@laniinadia: I think it’s strange you never knew #fyp#foryoupage

Ali. (Ollie) :

This is so real like communication is key but also why don’t u see how bad ur actions are without me bringing it to ur attention . Like it’s about consideracy too

favi :

that’s why communication is nothing without comprehension

️ :

it’s literally common sense

jazzmine🌺 :

I get this tbh but we cant expect our partners/ people (in general) read our minds and observe every little thing we dislike n like but overall I think comprehension n communication is key yes

Obito 🦆 :

now if the actions was reversed all of sudden they see dat 🧍🏻‍♂️🧍🏻‍♂️

— 🎧 ☆ 🌀 :

communication is healthy but there's also a point of consideration.. like the lack of considering how your words and behaviors affect other people leading to having to Constantly communicate upset makes it feel unhealthy honestly

🔮 :

Some people aren’t always ware that they’ve hurt your feelings, that’s why you have to tell them. If they’re doing it on purpose, that’s a different story

“ella” :

depends on the situation, but expecting someone to know why you were hurt by their actions is a reach. communication is key because its so important to talk about what actions you appreciate and what ones you would rather be hurt by. being able to have important conversations about how your perceiving everything is so so important so both parties understand you more and learn how to know you.

yaya ✿ :

i hate to correct them but if i don’t then who will. how will they know what their doing wrong

lia 🌀 :

it feels like its on purpose sometimes..

mya :

SHOULDNT U HAVE KNOWNNNN

sylv4yy :

i really do think it’s strange you never knew

Mel🎀 :

𝑴𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒂 :

like wasn’t that common sense:(

Emily :

Oh they know but they just don’t care 🤷🏻‍♀

zita :

this is so real I hate having to ask somebody not to treat me a certain way bc like.. why would u treat me that way in the first place

jordan :

crazy timing

🌞🍂𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐚🍂🌞 :

understanding is key

aoki’. :

hard truth i can’t expect everyone to act how i do or look at stuff like i do, because everyone isn’t me

sarah :

they KNOW

nev🌺💚 :

how does my fyp know

Markiee :

but also sometimes you don’t even know something will hurt you until they do it cause it’s different now 😭

Tata :

No they wouldnt have known, its just the way it is. We need to grow out of this idealised “if theyre the right one, theyll know” and you can sulk, you can be petty and passive aggressive and maybe theyll still not know but how can they? Just tell them

moon :

Self sabotaging 101, I 100% understand this mindset but y'all gotta realize that yes, even if YOU would pick up on this you cannot expect other people to be able to as well. Not everyone is like you and everyone has different sensitivity levels that's why it's so important to be open and communicate! I get the whole 'but they should have known' but this is like the most toxic and self sabotaging mindset you could have. It's so much more worth and beautiful if you are able to openly discuss the problem with whomever you're feeling this towards. "I would, so why can't you" is just self destructive and I hope that whoever feels like this, you will find the peace that you need 🥹🤍