@t0nit0ne: Nobody criticises dream chasers more than a person who is too scared to chase their own dreams! The latest episode of @Toni Told Me Podcast is live on all platforms! #ToniToldMe

EDEL💜 :

people include Parents & siblings!!

Praise Benson :

Stagnant people always want others to be stagnant with them.

Bosede | Psychotherapist (NG) :

Low self-esteem is real. No matter what, do not allow anyone to talk you out of your dreams!

KASHEEDAH ROYAL ROOTS N 👗👖👠 :

immediately after college(diploma )I rush into marriage 3 was 3 months pregnant I got admission to University everyone was against it that my marriage is less than 6 months, I put to bed on campus a day I had Cytology paper to write 😂 when I came home in laws said I can't go back i didn't mind them cos I fully sponsored my own fees through salary and susu groups after 5yrs marriage collapse I picked my tools(2 kids) relocated the next 2yrs I got admission to do my master's and now am almost done this year. hopefully I would do PhD soon God willing Seriously am never intimidated by naysayers even at work once I see over here am not growing I take transfer to the next. Am so focused and is getting scarier cos everyone thought I would have failed

YouTube → the tashi edits 🎬 :

This is why I don’t share my goals with anyone, they will see 😌

First Lady B 👑 :

I always tell people that rich successful people are so supportive compared to those who have nothing!

Kgothatso Mojela :

People project a lot onto others

𝒟. :

Whew! I used to wonder why some spoke so negatively about seasons I hadn’t even entered, until I realized misery loves company. That’s why people do this.

Sarah.luv :

Then you learn who to tell your business too. Majority of people have given up on themselves, so they will never be happy for you 💯

ItsARI🧜🏽‍♀️💕💖 :

This is why it’s important to surround yourself with like minded people and pple doing more than you do. Thats alone serves as a motivator l.

Christiana🎀 :

!!!!! or downplay/not acknowledge when you achieve the goal

medusa_D1 :

This is so true. People will even have a one sided beef with you all cos they resent you for actually having the courage to TRY & do something YOU have always wanted for yourself. Like? Use that energy foe yourself bro

StrongWithVision :

A good friend told me not to start a university, because she failed many times and at that point I was know, that she don’t like me. Cause girllll we different potential 😘

itsprimus :

mizzdeede :

100% this is true

Catherine 🦋 :

This!!! And those who have done it and have pursued their goals are excited for you when they see you chasing yours too. ❤️

Beryl | Soft life & beauty :

The people not doing it they have opinion on everything

🎀Precious🎀 :

Inferiority complex and lack of self belief will keep you limited, till you decide to break through… pay attention to energy too

Ijay | 🤎 :

Don’t share your dreams with small minds… I always say even if majority is failing, I am in the 1% success rate

lyndakaren743 :

your skin is glowing.

STYLISA :

So true. As soon as someone shows me this type of energy, I distance myself immediately.

miss.n. :

💯💯💯💯💯they try discourage you

mya :

or they call you a “dreamer” but guess who’s sitting on stacks now… the dreamer😚

Theayeyioye :

Too much wisdom🔥🔥

Sunshine :

I know some highly educated academics who would be doing good but if I wanted advice on how I can start my doctorate they would try there upmost to put me off. Some Dean would say I hate my job but have been in there position for donkey years, getting very handsome pay. But would put me off to even think about applying for thinking about applying. Someone who looks after their own interests and doesn't want others to surpass them or achieve greater success, I find them discouragers and insecure people. Because of these people I have wasted 3 years of my life just fearing that I cannot do it! I have finally started my doctorate, without telling anyone!!! Thanks to self believe.