@kyleinspires: The neuroscience of why someone still owns space in your head #attachment #memory #neuroscience

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lbp4au
Lauren :
7 years. Make it stop 😭
2025-08-20 14:31:24
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naflodi
naflodi :
Remove the dopamine. Think of their poor behaviour or their negative traits.
2025-08-20 12:07:48
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lindawho
Linda 🇳🇴 :
Literal ghost… He’s dead and I still think about him
2025-08-21 18:13:00
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anythinglifeworld
Hunny :
Thank you thank you thank you
2025-08-21 21:31:35
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verity811
Verity :
So how do we rewrire this ?
2025-08-20 09:36:27
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ninjatifanie
Tifanie the Diamond :
I need it to stop. it's wasting my time and energy. hes not worth it. I want to move on, I need to move on.
2025-08-20 02:05:33
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opeyanoforsure
nunyajp2 :
Great. Not all that helpful when the next steps are behind a paywall.
2025-08-21 10:05:48
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tonyaaragon
LadyT :
30 years and counting. They have been there.
2025-08-20 02:09:08
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lou.la.la.la
Lou :
This is that thing about what’s the deal with the guy you meet when you are 19…right? 😬
2025-08-21 17:28:30
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david_amor
Signal 20 :
I beg to differ Sir, I am also crazy.
2025-08-20 17:07:47
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sarafinatreasures
Betty Lloyd :
I can't stop grieving the man I thought I was dating ! How do I stop that ? He was an evil Narcissist and I just want him gone from my head but the person who he first presented for 3 months was my idea of perfect in every way and the next 9 months was utter hell.
2025-08-21 22:51:03
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lynnerie74
Lynnie :
There are a whole lot of them living up there. It’s getting crowded! The last one really messed me up.
2025-08-21 12:05:05
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unicorns_and_coffee
Unicorns_and_coffee :
I was SAed early in our relationship by a stranger and we have been broken up for, sheesh, at least 20 years but he haunts my dreams weekly and I’m always looking for either closure or a reconnection in them. I wonder if my brain is looking for myself with him before that traumatic event? We were together for years after it happened, but I’ve never been the same, obviously.
2025-08-22 00:38:49
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sha223468
shan33 :
He treated me so bad then left.....2 years and I think of him everyday 😢
2025-08-20 02:48:53
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heidigirl9437
heidigirl943 :
God does amazing things
2025-08-21 17:43:30
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jenfidge3
JenFidge :
21 years for me…
2025-08-21 19:12:39
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jsn_tanie
Steph ✨️🍂 :
“They were the permission, not the source” - what if I can’t find any other framework for permission ?
2025-08-21 19:03:30
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lady.m_butterfly
🦋LadyM🦋 :
Why do people from your past that you haven't thought about show up in your dreams?
2025-08-20 00:50:09
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meg64275
Meg :
What are your credentials, people who are neuroscientists usually introduce themselves as such
2025-08-21 21:29:05
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creatingcommunity2025
CreatingCommunity :
Wow, that really helped!
2025-08-20 07:19:55
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kylegelacio
Nnox :
Im tired of thinking of her
2025-08-20 15:23:19
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doubleaxxxm
MICHAEL :
it helps to think of them not as people but as thoughts, thoughts aren't reality. once you strip away the projection of them and ground yourself in the present it gives the "fantasy" less power. i mean that worked for me 😂
2025-08-21 17:33:54
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rebel_alliance_leia
rebel_alliance_leia :
exactly one year of no contact and I still think about him every day. does it stop?
2025-08-21 23:06:55
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kapaali13
kapaali13 :
What if it’s someone you hate? Someone who did you real wrong ten years ago and even after therapy you can’t let it go? Not a lover, a coworker. She tried to ruin my entire life. I’ll never be 100% over it.
2025-08-21 00:23:30
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meaps4
Meaps :
For me it was limerence that lasted for over 10 years. I never actually loved them the way I thought I did. They were just a fantasy and a way for me to cope. I find like people who I see myself in because I want validation and by validating them I was validating myself. Which is unhelathy when I should have been loving and validating myself.
2025-08-20 22:27:57
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