@beeanca411: I will protect my peace, even if it makes others uncomfortable. I will no longer sacrifice my well being for the comfort of others. I am easy to see and easy to love. I am no longer tolerable or amicable. And for my “elders”…respect goes both ways. I’m an elder too. Thank you to @CYN for this beautiful post @CYN 🫶🏽 I see you! #beeanca411 #nocontact
No child, of any age, wants to go no contact unless they’ve been given no other choice. I didn’t speak to my mother for two years before she died and I still stand on the fact that it’s was necessary to my survival and healing.
2025-08-22 08:01:00
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Lynda :
I’m 56. I finally gave up and went no contact around 8 years ago because I just couldn’t deal with the constant roller coaster of toxins. I’m healing and finally figuring out who I am. I have a peace I’ve never known. I wish I’d done it so much sooner. My real
2025-08-21 23:46:34
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AMarie427 :
Ma’am! This is a WHOLE message
2025-08-26 01:01:45
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CynCyn60 :
Yup
2025-08-28 04:49:22
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Sami_C.407 :
Ohhh you too??!? And here I thought I was the only adult child dealing with this nonsense 🫶🏽
2025-08-22 14:36:48
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Stephanie Small :
No phone call wouldn’t be answered here. I uninvited myself and set myself free a while back now and it’s been the most liberating thing I’ve ever done ☮️
2025-08-26 02:41:42
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LolliePop :
I could never imagine a world where I didn’t want my kid and grandkids in it.
2025-08-24 17:25:24
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erinjacoba1 :
Sometimes people need to sit in their own uncomfort to heal and be better
2025-08-22 01:11:21
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Ray_of_Sunshine :
Oh lol not the funeral
2025-08-23 14:44:30
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WyomingCajun :
That stanky a$$ broad best not reach out to me. She’s got warrants in multiple counties and I’ll happily turn her right in and continue on living my peaceful life. 🤷♀️👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻
2025-08-23 13:25:06
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✨️𝔐𝔞𝔯𝔦𝔰𝔞✨️❤️🩷🤍💛🧡 :
Im no contact with my mother and every time she would reach out and I would try to talk to her it always dissolved into her being the victim and I was abusing her by asking her to adhere to basic human decency which she shouldn't have to because "I made you".
2025-08-23 17:17:41
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The Rev. With Rage :
Their silence is this child's peace! I don't miss them after going no contact. 🤷🏾♀️
2025-08-22 21:12:29
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Elizabeth Amy Ubell :
He proved your point so emphatically, he wished death on himself. That’s impressive. Holding space for you. Sending love and hugs.
2025-08-24 15:44:10
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Rose Knows :
Haven’t spoken to my dad in almost 10 years. Told him about himself and then stopped calling him. Never blocked him or not answered a call. He just never made one. But telling my siblings “she’s mad at me for some reason” 🙄
2025-08-22 16:08:04
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Karla Licea :
I just went no contact with my father just this past week, it feels weird to grieve a parent when they are still alive but I know the no contact had to happen.
2025-08-24 15:37:12
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Melissa Taylor :
I've just started the process of no contact with my parents. Its at the point where they are talking to other family members to get their side of the story out. Not at all worried about fixing it with me. I'm sorry you're going through this 💔
2025-08-22 12:00:08
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ChatWithTameka :
I’ve been no contact with my mother for YEARS for this very reason. EVERYONE is a problem but HER. Medication only work if you take it. 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️Thank you cousin for letting me know that it’s not me. 🙏🏾😔
2025-08-21 23:43:17
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Heather :
girl I'm sorry you had to go throw that. sometimes our parents suck. I'm hear for you. 🥰🥰🥰 good job holding boundaries
2025-08-21 23:00:07
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🇵🇷🏝Carol🏝🇵🇷 :
And if you have the conversation, you better sit and listen to understand not to respond. And don’t you dare down play their feelings.
2025-08-22 03:57:09
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Amy 🍉🫶🏻🏳️🌈 :
Oh! *mic drop* Almost tempted to send this to my ‘mom’.
2025-08-22 18:54:12
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Trash Panda’s Universe 🐼 🦝 :
That part 😭😭😭
2025-08-22 02:34:28
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Jamie G :
Every word. I went NC w/mom 5+ yrs ago. I have hundreds of VMs & emails even when blocked. Never once does she apologize, take accountability, & not “spew venom” or “I’m sorry you feel that way”. Best decision I made for my survival.
2025-08-23 23:09:07
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Libby W :
I went no contact with that woman who tries to call herself my "mother" 30 yrs ago! Her issues aren't my problem nor my responsibility to fix...I'm not your verbal punching bag!
2025-08-28 01:10:12
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samshef11 :
***hugs***
2025-08-22 00:07:55
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Cazwell :
Thank you!! Also you look particularly amazing and glowing! I love bumping into you here❤️
2025-08-29 07:09:19
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