@ask_julia: Want him obsessed with you? 👀 Here’s the truth: if he’s not your boyfriend, don’t treat him like one. When you stay busy, focus on your own life, and stop chasing, he notices your value. Pull back and let him wonder where you went… that’s when men come running. 💎 This video breaks down why giving too much too soon kills attraction and how holding your ground makes him want you more. #datingadviceforwomen #makehimobsessed #highvaluewoman