@bayavoce: Being in a relationship for more than a few years means the early excitement naturally fades. What felt thrilling before becomes routine. Your brain craves that rush of anticipation and surprise but everyday life tends to dull those moments. This is what it looks like for your nervous system to adjust to predictability. You’re no longer chasing sparks but now you're managing schedules and responsibilities. The trick isn’t waiting for connection to bring the excitement back on its own. It’s about creating moments that shake up the usual flow, and introducing unpredictability, playfulness, and a little mystery. Sometimes that means being awkward or silly, and sometimes it’s about breaking out of patterns that feel safe but stale (another Netflix night... again). When you do something our of the ordinary, your brain remembers what it’s like to feel alive with your partner. Because deep and sustained connection grows from what’s possible... not what’s familiar. #relationships #connection #growth
You have to have this mindset girls I recommend the book Desired Goddess by Laura Talen Changed my view on life completely
2025-08-14 23:29:40
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ᴢᴏsia໒꒰ྀི⸝⸝- -⸝⸝꒱ྀི১ :
I work at a puppy yoga 😭😭
2025-08-23 07:08:42
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suunhoneyy :
I thought this was gonna be an ad for puppy yoga
2025-08-15 15:55:44
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LuneEtMoi 🌙 :
Im almost 4 years with my partner but the thing is: yes it’s not exciting. But it’s… wow. He’s gorgeous. He’s kind and loving. He’s funny. We have fun playing Uno. He’s patient and understanding. He’s the best hugger. He’s sweet. It’s not always all sunshine and magic. But he’s honestly the best human on earth. I love hugging him. I love how he looks at me. I love how thoughtful his presents are. I love how he smiles when he smells tea or how smart he looks when he reads on the sofa. I love everything about this wonderful person
2025-08-14 15:45:44
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ProducerMurk :
what are some examples?
2025-08-14 09:51:55
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Prosperia by Toffler :
do you have examples of "safe risk", etc?
2025-08-15 03:26:37
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Cassalei :
I’m 4 years in and absolutely obsessed with my fiancé. There’s nothing boring about him.
2025-08-14 18:43:31
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Tam 🇿🇦 :
Are you being interviewed? I’m confused 😅😅😅
2025-08-14 09:00:52
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lara74238 :
... how ...?
2025-08-14 06:17:25
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Sweet Strays :
I'm falling out of love bc I'm starved emotionally.
2025-08-14 09:21:32
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Mych :
Unpredictability has caused a lot of stress…so, how do we make it good unpredictability? Life feels like it’s gotten in the way and we’re stuck being stressed and cranky with only little sparks of dopamine 🥺
2025-08-15 02:52:29
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Jacqui Felcan :
Examples in another video please 🤍🤍🤍
2025-08-15 17:01:13
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morgana :
6 years in and never a dull moment 🥰🥰
2025-08-14 12:33:46
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Alex :
Please do not put the is on my girls fyp. She loves puppies and will make us have a 3rd. She won’t listen to the words, she will just see puppies and need a new one
2025-09-05 07:47:20
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Katelynn matt :
Can you give us some ideas because all my brain thinks is date night lol
2025-08-15 20:03:38
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Myrthe Franke :
Almost 8 years with my fiance. I‘m obsessed with him. 🥰 And he‘s obsessed with me🥰🥰 our daily life is boring, work, come home, eat, BUT he‘s the one that makes my day better. Even if we‘re just sitting next to eachother.
2025-08-15 07:17:42
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phoebecuz :
How do you do this though? Like examples
2025-08-14 17:06:54
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ja :
I dont understand, what am I supposed to do????
2025-08-19 09:46:02
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Morgan B :
who are you looking at?
2025-08-15 16:55:05
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Isabel_55 :
Im don’t always feel prepared for your videos but I guess the universe disagrees 😂🥹 I gain new perspective in each one 👏🏽
2025-08-14 05:55:50
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Dyos :
Puppy yoga is not suitable for puppy's, too much input, not enough rest. Puppy's need to sleep 24hours a day.. The 4 hours left are for walkies, training, food, not being dragged to yoga and have a bunch of strangers drool over them
2025-09-03 16:14:02
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Kay_Montesano :
First step; get into a relationship Second step; last at least 3 years
2025-08-14 17:37:11
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wildrose_naz🇿🇦🇨🇭 :
While I’m actually folding the laundry👀
2025-08-14 09:32:35
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legendarylifelink :
I'm so happy I found your account! You are such a professional! Thank you for helping me understand my brain and relationship better!
2025-08-14 09:28:15
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Malia Hernandez :
Examples??
2025-08-18 07:10:14
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