@happyaftertrauma: When someone is threatening to harm themselves in order to keep you in a relationship you don’t want to be in, you have to see that for what that is, it’s coercive control. Emotional abuse. Blackmail. It’s not love, it’s an act of desperation to keep you exactly where they want you to be. #relationships #therapist

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wildandwounded
Roxi :
I ended a relationship & he put his head through a window & had glass in his neck, i called the ambulance, waited til they came & then disappeared into the distance. Absolutely no way i was gonna be with someone that would do that.
2025-08-13 22:05:47
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leigh.morrow
Leigh Morrow :
My ex boyfriend done this to me on numerous occasions. Its emotionally abusive it left me at times blaming myself etc. I know now that wasn’t me. It’s hard when feelings are involved.
2025-08-13 16:01:54
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mercbaby88
Zara :
Had this for near 4 years finally nearly a year free from the narc feel like a huge weight has been lifted and couldn’t be happier
2025-08-13 19:18:18
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peachicedtears
samantha :
My ex done this to me often. It’s horrific.
2025-08-13 18:29:42
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bobby.fingers0
Bobby Fingers :
my ex used to say that any time she wanted attention or thought she was losing control in the relationship. guess what didn't happen when I walked away? 🙄
2025-08-25 08:00:23
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jcoll15
jcoll15 :
Took me to long to see this , finally worked on why I accepted so little realised it was from my childhood.. sat with it sat in the solitude wanted to heal so I never attracted this kinda relationship and pain again ✨
2025-08-14 15:18:20
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user5700810310961
Sharron :
Yup been there
2025-08-13 16:08:56
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angieking3169
Angie King :
I had this from childhood, sadly it did make me give in throughout my life, it gave power to people who used it as a tool to control me. Hoping now with deep reflection and working on myself, I will never repeat the cycle 🙏👌❤️
2025-08-13 14:11:56
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gabbbyy00
gabbbyy :
well damn 😳
2025-09-07 14:37:05
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joannecam2021
Joanne :
So true ❤️
2025-08-13 14:29:28
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mgtf21
mgtf21 Sue :
Yes to all the above
2025-08-13 13:39:25
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jkelly604
J I kelly 30 :
Exactly 👌
2025-08-13 21:00:55
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lil07700
Lily 🥰💕 :
💯 true,
2025-08-13 11:46:18
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spacey461
jan123 :
I had this for 3 years and am 60 had to save me didn't expect it at my age
2025-08-13 20:19:27
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karmaguy71
Belfast guy :
yip 💯 percent
2025-08-13 20:54:07
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coffeecake47
coffeecake :
so ture
2025-08-13 15:50:51
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jacquelinekelly737
Jacqui :
💯 Correct 😢
2025-09-05 20:51:55
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herpresenz
HerPresence :
Hi! 🙋🏼‍♀️
2025-08-13 17:44:02
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coldol06
Colleen :
Where are you based? Do you do personal sessions.
2025-08-14 17:59:21
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lizzyannep
Lizzy Anne Muncie :
My baby daddy said this over n over n then he did and I was to blame 💔😭
2026-10-07 23:16:48
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shonahope
🐅Shona Hope🐅 :
why do they do this?
2026-08-27 14:19:44
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kmx948
KMx :
So true fear for my life in home not fear for my life coreive control smear campaign leaving abuse got worse fear for my life 💜💜💜
2026-09-16 18:50:49
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eship253
Erica Leigh :
I really needed to hear this
2026-05-16 15:11:00
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jessicanaomi.x
JessicaNaomi.x :
Needed to hear this🥺😭
2025-09-26 19:45:35
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