@ikerandasmith: Let’s talk about the middle daughter who just so happens to be the second in her struggles. Click the link in my bio to work with me❤️ Great news! I’ve opened a new Eldest Daughter class healing her relationship with (Food and Sex). It’s 4 weeks and I am only accepting 20 women (10 in each class). So first come, first serve. #psychologist #eldestdaughter #selfworthadvice #innerchildwork #selflove

Busisiwe*Sbiya :

I know a lot about my Mom, I wasn't close to her but I felt responsible for her ever since

Annie :

I’m the middle daughter that functioned as the oldest. Giving my mom and sister advice since I was 11. But I internalized the turmoil and did the people pleasing so I did nothing wrong so mom wouldn’t be stressed and I wanted out of that house. I worked hard, excelled academically, and am successful in my career. In my love life? Not so much.

Chloë Schlink :

I have no original experiences

Zinhle 🪷 :

I felt like I just heard the synopsis of my life 😭

Jacklin🫦 :

Being the middle child is honestly draining… it taught me so much and I’m the only person that can tell whenever anyone is off. It’s hard, but playing that role has taught me everything I need to know about people’s emotions

ausiemom79 :

What if you are the middle daughter, but the eldest daughter and mother have the priority relationship and completely emeshed. they use the middle daughter as their entertainment.

LadyAmalthea :

I'm the one who knows a lot of family secrets, yet nobody tells me anything. I see right through them and it's exhausting to be so skilled at taking everyone's emotional and moral temperature.

SoAllOver79 :

My sister (eldest daughter) looks at me like I was her enemy. And we have a little BROTHER. You already know... And we are all only 3 years apart. Me being grown grown now... My life is an emotional mess. I was the good, sweet, responsible one. They did what they wanted.

The Red Pomegranate :

Okay, you actually are healing me bc the whole Eldest Daughter stuff going on rn was triggering me HARD

kiagd :

If the family has 4 daughters, would middle apply to the 3rd daughter as well?

SH :

TANA :

I feel so seen

sandra mery :

That’s exactly how I felt! I was confused bc I felt like I was the oldest!! My older sister was like leaning and expecting of me and demanding of me.. sigh… and I was like a mom to my own mom!

KO$HER K🎶 :

I’m the middle daughter AND the eldest 😭

Brenda Carvalho 🌸 :

so true. I'm the middle daughter and I agree every word. My sisters use to hate me like cinderella's sisters...only because my mom trust me more than hers.

salima☆ :

Read me to filth

Diandrae Williams :

I'm the middle daughter. Everytime I have told someone in my family about a friend of theirs not being cool, they never listen. I get told I don't know how the world works. Then I point out that people would rather try Jesus before they try me.

Mokadreams :

So everything I’ve experienced has already been written down💙

Zali♡ :

well, damn Dr!

different.wrld :

Not me being 2nd and middle 😂 this is literally me on mom side vs dad side

Fine babe 😍 :

am the middle child i came to accept that the first born and last born are the kids and theres nothing I can do but to focus on my self more I used to feel unseen around my family but now as I have grown i made peace with that 😌 and that was the best decision ever and since then am happy 😊

Onalenna.Morris :

Oh -

StrangerDANGER :

I’m the oldest daughter and middle child 😭

sandra mery :

Oh wow and I’m the scapegoat too.