AITA Podcast
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Thursday 14 August 2025 17:12:38 GMT
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Academic Ashley :
Nope, he did 100% the right thing and is a big green flag
2025-08-15 07:28:21
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Bella :
She was shooting her shot and absolutely wanted to ruin the wedding. What was she expecting would happen? He did the right thing and maintained the security of his marriage. If he didn’t do that his wife couldn’t trust him. His wife’s feelings are more important than “his best friend”. Was she really his best friend or did she just hang around hoping he would fall for her?
2025-08-14 17:58:01
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livelifethetizianaway :
I think he did the right thing
2025-08-31 09:04:51
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Laura :
"and disrespected my fiance" 💚💚💚
2025-08-15 20:15:26
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MrHaen91 :
She had 15 years to confess her feelings. She knew what she was doing when she chose that moment. Suddenly the dude she thought she could have whenever she wanted was unavailable.
2025-08-14 19:23:40
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ShortAndSweet93 :
She watched too many movies.
2025-08-15 01:05:40
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Clodagh 💋 :
Why he got a friend who’s a girl - red flag 🚩
2025-08-16 16:49:06
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Leona Tunstill :
I wonder how those groomsmen would feel if their wife’s best guy friend said the same thing on their wedding day🙄
2025-08-17 03:08:28
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Caen Dusk :
I don't understand how the other groomsmen think op is wrong or humiliated her. Would it have been better for her to attend and not be able to look happy for him? Or whatever if she didn't accept that he didn't want her and tried to object?
2025-08-31 12:54:57
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Dodger_Blue_Cori :
I absolutely believe a man a woman cannot be best friends. She ruined the friendship and he finally set up a boundary.
2025-08-15 15:28:04
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Autum Raine :
The fact that his first response was to protect his wife, and the fact that his wife always felt weird vibes from “friend” but never said anything because of respect and trust for her man, is green flags for both of them. It’s human nature to second guess a decision that may have hurt someone. But he 100% did the right thing 👏🏻
2025-08-25 22:00:42
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🫧 HeyZsanett🦁👑 :
Harsh? Noooo!! this is how you protect yourself and your wife!!! 👏🏼
2025-08-15 12:12:28
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Moshpit23 :
good job sir
2025-08-16 03:41:26
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emelie_0617 :
Very green flag. I understand your friends feelings but choosing to marry someone is choosing to put their feelings first. And you did right by respecting your wife
2025-08-14 21:58:15
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Megwala :
NTA. So many green flags for his wife. 👏👏👏
2025-08-14 19:17:03
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Damo :
YTA - should have given her a chance, even if just some fun on your last night of freedom, no need to create a drama about it for everyone.
2025-08-15 05:29:35
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Nova Ordell :
No, she made a choice…and you made the choice as your wife said to “protect” your union. You’ve proven your loyalty and where your heart is which is a great foundation of marriage! You’ve also proved there is no wiggle room for anything to fester!!
2025-08-14 18:33:47
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Tania 220425 🌶 :
he did everything right!
2025-08-15 00:02:55
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Leah :
he handled that perfectly
2025-08-15 07:09:27
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Allison Kacmar :
Nope - OP did exactly what he should have done. He stood by his WIFE!
2025-08-17 15:01:51
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tinadagency :
A female bff here & I will be my bestie’s best woman soon. OP is not the AH. I despise situations like this because it gives room for ppl to say that men/women can not be bff’s & that is just not true. I see my bestie as my brother, I could never see him any other way & vise versa. Also, there is a time & place for everything. I’m not a fan of the “closure” excuse but for her to feel the need to do it the night before his wedding, crossed the line. OP did the right thing for himself and his marriage. And it’s pretty much guaranteed, the best friend dynamic is now over. Liv will live to regret her decision.
2025-08-19 12:42:52
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juliasanders992 :
I'm sorry, thats on OP not realizing her feelings. my dad always told me there will always chemistry between a boy and a girl (I'm sure this refers to any sexuality, but was in elementary at the time, so I think he was just trying to simplify it to me. probably me asking a scenario on TV or real life that I didnt understand, questioning the morality at the time which most kids do when cognitively develop). He said just because you may not feel the chemistry doesn't mean the other person isn't either. thats why its good to put boundaries and not lead them on. Basically trying to put down that men and women truly can't be friends. they can be civil, but their boundaries they will try to cross in order to spark chemistry. their way of getting out of the friend zone. I think my dad was also try to tell me to be weary of men, because we all know men are infamous known for atrocities they have committed to women. not all men are like this and many try to fight it, but know they can not always be there and sometimes the numbers are jot in their favor to stop it.
2025-08-15 21:19:54
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darksage :
All his friends are the red flags my gosh.... this man is what every man should be and the wife has a good one... the "best friend" is the ah if you ask me and good on him for kicking her out of the wedding and not contacting her after the fact... boys take notes on how to be a man coz that is it right there
2025-08-17 05:38:03
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Missy :
NTA. You did the right thing. Anyone saying he must have known, plenty of people, both men and women can not know when someone likes them more. And you cannot have someone there at your wedding or in your life that is in love with you and pining for you. Even if they remain resectful, it is disrespectful to the person you are with and not fair on the person in love with you because they'll always be holding out hope and not able to move on. He did the only right thing in that situation for everyone involved
2025-08-16 17:06:14
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Jess Nelson189 :
She ruined the friendship and I am so glad he was there for his fiancé.
2025-08-16 02:21:22
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