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exmo_movingon :
My husband is so consumed with how I might make him look, he can’t separate me from his own identity & has on many occasion scolded me for something completely benign just cuz I’m not my own person, just an extension of his persona
2025-08-16 16:12:41
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MisStein :
Correct. If you control someone, you can’t love them. Those things do not go together.
2025-08-16 21:02:51
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TheRentedNest :
They want a wife and kids. They don’t want to be husbands or fathers.
2025-08-16 15:49:59
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humanbird :
After a failure to intervene by both his loved ones and the legal system, I once had to gentle parent an obsessive ex (from a high-control religious background, obviously) into the realization that he didn't even like me as a person. I was all "quit stalking me" and he was all "but we belong together" until I was like "oh, in that case, let's be friends for about a year and see what happens" and then he was like "but I would never choose you for a friend" and only then I could finally go "NO KIDDING, it turns out that feeling is the one that's been mutual all along." The lack of self-awareness was exhausting 🙄🙄🙄
2025-08-16 16:03:32
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Nicole Cagna :
You are correct. They also clearly don’t live Jesus because if they did, they would have a basin and a towel to wash feet. They would serve their wives. Both parties must practice mutuality. There’s room for only one King- Jesus.
2025-08-16 18:07:45
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jessielou369 :
If they claim to be religious men, and this is the way they are treating their wives then they need to go back to the Bible because the Bible says man. Also submit to your wives. Love your wife as Christ love the church a religious man this is a mantrying to make the world believe he is holy.
2025-08-16 15:47:24
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Technotroubadour🏳️🌈 :
Like status and power of course
2025-08-16 16:43:42
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Blossom :
I'm working so hard to make sure my boys don't grow up with this mindset. My extended family believes it very firmly and they keep saying they want to have an influence on my kids. No thank you.
2025-08-16 18:00:43
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Sara Bellum :
I always felt like my ex was attracted to me but I didn’t feel loved
2025-08-16 18:17:11
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Anita Fritz Cory :
💯 facts!
2025-08-16 22:22:00
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penguin :
but why do we blame women (the mother) for men's entitlement and mistreatment. trauma can cause a lot of things, but it does not cause entitlement.
2025-08-17 11:32:11
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Your friendly Chicken Tender🐔 :
From the outside, my relationship looks like complimentarinism, but there is not a single decision that needs to be made jointly that I don't have full input and consideration when we make it.
2025-08-17 01:38:01
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kneazle :
the other kind of misogynist, I personally believe, is the Madonna-Whore Misogynist. I'm no pschyologist, but I'd love someone to research this! It's less about the Freudian complex and more of an elevation of select few woman or women they feel can do no wrong while despising the rest. Their Madonna is on a pedestal holding a righteousness so they don't have to. Her valor is untouchable. The whores hold all their sexual hatred and need policed purity codes. These are just my own observations of some men I know. Jordan Peterson gives me this impression though
2025-08-16 23:49:27
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joanne4177 :
Sadly, most men don’t consider women as equals.
2025-08-16 20:25:50
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Breezy1973 :
Stephanie... where are they? Never have been attracted to them before. But someday I believe I will be ready to open my heart again. For now I'm in such a growth spurt, and afraid another might slow me down. Thanks for everything you share. These are my favorite posts.
2025-08-16 16:17:42
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lindap413 :
I don’t think most men genuinely like women
2025-08-16 21:04:23
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Reina✨ :
I believe what you say is true. I have experienced this myself.
2025-08-16 19:40:44
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rkakkar :
its a humiliation ritual that serves as a threat to other women.
2025-08-17 01:21:52
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RosamariaTV :
Men look for lovers not friends they want to be with for a long time. When times get tough and the lover is not available, they lash out.
2025-08-16 17:16:49
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LadyAndalusia :
💯💯💯
2025-08-17 03:40:48
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Jen ❌ 💙 :
My ex husband treated me bad because of the treatment his mother gave him
2025-08-17 04:11:44
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Nett :
When I was a kid, my parents did most of the things for me. now, as an adult, if I could just say i'm living my godly duty and have my partner, take everything over that my parents used to do for me, that would make life so much easier. They live on easy mode
2025-08-17 04:30:59
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teejay65x :
I agree.
2025-08-17 11:55:45
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Ginger :
truth
2025-08-17 17:19:40
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Stevie Cee :
They hate women. Their contempt for women is frightening. That’s why the abuse in every form you can imagine and some you’ve never thought of—Spiritual abuse is a whole different beast! They don’t want sex to be pleasant for women. In fact they weaponize it to hurt her! It’s marital 🍇 over and over again. Their Roman Empire.
2025-08-18 04:10:09
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christymcnabby :
My ex wasn’t born and raised in the church but he sure loved those benefits nice he realized what religion offered him! He used it to abuse and I’ll never forget that! -
2025-08-19 00:58:53
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Nichole✝️🎗 :
I don't ever want to be with another man ever again if I get out of this marriage. I'm struggling right now, I made a covenant with God and I just don't want to break that 😭😭😭 I think maybe this is my suffering, right? we all have suffering, trials, and tribulations, right? 😭 I can't even think straight right now 😩
2025-08-28 21:35:17
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NinjaCat23b :
Jesus taught servant leadership—if that’s not how a man is doing, then he’s not doing it right.
2025-09-07 04:17:08
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