@claireauden: A few reasons your abuser's friends and family might take their side and scapegoat YOU. #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticrelationship #narcissisticabuse #abusiverelationship #abuseawareness
It's a blessing in disguise. Whoever takes the abusers side wasn't your friend to begin with. You get to filter out all the fake
2025-08-24 08:11:55
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karenwalder :
The family knows!They are all scared of the Narssatics!
2025-08-24 10:52:52
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Charlene Morgan :
My life since leaving the abuser 5 months ago. I wasn’t allowed a life apart from my relationship hence supply been well set up before I left. While it is filtering out those who weren’t really a friend it’s been heart wrenching having to see them in groups everywhere I go now like I never existed and them enabling her constant torture towards me this months and always there for her 🙈🥲
2025-08-26 06:50:49
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bailee :
literally had a friend distance them self from me today because of this exact thing. I'm so heartbroken.
2025-08-24 02:42:13
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Joolz Denby :
My abuser’s horrendous mother literally made him to the point he carries a terrifying imprint/introject of her in his psyche - when really angry he would literally sound exactly like her down to phrasing, spite, facial expressions etc. I used to say it was like being in a relationship with his mother.
2025-08-24 11:23:51
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Shanné :
They literally know he was cheating on me and didn’t tell me… it hurt my feelings SO much.
2025-08-25 04:03:17
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OnlyJessLoL :
I FINALLLLLLLY posted my ex stalking me for 3 solid years an 1% of the abuse and his family and friends r commenting 😈❣️🥰 on post that prove he's being abusive ...
2025-08-24 05:43:04
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DelilahJones14 :
Lack of empathy and fundamental entitlement and complete avoidance to the same level. Well said.
2025-08-24 03:52:41
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CassJ2023 🆘 🇺🇸 :
At some point, both of his parents told me, either wouldn't blame me if I left him or not to have kids with him.
2025-08-25 14:53:12
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Danipl3768 :
My ex was abusive, even my dad distanced himself from me. He said I was “trying” to be a victim. That shattered me almost as much as the abuse. We no longer speak.
2025-08-24 14:28:15
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SueMason! :
Can confirm.
2025-08-24 06:58:17
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747bubba :
Some of my ex’s family stayed friends with me after the divorce, she cut all of them off if stayed friends with me.
2025-08-24 02:07:12
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FollowMe4More :
Their just as guilty as the one committed the crime
2025-08-24 20:17:35
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Truther68 :
I'm trying to get out of a 26 yr narcissistic relationship and that's exactly what's happening to me.
2025-08-24 21:37:12
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Holly Angel :
They’ll tell the victim to heal, but never tell the abuser to stop abusing🙄
2025-08-24 18:19:27
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Constar :
He turned my family away from me and my friends have loyalty to him. I have cut everyone off so they can’t do his bullying by proxy. It’s like I saw this coming- but I didn’t. I’ve healed an let all go and stand by myself and nothing he does triggers me. It’s just awkward as we live separated under the same roof - coming up to 6 months not having spoke to each other. I’m standing in business as he always skirted over issues as if they never happened and never saw any accountability. I’m done done.
2025-08-24 03:09:30
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TheSoulsMidwife🩷 :
yep 100% even some of your own children because they will mirror them as they grow up and they will become them and then they don't see what's wrong with their behaviour even when you tell them no you can't treat me like that because it's learned behavior they learn from their role model so yeah we end up lonely and in isolation and escape goat💔
2025-08-24 06:54:17
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S.D’allanaman :
This helps, I was very confused as to why everyone took my husband’s side - when they were actually THERE and SAW & HEARD what happened. it makes sense, sad but true.
2025-08-25 17:49:40
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UFeelLikeIdo :
Real weakness, no super hero’s or characters in a story worth an interest. Could you imagine being born into that on both sides?
2025-08-24 14:43:53
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Auntie_Audhd :
My parents took his side too. 😳
2025-08-24 04:59:17
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Giftd Purp Official :
I wish I can send this to all her family and friends because this is so true!
2025-08-24 14:57:48
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Flick :
It still hurts that my family remain friends with my ex after his abuse🤯
2025-08-24 06:46:36
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Lotte Leers 🌸 :
This👏
2025-08-24 16:04:18
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Sheree che parties :
thats exactly what his mother inlaw and his step father who was a police officer done. as if you admit to one bad behaviour they would need to admit them all 💕
2025-08-24 13:14:22
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🇨🇦 Preska Ehm Dare 🇨🇦 :
Exactly. 💯💯💯💯💯💯
2025-08-24 14:16:21
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