idk if this is a vent but watching your friends struggle while youre anxiously attached is so painful. Ive been so worried about them that i barely slept at night and constantly had nightmares. I genuinely felt so useless while watching them only get worse and worse
2025-08-22 16:20:13
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ilikebombs :3 [ she/her ] :
they have scars, divorced parents, has a homophobic father and a horrible sleep schedule. How am i suppose to help them? Even they don't want me to worry for them. I live so far away, meeting online is fun. Until they have problems. At this point, let me sacrifice my life for them.
2025-08-23 12:05:04
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chokmp :
Im a good listener I just can't provide good advice or respond to them
2025-08-23 03:14:07
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Jax's N1 fan :
She doesnt want help and she lives a state away from me so i cant do anything
2025-08-22 16:43:08
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Player :
these comments convinced me to stop venting
2025-08-23 09:33:08
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tdisco🏳️⚧️ :
kewl pfp twin 🥹✌️
2025-08-23 09:09:45
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Nyanrel #77 CLOCEAN FAN :
the thoughts of making them worse because of me instead of helping them keeps filling my mind everytimw i try helping, yet if i dont help them i feel so useless, selfish, and arrogant. i was just scared of my own words, my own actions, and my way of thinking
i cant help but to overthink after i tried helping, do they find my words helpful or hurtful? even if they say that it is helpful i just can't believe it, i keep re-reading the conversation, over and over again hntil i get sick of it, not stopping until i find one or none mistakes
2025-08-23 02:23:09
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♡﹒Toutoya ! 捷 :
Honestly I only continue to help if they put effort into getting better. Draining your mental and physical strength for someone that asks for advice, receives advice, and only coming back without even trying is NOT worth it, and I’m speaking from experience. To everyone out there that’s pushing their own limits for others, just remember that sometimes it’s okay to say no. You need space to say no to others to say yes to yourself. It seems selfish, but it’s called surviving. You can’t help others if you yourself is broken as well
2025-08-23 12:43:38
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✧◝M4RK-M4RK◜✧ :
I can't comfort people, but I give it my best to do so. I usually try to make them forget it or cheer them up. I feel so useless because I can't even give small advices to them. I feel like I'm not even helping whenever they do need help.
2025-08-23 06:37:43
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Inaya ۶ৎ (GCC&MOMONGAS #1FAN) :
I don't know how to help him other than comforting him I feel so useless
2025-08-23 13:57:30
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🏀~{0r!0n}~🌸⚙️ :
wait no that post is actualy me its me
2025-08-23 08:37:59
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ᶻ𝗓ᵎ 𖧷◟˚ . 𝔰𝔱𝔞𝔯 . ⊰⊹ ࣪ . :
I want them to get better.i know they r lying when they said they ate.if u see this please eat for me i know ur trying to get better bby
2025-08-22 20:25:19
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Otis (husbands number one fan) :
I can’t do anything i WANT too help them so much but I can’t give good comfort baby if your reading this im so sorry I can’t help properly
2025-08-23 13:12:13
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꒰ 🔑🌙 ꒱ 𓎡 Aux ˎˊ˗ :
Every time I give them advice they either give up immediately or don't even try
I cant help someone who dosen't seem to even want help, and when they lash out at me for it, It just hurts ykw 🥀
2025-08-22 17:34:36
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Milo!! [ NILES WIFE !! :D ] :
The only thing I can do is comfort them 💔☹️
2025-08-22 14:43:06
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Piratewaterlemons🌈 :
lampert mentioned...ಥ ‿ ಥ
2025-08-23 02:34:55
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Meko_kosia_hosimana :
Man their friendship ended because of uhm
2025-08-23 08:42:15
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Una :
you can't save someone who doesn't wanna be saved
2025-08-23 07:56:23
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^_^ :
silent repost
2025-08-23 04:01:32
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˙∘•★٭𝙼𝚒𝚛𝚊 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚛٭★•∘˙ :
I have this online friend and i wanna help them so bad.. Shes older then me and needs time off but i think im not doing enough to help
2025-08-23 04:50:18
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Hong lu plushie :
lowkey I don't care if they see this or not but the fact I'm also attached to them is another level of worrying like I barely sleep, and I always get distracted thinking a solution to their problems and trying to help them, but is like their not listening to my advices I just can't, I feel useless.
2025-08-22 20:11:30
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𖤐alien𖤐 :
this is kinda true cuz like when you try to help they always say there fine..
2025-08-23 08:22:31
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<3 :
sorry for venting but: im trying. i really am. i just wish she understood how much i love her to bits, and how awful id feel if she just… went. shes too young and she is a lot to me. if she did that to herself, i would tear myself apart and sew myself back together without organs. i wish she understood.
2025-08-23 01:48:27
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♥︎•{Alan}•♥︎ :
Everyone sees him as angry or aggressive, but he was the only one who has been honest with me all this time 💔
2025-08-22 18:16:31
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🎧🖍★彡ℂℝ𝔸𝕐𝕆ℕ𝔼𝔸𝕋𝔼ℝ彡★🖍🎧 :
i literally lost a friend who i saw grow up infromt of my own eyes and even at some point saw them as a child of my own get worse amd worse which evemtually led up to them doxxing my friends ☹️i was supposed to protect them☹️☹️
2025-08-23 08:05:51
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