So for me as an anxious person, I will avoid talking about my feelings anymore
2025-08-13 17:49:11
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likeme_hateme :
or youre an anxious avoidant and a mixture of both these 🤣
2025-08-14 01:47:55
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⚔️ Laura ⚔️ :
I guess I’m avoidant until he pulls back. Then I’m anxious.
2025-08-13 18:19:57
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Crisshvr :
I just know i loved an avoidant and that almost cost me my sense of being...
I wanted to understand her.. Pace the relationship with her, but got discarded. Loss my sense of worth my identity and perception of me.
If it wasn't for therapy I wouldn't be here
2025-10-11 20:50:55
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Seija jones :
I was avoidant in one relationship anxious in another
2025-08-20 04:10:57
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Vortex :
I lean more towards avoidant tho
2025-08-28 20:58:27
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Raili Olen :
first time met avoidant, he pulled back and told me he is not the right choise for me.now silence ...but still hoping that he will return and i can stay calmer as im anxious .
2025-08-14 08:32:53
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Xephiro :
I feel like my ex is a fearful avoidance, so how would I go about getting her back? because we have a child together, and we both need her.
2025-08-19 14:49:27
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Sana :
Well said !
2025-08-19 21:09:09
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😜 :
im a mix of both.
2025-10-07 22:50:09
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Henry Kam :
This is an amazing way to explain it. Thank you for this.
2025-08-21 05:50:43
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Matt :
I nearly cried at this video. I'm the anxious and she's avoidance. This was exactly us. your videos are making us stronger together. Thank you!
2025-09-04 21:58:54
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sagascreams :
But what if u really tried to right? and they didnt met you half way at all
2025-08-14 00:42:35
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Kieran :
what if you have both?
2025-09-15 10:39:22
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Lis-Marie Lidén :
I was just dumped by my partner of 11yrs and this seems like us..😔
2025-08-14 07:49:09
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vickycook358 :
all off this 😢😫
2025-08-14 11:55:29
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Vortex :
im both...
2025-08-28 20:58:05
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Kaitlyn M :
I feel like I'm both. I'm like an anxious avoidant. vulnerability feels weak to me. I spent my whole life being told I'm too emotional and so I regressed. I stopped being emotional. I held back and didnt let people in. put up walls. and now I'm like an ogre with onion layers. I dont let people see me cry. I disassociate when talking about things. and I got that way by self harming anytime I felt emotional. I literally trained myself to be an avoidant when it comes to certain things. and my fear of abandonment doesnt come from childhood. it comes from years of being ghosted and years of friends stabbing me in the back and grief from people dying or getting sick. I watched my dad slowly die and now I'm watching my mom do the same with dementia. that creates a different type of abandonment issues and anxiety.
2025-09-04 17:53:50
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Alex :
Stop calling me out. He blocked me yesterday after making plans for today and our lives in the next month..I don't understand
2025-10-09 15:42:16
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AidenJ :
can I get a private chat going? I need help and advice
2025-09-22 13:12:36
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LunaMoona :
Somehow ill do both lol, i can share my past yet still feel like too much- but i become incredibly avoidant if my emotions are ‘fresh’ or involve others im around currently at all
2025-09-04 02:17:54
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💜LULÙ💜 :
Perché non ci siamo parlati e non ci parleremo mai cosi🥺🥹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
2025-09-17 11:42:21
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Luki 🤍🐝 :
❤️❤️❤️❤
2025-09-26 12:28:22
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QRQ :
@Orson
2025-08-15 22:07:33
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