@echoesinmycup: #invalidated #unfair

richarddj2803 :

And suddenly, you’re the one who ‘crossed a line.’ All because you cared, too much, too openly, too honestly. They lit the fire, fed it, stepped back, and blamed you for the smoke. You were just trying to hold on to something real. But in their story, feeling deeply became your crime.

Engr kishor kumar yadav :

Your mental health should ALWAYS be yours first priority. I think reading is a way to it. “Healing Isnt Pretty” by Mira Hartson saved my piece. Books hold so much power, its a shame people don’t read these days they miss out a lot tbh

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always used my past against me to bring me down til I can’t listen to it anymore

Dinho :

reposting for those who can't

secret 🤫 :

YOU. DIDN'T. HOLD. MY. HAND.

a :

and they do not regret their actions...

Shiu :

I swear I’m tired of this.

atattsa :

Silent repost

° ° ° :

no worries he knows

Name :

and then you're the one at fault

gabs 🐾 :

then suddenly ur the bad one for finally standing ur ground.

ap :

this is the realest tiktok i’ve ever seen in my life

kyubi :

hug for everyone in this comment

𝑻𝒉𝒆𝑴ę𝒍𝒍𝒚𝒂𝒂 :

And suddenly, you’re the villain. Even though all this time, you’ve been the one who cared about everyone, trying to help them improve, trying to save everyone while you were falling apart inside. You listened to their pain, gave them the best advice, shared everything you could so that the people you loved would have the best in life. Yet at the end of the day, you were only needed when there was something to gain. Maybe it’s all because you loved too much, and cared too deeply.

l u p i n i s m :

idkHAHAHHA? :

And then suddenly “your so dramatic” sorry? Didn’t know expressing my emotions weren’t allowed.

I love IroYa so much :

and slowly the apology turn to hatred

1# 1x haters :

growing up in a household where everyone allowed to crashout and angry but when it comes to me it's not allowed or even valid.

Daisy_Saluki :

What living with my parents has been like my entire life

N6m6l6ss_F6c6l6ss :

And after years of doing that you start hating everyone and turn to your ego, finally had enough of people. Act like you are superior to them so noone matters who is not on your side. Lose empathy for people. Only cognitive empathy remains. And you avoid people. Cuz if they gonna hurt and invalidate and betray you anyways why bother talking with them, why bother wasting your time on them. And then they call you the horrible person, while you are just tired and done with people's bullshit.

OYINLEWA HOME DECOR :

I understand, it’s unfair to us. But sometimes, we shouldn’t allow the actions of other people make us overreact. I get it, you’re angry, you’re hurt, you didn’t feel seen, you were misunderstood a lot of time and sometimes you can’t even name your pain. But if you can calm down a lot and self reflect before reacting, you wouldn’t have to drain yourself this much, you’ll have the capacity to protect your peace at all cost, and maybe walk away.

Queen_liv2005 :

My own family hates when I stand up for myself I say i do this to protect myself and they are like from what?!

Probably not mae :

God knows

Nicole 🦇 :

this is so real

what!!? :

I'm SO glad I left my friend group. Apparently though, I made someone in my friend group "cry" because I left the group. And now, I'm the bad person??? I left the group because I wanted to heal, so why am I not allowed to heal? Plus, I was the worst one in the group anyways. So why would they want me back??