@bobby_love_: If they refuse to talk about the problem, it’s because the problem is their behavior. Silence isn’t peace, it’s control. It’s not conflict resolution, it’s a tactic to protect themselves from accountability and keep you doubting the truth you already see. This is how manipulation works in toxic relationships, gaslighting, deflection, and shutting down conversations so they never have to face their own actions. Healthy relationships are built on communication, accountability, and emotional maturity, not silence and avoidance. Healing means learning to recognize when silence is a weapon instead of a pause for peace. It means protecting your mental health by enforcing boundaries, refusing to carry all the emotional labor, and not letting someone twist your honesty into the problem. When someone avoids accountability, they show you their capacity for emotional safety. If they won’t face the truth, they can’t offer real intimacy. Your healing comes from speaking your truth, honoring your boundaries, and refusing to let their silence erase your reality.

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