Marky Hollett
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Sunday 24 August 2025 14:53:33 GMT
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lhh :
I disagree. I think as much as ppl lack accountability, in not hearing how hurtful they may be or whatever, I also believe if you believe they hurt you, for yourself you have a responsibility to say hey, i saw this that left me feeling like this, choice is urs to fix it til u do I'm not pursuing this anymore
2025-08-25 05:34:07
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Sharla :
Neither leads to a healthy relationship and 9 times out of 10 you do bring it up later only after she is communicating how you hurt her. That is gaslighting and the Worst thing you can do. It tells them their feelings don’t matter and you have been holding this thing over her head for a while unknown to her. You loose trust and she will not feel safe talking to you. Also have some patience. Sometimes it takes leangthy conversations and back and forth to come to a healthy accountability. My husband does this. And he says this about me. But really he just has never really learned to communicate his thoughts or feelings. It usually takes a little while of me coaching him to figure out what exactly he is feeling and why. And sometimes I still can’t figure it out. Especially when he can’t articulate a single time I did something that he was mad about. I have to have context. I can’t change a behavior if I have no idea what behavior is triggering him. But we stay patient with each other. That’s what love is.
2025-08-26 08:51:21
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C.J. Greene :
I agree! Healthy boundaries is necessary if people have toxic relational traits. It’s important not to abandon yourself and your peace just to save a relationship that is unhealthy for you.
2025-08-27 13:23:41
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Marius Marais473 :
imagine being out here telling everyone you told a person what to do to clear themselves of a situation and they did not listen but you do not say how your advice clears accountability for the person but puts it on someone else so the person rather stood their ground then put their problems on someone else it has become the norm nothing gets fixed people just take problems and place it somewhere else...out of sight out of mind if they suffer over there after you washed your hands of it
2025-08-26 04:29:03
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ShinigamiArmy :
didn't just make me feel like the problem. she said I was the problem to me
2025-08-27 19:48:23
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Absolutely Broken!! :
absolutely 💯 true facts
2025-08-25 09:29:45
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chriscrutch8 :
💯 People can only understand at their own level of perception. Some conversations if unhealthy is worth walking way if the person does not take accountability or gas light.
2025-08-26 23:47:03
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andrew_sears :
bottling it up doesn't help either. because then the reaction. is the problem...
2025-08-26 22:34:02
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moonjewelttv :
true in some cases
2025-08-26 10:51:57
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Boop :
avoiding accountability to protect peace leads back to the same problem. at some point... someone is going to need to be the adult in the room, because an avoidant lifestyle does not fix anything. it just keeps it over there... zero accountability.
2025-08-25 12:59:33
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@pj.megaw 🍉 :
And then when I tell you what you’ve done because I’m tired of trying to bring it up softly you don’t have the right to be offended. It took yelling at you to get what you’ve done wrong. Own up to it!
2025-08-26 23:45:07
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romulen :
I tried talking.he only hear himself.
2025-08-25 07:37:52
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Clarice :
took me years to figure this out
2025-08-28 00:45:21
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BlessedThankfulRedeemed🥰 :
nah... that's avoidance in itself. It doesn't matter how they receive it, you cannot blame them for problems you refuse to address.
2025-08-26 17:44:12
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Jessica Szucs :
This!!!🔥
2025-08-25 01:22:57
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honey :
Exactly he was like “I prefer If you communicated to me about this” situation or something like that
2025-08-24 14:57:28
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Dustin Shoulta :
Accountability for yourself is bringing it up regardless. If they deflect, or gaslight, or whatever, that's on them. At least you did your part for yourself 🤷♂️Them it's your choice on what to do after that.
2025-08-26 20:49:00
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. :
I had someone say this to me the other day after he stalked me to the store so he'd be able to "run into me" and I go "so, did you hear anything about me, then? he stammered and said "no, I'm just a Deacon. idk, nothing ever came up in our meetings."... lost all respect I will ever have for him. these same people get mad when I lie to them to prove they have hidden cameras in my house and stalk my every move
2025-08-25 07:36:52
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tribehuman1A :
I used to do that. So I understand why they do it. But I have changed. I evolved. I didn’t want to be like that anymore. Now it’s their turn. But then that takes self awareness and courage and self accountability, and the desire to unearth their long buried conscience and self correct.
2025-08-25 04:48:20
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Luci Stone :
Some think we all throw stuff back when it gets difficult . Love is something else.
2025-08-25 03:41:44
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🩵Noturbebe🩵 :
Im not the monster you made me out to be…
2025-08-26 05:35:27
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Fragment3dCrown :
Send this to her fyp
2025-08-26 13:24:28
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Chandler :
Just easier to stay silent.
2025-08-25 23:33:40
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Monica ruiz :
💔💔💔so true! My
2025-08-24 15:20:42
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Chad Alan :
Facts.
2025-08-26 14:47:39
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