@dtbennett: even though you may not be in an unhealthy relationship anymore, your brain may still believe you are indicated by these 4 things. just because you left a toxic relationship doesn't mean the subconscious parts of your brain have left it. you may still have self-doubt, insecurity, and make bad dating choices. the good news is that through tools like self-directed neuroplasticity, hypnosis, cognitive behavioral coaching, and other tools you can train your brain to live a great life.