@howiseeitpod: @Laura Caruso | NYC Therapist talks to the avoidant & anxiously attached THIS WEEK on HOW I SEE IT podcast #couplestherapy #datingadvice #avoidantattachmentstyle #mentalhealthpodcast #anxiousattachment
The avoident never comes back to communicate even when provided time - and run into situations where the anxious has to initiate the conversation every time and that gets exhausting
2025-08-22 10:15:38
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Justin :
avoidants don't give you a time limit. They dismiss you and act like they did nothing wrong and you are annoying them by trying to constantly get your point across because they won't listen when you are trying to just just get them to acknowledge that they know where you are coming from. They create the anxious because their coldness and ignoring causes frustration.
2025-10-09 11:33:20
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Davin :
My avoidant wanted 6 days
2025-08-23 09:30:08
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sixfootenergy :
they never come back. bc at that point they already got over it.
2025-09-20 16:16:55
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shaisway :
As an anxious attachment this is all i ask for. Literally all
2025-09-12 22:45:59
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Daquan Snow :
What did you say to the anxious?
2025-08-22 15:22:27
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NYORNOWHERE1 :
Avoid avoidants.
2025-09-02 00:39:42
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Dr. Stephanie :
What does it mean if we talk about this in therapy and outside of therapy and the still refuse to do it?
2025-09-27 17:42:28
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Ashley :
I feel I shut down and my mind odd going a mile a minute of everything I want to say but I can’t get the words to come out like I just stare and can’t get myself to say anything
2025-10-20 02:08:32
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Luis Camacho :
What if their meaning for space means going out with friends I’ve never met even after 3 years of relationship…….has been done multiple times. 😳
2025-10-01 21:33:28
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Anna :
It’s been a month of space , still waiting 🤷🏻♀
2025-10-09 14:45:36
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Karis beth_K18 🍉🍉🇵🇸 :
Except they dont bring it up again. "will talk tonight" turns into weeks and weeks of nothing.
2025-10-26 22:28:25
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Stevi :
Avoid the avoidants. They’re the worst!
2025-10-04 21:33:59
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ALEJOPAISA :
@Santi
2025-10-18 01:04:48
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Sonam Lama :
Set a time limit. This is so important but nope they won’t do it. Sadly I am starting to shut down instead.
2025-10-04 21:42:10
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Papí J :
That’s what avoidants struggle with the most is circling back to the conversation . Like take space - but it’s your responsibility to come back to the conversation. If you don’t come back you are breaking trust.
2025-08-26 03:33:57
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_ :
I think they deserve to date eachother not other people or to stay alone. I dont think they deserve love at all tbh
2025-10-18 20:33:52
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