@parenting.with.dr.siggie: “I Hate You” or “Worst Day Ever” - How to Respond to Extreme Reactions from Your Child These outbursts can be hard to hear. But they are not facts — they’re feelings. Children use extreme language because their emotions are big and impulsive; they are a reflection of momentary frustration. In this video, I’ll show you how to respond with calm, clarity, and compassion to help your child feel heard without taking every word at face value