ppl also never consider how finicky being stealth is either. the second someone finds out or word gets around for whatever reason, you can easily lose your "privilege" of being stealth in any social setting, because most people, if they're transphobic, could not care less about how well you pass.
2025-08-16 02:39:00
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adam ⚣ :
this depends. i socially transitioned at age 8, never looked back. i've never experienced sexism, oppression, or anything of the sort. i am able to relate to women's issues as much as a cis man can, not more.
2025-08-15 21:56:11
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solnstexd :
Personally I prefer being seen as cis, people ALWAYS should ask
2025-08-16 05:38:38
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༒• 𝖌𝖆𝖇𝖗𝖎𝖊𝖑 •༒ :
dude not the *socialized as* argument 💀
2025-08-17 17:01:30
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★jayden★ :
the comments just not getting it
2025-08-18 10:59:54
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Someone_you_might_know :
I still don't fully understand what cis means
2025-08-16 07:50:26
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imyourdadnow ✊🏽🏳️⚧️ :
When in Rome lol
2025-08-16 19:38:15
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r :
this
2025-08-15 23:04:59
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clark 🤓 :
the comments focusing on the socialized as part and ignoring the other arguments you made 😭
2025-08-22 13:18:32
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b00nie_bunny :
I prefer being viewed as cis
2025-08-16 19:01:56
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s i n :
Trans men are men , no they arent cis, no they dont have the exact same experience as males who are men, however they should respect the fact theyre a man and not insert themselves into womens and non man spaces ❤️🩹❤️🩹 this is common sense
2025-08-16 05:34:49
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🔆 aster 🔆 :
“oh so you think trans men aren’t real men?” why do you equate validity with being cis 🤨
2025-08-16 08:45:49
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ilari :
yesss. like there are trans men who choose to disown their transness but why is that what people expect of all trans men???
2025-08-15 21:43:36
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⚰♰taker's fav♱⚰ :
Fr cause I get that you may want to be an ally or validating when you say Trans men are men and equating them to cis men but like it feels more icky to me when my experience as a woman is seemingly erased
2025-08-15 21:23:39
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Leo🇵🇸 :
trans men have different lives experience from women.
most of us weren't "female socialized" or what ever that even means.
this just gives bio essentialist
2025-08-17 15:16:10
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💚♡ seth ♡🩷 :
ppl hear trans men are men and immediately equate manhood to cis manhood like i fear thats just as invalidating
2025-08-16 01:09:15
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ChilledBorzoi (🎏💥) :
Somehow people can grasp the concept of “not seeing color” being racist, but not grasp “not seeing transness” as transphobic. Being trans doesn’t make someone less of the gender they are.
2025-08-17 01:10:59
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40daysofrain :
Isn’t the flip side of this: “Trans women aren’t the same as cis women. They’re TRANS.” If trans men are different from cis men because they’re socialized as women, shouldn’t trans women be different from cis women because they’re socialized as men? Y’all never interrogate the reverse of this
2025-08-16 06:17:12
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HENRY🧟 :
Tbh I understand how we've been socialised differently and had different experiences but it's very important people realise we are the same gender as cis men
2025-08-18 00:29:45
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🪼‼️ :
Hey so this is insane. I transitioned and will continue to transition to be a man. I hate being trans, its a burden on my life, and I will become as close to a cis man as I can because thats the only way to alleviate my dysphoria.
2025-08-19 03:43:28
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library fae :
fr like growing up afab affected so much of my life (and still affects how everything is healthcare wise so...)
2025-08-16 15:26:09
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Ash :
cis women are the same as cis men to me
2025-08-17 20:05:54
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Jamiekd1770 :
i think its a complicated issue because overtime people can lose sight of what it used to be like for others.
2025-08-16 14:05:05
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