Agreed! Too many cases of male child hating the mum that stays, it is weird and unfair. However, I do believe it’s really hard to hate people that do not exist (the father). To be really disliked is to be known. For a more rigid hatred to be built, the subject will need to be present and be known
2025-08-23 22:57:28
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MidwestPudding :
The birthday thing would probably be the last straw. Maybe it’s just me but I’ve never seen women cut off long time friends over small stuff and it usually is after accumulation of stuff that took years. Also we have not to act like sleeping with someone adds a lot to the mix.
2025-08-24 12:04:57
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Sunny.2d :
Agreed! P.s, your voice sounds similar to Selena Gomez! I thought it was her for a second 😭🫶🏽
2025-08-23 22:40:20
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consiali :
Idk so much about the first point. Some girls def have that double standard but I think a lot of what you’re getting at here stems from the standard of intimacy/trust/connection being so much higher within female friendships so those kinds of betrayals hit different
2025-08-24 08:07:09
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junkshop :
I've really worked on this because I noticed I 100% gave men who treated me awful way too many chances, now I'm ✂️✂️off people regardless of gender, and now I can recognize internalized misogyny in others and move accordingly. It really changes everything.
2025-08-25 15:22:32
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Destyn :
Society Did a Number on us Bro 😔
2025-08-23 22:41:40
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Pinky :
As a queer person I wonder how this phenomenon pans out across the board. I definitely gave way more chances to ex's than friends, so I wonder if a lot of women are choosing the idea of love over friends vs choosing a man over women? Like do lesbians abandon their friends less, typically? 🤔 I think the result is largely the same but I wonder if for some, the reasoning has less to do with centering men, as centering monogamy (which is still patriarchy so yeah😅)
2025-08-25 11:20:16
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Baraka 420 knife hands :
amazing take thank you
2025-08-23 22:27:49
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gab :
You can just be aware of this internal bias and make better decisions every day- it’s really that simple. Give the women in your life the grace you give the men.
2025-08-25 22:31:55
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alexislexialexis :
THIS
2025-08-24 20:48:44
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Stacia 🫧 :
I 100000% agree. A lot of women have a scarcity mindset when it comes to men. They see friendships as easily replaceable but not romantic relationships that why they would NEVER hold their friends and partner to the same standards. Also why women tend to make their relationship their whole personality, removing themselves from their friendships and hobbies when in a relationship. Men would NEVER.
2025-08-24 16:29:19
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Mo 💌 :
Mmmmm….💯💯
2025-08-25 17:59:16
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🐘 :
You sound like Selena Gomez
2025-08-24 23:20:39
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