@itsgemmavibe: 2. Office Teossae extra explanation In Korea, both age and titles are very important. Even if someone joins later, if they are older, you usually add “-nim” (님) to their name — like “Mijeong-nim” — instead of just “-ssi.” And for higher positions, you call them by their title (like Daeri-nim = Assistant Manager, Teamjang-nim = Team Leader, Sajang-nim = Company President). So when a younger senior calls an older newcomer casually with just “-ssi,” it feels like a subtle form of Kissaum (기싸움 = silent power play) #kissaum #teossae #기싸움 #텃세 #learnkorean

MSG :

I would always end up in the police station if I lived in korea, my anger issues could never tolerate this

Steph. :

I usually hit them with, "are you normally this rude, or were you not raised any better?" or the classic, "Grow up and act like your age."

Bet :

I'll answer how much?

Justwait014 :

in my country it's called "bullying" 💀

r.in.i :

this was so hard to watch

Bee Bougie Hive :

you could possibly act out as a villain in a k drama.

Mystra 🖤 :

If I lived in Korea, I think my reaction would be: even if this is your usual spot, is your name written on it? I won’t get up from this chair.😂

red head obsession :

기싸움 가지고 3파트나 긁어 모을 게 있니 요즘 여자애들 기싸움이라는 표현 쓰지도 않고 남자가 기싸움 단어 꺼내면 반박하는 추세임. 남자들이 기싸움으로 여자 관련 망상 오지게 하는거 구시대적 생각이라고 까기 시작한게 언젠데요. 하등 여성 인권에 도움 안되는 표현을 외국인들에게 알려주고 있네

page.mone ੯‧̀͡⬮ :

anywhere and anytime???? oh korea is not for me 😭😭

nati :

are they like this to foreigners too? i studied one year in korea and no one was rude to me like this

mizanorizan :

Damn bully culture is prevalent in Korea. I find it quite hypocritical that they cancel artists for being bullies in school.

Bephy :

In Germany it’s the same 😭😭

CraxkWolffle :

This is like a “Pick Me” situation. I am bad-tempered 🫶🏻

Leyla :

I need a video explaining how to act when receiving this energy (to not end up in the police station)

lesyeuxdehillarie_ :

I’d be so irritated if adults spoke like this around me😭

Farahjoy :

That means everything i saw in k-dramas was true 😭

Cassie :

기싸움이나 텃세같은 나쁜 문화가 있는 건 사실이지만 2010년 중반부터 시작된 페미니즘 리부트 이후 10대 20대 여성들 사이에서 이와 같은 톡식한 문화에 반대하는 분위기가 크게 형성되는 등 한국 사회 내부에서도 아직 갈 길은 멀지만 점차 스스로 자정작용이 되고 있는 문제예요. 그러한 점은 언급도 하지 않으면서 모든, 혹은 대부분의 한국 여자들이 이런 식의 문화에 동조하고 이를 묵인하고 있다는 메세지를 주는 건 옳지 않다고 생각하네요.

cringythingsonly :

My INFP side will never be able to handle this😭 I’d CRYYYY… how come they’re so mean

Khie :

how are you so good at this 🤣

☆𝕯ᥲrk 𝕽ᥲ᥎ᥱᥒ☆ :

*not me acting out and "PROPERLY" crossing my leg and relaxing back in thay damn seat not moving an inch and making muaelf comfortable while she acts as the character. the africaness in me can never* 😭😂

*•.¸♡ 𝑨𝒓𝒂아라 ♡¸.•*||☁️ :

hands off Burkina faso✊️🌍❤️ :

my anger can never😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤💔

Sandra Guavas MX :

i think this teo sae can actually be seen in K-dramas that we watch

VST :

Big “bully culture” in SK. I recently cut off some good friends in Seoul because I had enough of the husband’s behaviour. I told them straight up. He couldn’t grasp it. She tried to excuse him, although she is the constant recipient of his bullying/controlling.

SojuKingLeeSangHyeok :

ㅅ is usually the s sound its not teo because there is a ㅅ