@the.histamine.queen: I've witnesses this over and over with family members doing the least to look after grandparents, then getting praised for the tiniest thing. It's hard to watch when those that do the bulk of the caring go far more unappreciated and have to hear how thrilled they are with the lazy ones maybe occasionally dropping in for like... an hour... 😅 At work also I've seen this, when those that are the least reliable get so much leeway, and us the best behaved and most reliable get told off the exact thing but for us it was a mistake 😂 So demoralising 😀😀😀😀 #goldenchild #unfair #psychology

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sabs994
sab🍉 :
where my parentified first born daughters at 💔
2025-08-25 15:18:42
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_missasiaa
_missasiaa :
Fork found in kitchen
2025-08-25 09:28:28
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mua_knicole
Karla Nicole :
My mom with her 2 sons 😩😂
2025-08-26 02:20:05
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_chantsx
Chantsx :
Raise your hand if you’re an eldest daughter who didn’t need any studies to be carried out to know this, I’ll go first 🙋🏽‍♀️
2025-08-25 17:40:42
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miss.muneca
miss.muneca :
Ah yes…well, this generally explains the relationship with their sons…😭🤣💀
2025-08-25 22:01:34
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kaitlyn.marie91
Kaitlyn :
Who is an eldest daughter here??
2025-08-25 16:08:13
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umair..287
umair :
@mopar_nga this my mum with my sisters
2025-08-26 09:54:39
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michaeltellefsen93
OdysseusXI :
Tell me about it. Eldest of 8, literally my mum's carer, and I do probably 90% of the housework, etc. I'm always the first to get it in the neck, while the ones who sit about all day and do nothing don't even get a mention. But if I say anything, im causing issues and bringing stress into the house, im the one thats fucking stressed...
2025-08-26 11:49:53
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.sakma.18
.sakma.18 :
So dam fuckin trueee n if you are that child scroll down mf
2025-08-26 21:38:49
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masy8123
Stephanie 🍉 :
“We’Ve NeVeR hAd tO wOrRy aBoUt YoU” yeah I wonder why 🥲
2025-08-25 21:27:11
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lavenderfabuloso1
LavenderFabuloso :
Yup. My useless brothers get free rent, their car insurances paid for, their phone lines paid for, college paid for - me? I have to pay rent, I have to have a career, pay for my own car & phone lines 💀 I told my parents already to NOT look at me to take care of them when they’re old. Hope their lil investment with my brothers pays off ✌️
2025-08-25 14:38:28
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thefoamwitch
The Foam Witch :
I’m less demanding, more agreeable, younger and do more for my parents… I’m basically the lowest of the low compared to my brother who is always horrific to them but has given them a grandchild so he can do no wrong in their eyes…
2025-08-25 08:09:33
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socal_billybob
Billybob :
Ohhh that makes a lot of sense for rel.
2025-08-27 13:40:25
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the.manbl
the.manBL :
Also, I think parents view the weaker child as a reflection of their parenting skills. So they defend that child more to make themselves feel better.
2025-08-25 22:00:37
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aoife1988
Aoife :
yeah and they hate on the middle child that tries the most 😢
2025-08-25 21:34:22
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kymkayeduvibes
KymKayEduVibes 👩🏿‍🏫💜 :
sad truth
2025-08-27 03:51:16
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texasprisoner
texasprisoner :
oh, how true. lets not forget that they are the only ones parents listen to even when its terrible advice.
2025-08-27 04:15:52
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ello_loub76
Eloise444 :
I cut my parents off. Life is easier, happier and no drama from toxic people 🖤
2025-08-25 10:06:28
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ozzy1903otc
Lazyamerican :
Usually the youngest/last child
2025-08-27 20:16:46
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labeaudcolbert
Nefertiti :
It works both ways because at the same time the parent who does the lease is often the one that’s desired. No matter how much a mother does if the father is absent the child is always looking for the father and always blaming the mother rather than the father.
2025-08-26 10:05:47
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anotherbet
anotherbet :
And typically because of this the favored child/family member typically sees themselves as the one who is better, more responsible, more valuable, etc… than the one who does the bulk of the labor
2025-08-25 02:30:05
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maggieroxanne
maggie roxanne :
cries in eldest daughter 😭
2025-08-26 17:48:06
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aziahj
Journee✝️ :
I felt this so much. As the most responsible child, I rarely need or ask for anything. Suppose to be her “best friend” someone how out of all her kids she does the least for me, will jump for everyone else but somehow always leave me hanging. I really stopped caring and stopped trying 🤷🏽‍♀️
2025-08-26 14:47:42
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brittanyhollie
Brittanyhollie :
It’s true. My sister gets defended a lot and hasn’t ever lifted a finger to help.
2025-08-26 18:30:47
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ofclcharm
Ofcl_Marci :
This makes sense now
2025-08-27 15:52:55
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