@healingwithemilyg: Replying to @April Aguilera A narcissist can know they’re cruel without ever admitting that they’re abusive. That’s so frustrating for survivors and is another thing that keeps you stuck in that relationship because you’re waiting for them to finally admit it. #narcissisticabuserecovery #psychology #narctok #narcissisticabuse #gaslighting
The fact that they behave differently in public and lie so much means they know
2025-08-21 00:50:20
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🌸💰Summertime Sadnesss🦈🌸♐️ :
Mine swore I was the crazy one. Even accused me of being the narc, in still trying to make sure I’m not a narc till this day.
2025-08-25 23:39:55
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April Aguilera :
😭😭😭 how do they all do this .. how? Not saying he is a narc.. that’s a big word .. but how do abusive men know to do this?? I thought my experience was unique to me.. not a common theme
2025-08-20 21:19:29
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Stephanie :
It’s cruelty and control. They know exactly what they’re doing.
2025-08-20 22:24:01
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Heavy Metal Zen :
I called my soon to be ex husband abusive and told him to stop. He then called me the abuser for telling him to stop abusing. Total mindfuck
2025-10-16 01:29:27
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gorgeous_lemur :
My narc thought he was so cool,main character, slythern. He enjoyed being dark and felt smart
2025-09-23 02:46:25
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HollyWilliams :
He would get drunk and say “i know our whole relationship problems are my fault” but sober he would deny he did anything wrong
2025-09-26 17:52:18
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lindsay katt :
If they know to hide it in order to avoid consequences…they do in fact know they are doing it.
2025-08-21 13:23:50
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Maddi :
Very true. My ex knows he was dead wrong, but he just makes excuses for it.
2025-08-21 13:56:16
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brizoelee :
They want to see it so they know they have control
2025-09-02 16:46:46
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jada🫰🏻 :
or it’s the “yep im abusive call me what you want i don’t care anymore”😭
2025-09-19 04:30:02
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fuzzyfurbabies :
Been there in bed crying so many times
2025-09-25 06:45:32
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paciasaysno :
The illusion they all live in. Even when in prison, they still belive the lies in their head.
2025-08-27 21:29:07
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Zachee Jay (Zach) :
I was very direct with my narsassistic roommate. they were complaining on valentine's day about something cant quite remember but I said straight up "but you need to deal with the fact your abusive ". they stormed right off
2025-08-25 17:13:05
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avocadodreams :
I would totally agree if it weren’t for the fact that if they have an audience they not only refrain from most of the abuse, they start treating you normally, respectfully etc. Also, the smirk and satisfaction they have when they have pushed you to your limits or when they’ve succeeded in lying or manipulating someone. I think they know exactly what they are doing, always. Their whole life is a fake script
2025-10-18 10:32:47
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King :
My Narcissisitic abusive mom
2025-08-21 10:01:29
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Cam :
I think they know it but they must justify it internally ie they let me down, they disappointed me, they disrespected me etc etc
2025-08-21 12:55:04
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nelsontim :
💯 I’ve learned lots lately. Thank you!
2025-08-22 12:39:06
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itstartswith1 :
he disgarded me now his 18yr old son
2025-08-22 14:02:12
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bry :
Yes. They do.
2025-08-21 08:18:00
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jennifer :
This is so true, thank you for sharing !
2025-08-21 12:30:38
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The WatchMaker’s Code :
Yep. Mine told me she just loves to break men… and loves to know how people tick…
2025-09-03 19:53:10
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KBQ :
They don’t care
2025-10-07 22:53:11
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Kirsten :
YESSSS THEY KNOWWWWW
2025-09-29 20:37:00
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