Mine looks me dead in the eyes and says loudly “why did you just kick me under the table??”
2025-08-19 15:52:53
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jalapeno_ranch :
We have a death word! Only the two of us know it and it goes to our grave. When one of us dies, the medium must first say our death word so we know we’re talking to the right person.
2025-08-19 20:23:41
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PaigeP4ig3 :
This is relationship goals
2025-08-18 14:11:46
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Dani :
When we ask each other if something is fine in front of other people but it would be awkward to say the real answer, we either say “yeah, no that’s fine!” Or “no, yeah that’s fine!” And the first yes/no is the real answer.
2025-08-19 05:13:54
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MadMikethePirate :
Yup. “Blueberry” means, hey maybe slow down just a bit on the booze. Pace yourself. Works both ways. Not embarrassing or controlling. Helpful. “Strawberry” means, hey miss you. Can we find a corner of this party and just reconnect for 5. It’s a way of asking for some support and security without feeling needy. 🥰
2025-08-18 20:18:28
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shaharbarsha :
look at my nails/ show me your nails means the conversation behind us is really interesting so stop talking and let’s listen together
2025-08-20 04:02:50
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NeonLlamaCreations :
its really important do do this wirh kids too! Im allergic to bananas, so mine will look at me and say hey, can we go get a banana? im kinda hungry, I know it means they are uncomfortable and need to step away and tell me something. its really helpful!
2025-08-19 19:31:25
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justtimeforme0 :
if one of us says jellybean that means I farted and it's bad
2025-08-19 02:27:43
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pjohnson514 :
Yup. We call them code words and have a few.
2025-08-18 17:06:09
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Sydney :
My husband is a major introvert who’d rather sit at home playing games so if he decides it’s time to go home he’ll tell me we forgot to feed the turtle. … we don’t have a turtle
2025-08-19 17:22:55
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Britt Koop 🇨🇦 :
I gently gave my husband little kicks under the table while he was telling a story and he goes “stop kicking me”.. like just stop telling the damn story. How was that not obvious 🤦🏼♀️
2025-08-20 01:39:44
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A :
“What time is it?” Is our way of telling the other we’re ready to leave.
2025-08-25 21:30:56
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Russell Gainbridge :
Cloud Formation is ours for when it's really boring and we want to leave. there's that awkward silence and then we say something like "the cloud formation is killer today."
2025-08-19 14:53:09
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Danielle Meehan :
If one of us casually mentions going to Louisiana it means we’re leaving in 5.
2025-08-19 13:19:30
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Selena 🩷 :
We say calamari if the person we’re talking about just walked into the room lol
2025-08-19 13:17:59
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munchkinpotat :
We have a safe word to leave. Doesn’t matter where if one of us says it it’s time to go
2025-08-20 00:46:53
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Synatrah :
lol any time my wife or I mention "Nikes" it means one of us wants to leave this social function immediately. 😃
2025-08-19 17:15:59
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wonderaliceland1865 :
it's not about not standing up for yourself in public, it's about having a secret language with your partner. though, having a secret language to exit a situation without escalating it is perfectly valid.
2025-08-21 01:31:00
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Emily Clanton, RDH :
Ours is “Catfood”. It started as a test to see if Alexa would start giving us ads and was listening to us, before we had kids and had no cats. It morphed into our word for the other one to look at what our kids were doing without disrupting them by saying their names.
2025-08-19 18:46:38
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Omnibar :
I don’t have this problem because i figured out long ago that im a terrible liar.
2025-08-18 17:51:40
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afewdadhabits :
My wife and I don't really care enough about people's opinions to use safe words or steer topics. Let it fall where it may. I know who I'm going home with.
2025-08-19 20:38:17
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Antoine :
I need a safe word to let me girlfriend know she already told me that story… twice…
2025-08-19 23:23:10
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kinslee.mp4 :
ours is “safety car” from F1 which just means the other one needs a moment to be alone/silent to reset and they will come back when they’re ready - it’s so helpful
2025-08-19 16:38:53
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🍉 :
"pineapple" means we need to leave.
2025-08-19 22:25:44
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Voy Story 7 :
“Sacagawea” means let’s leave this place. We have several others lol
2025-08-19 23:58:37
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