YOU DONT UNDERSTAND

B00ty Licker Extreme! (ᵃⁿᵈₒₙₑ) :

and then you try to watch videos for advice to get better but the video and the comments are just calling you a monster for your attachment style

alexa 🔮 :

me with my disorganized attachment style

Brianna :

Honestly me right now. Found a guy who treats me great and never makes me nervous and thought I was finally ready for a relationship and almost 2 months in dating him now but the last month I’ve mentally fallen back into my old ways and no longer want to be in a relationship. I want to be alone again and not have emotional attachments because I always ruin them and truly love my “situationships” because there is no emotional obligation

Marceline♡ :

was avoidant, turned anxious for that one person and made me realize why i was an avoidant

♡Liv♡ :

tellin you!!! thinking I’m ready for a relationship but I’m not. love the chase hate being chased. i can literally chase someone (not overly do it tho) and then the min they want me im like 🤨

Nathalie Trejo :

as an anxious attachment, can someone explain why you’re like this 😭😂

izzybee :

my brain keeps making up scenarios to try and make me not trust him and i hate it because i actually like him

_mackenzies_spamm_ :

the one person it didn’t happened with destroyed me so yk it won’t be happening again

soph :

🧃🫧💿🍊 :

i wonder if his brain works like this and actually misses me :(

nya :

Cristina :

I hate loving someone who decided overnight that they hate me

★𝐍𝐎𝐑𝐀★ :

insta_lova :

Femke🦦 :

I actually liked him and he went on and ignored ME 😔

Atticus David Lee :

As an anxious with an avoidant. Patience, safety, space. But I’m alone a lot. 😩

user896472 :

literally once i realized they are for real i always have to get out and then end up hating myself so much for it

girlyinspo777 :

U look like Isabela Merced

Christopher :

That contract of avoidance started when yall was young. Your silence was met with silence and that’s how yk you was alone. Leave b4 you get left. Hurt b4 you get hurt. Hate em b4 they hate you. It’s a form of control whether you want to accept it or not. Ts will only end when you heal that trauma that caused the contract in the first place. Then you have to stay and see shit out. If not yall will repeat this cycle till you realize that running will never fill that hole in you. People will🖤

𝓑𝓸𝓫𝓻𝓮𝔂𝓒𝓾𝓶 :

Like I don’t think I could do this.